okay there is this guy i like and a month ago he came to my party he was all over me at my party and i have only talked to him a couple times since my party and when i do talk to him its not alot i really like him and i want us to be more than just friends but i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to be gettin on his nerves because the day after my party my friend called him without me knowing and asked him out for me and he said he would think about it sometimes i think he likes me but he doesnt really show it and i dont know how to talk to him because hes the "gangster" type and i dont want him to think im stupid .. ughh what should i do?
If he can't take you talking to him like a normal human...he isn't worth it anyway! You don't even need a boyfriend you are unable to talk to.
I would imagine that under all the exterior gangster decoration he is just a normal guy. Treat him that way and you will get along fine. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 8:00 pm: try talking to him randomly. either like once a day, every other day, maybe get his # or his s/n. juss be yourself & become friends first. don't go straight for the bf thing, juss become friends. umm you probably won't get on his nerves if you talk to him once in awhile, but not all the time ya know?? try hanging out too. movies, dinner, etc etc. in big groups of course at first & then you guys can see how you go from there. after you guys become better friends & hang out then i'd let him know how you feel.
UHOHxOMFG answered Friday February 24 2006, 7:49 pm: well maybe sometime try to get him alone and ask him who he likes and find out if he likes you.. if he does like someone else say to him, "i just want to know something.. what we did at my party, did it like mean anything" and see what he says and then tell him that you still have feelings for him .. if he doesnt like you then just try to except it and stay close friends but if he does then ask him if you guys will ever be more then friends .. hope i helped <3 [ UHOHxOMFG's advice column | Ask UHOHxOMFG A Question ]
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