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ok! so i was goingout with this guy that i like LOVED and then he cheated on me and we broke up. He begged me to go back out with him and i said yes, i love him so much and he was being really sweet and stuff. its long distance and i love him but i want to get with other guys... what do i do?!
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well remember "once a cheater, always a cheater" in most cases thats true.
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Well, if he cheated on you, it's hard to take him back. But apparently you did. So, I would casually mention that maybe you should start seeing other people. If he doesn't agree, well, he can't force you to stay with him.
- Find comfort in your mother. Chances are she knows just what to do to make things better.
-If you are going to break up with someone and you know the other person does not want to break up, make a clean getaway - get straight to the point. The longer you talk, the harder it will be.
-Get out and do more fun things. Meet new people, get to know acquaintances better. It'll help build up your self-confidence, which is what you may need.
-What better thing to do than realize how many new options you just opened yourself to? Take advantage.
-Let him know how you feel. If there are some things that you want him to know, spill. Keeping it inside only makes matters worse. The biggest pain there is is the one inside.
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HM maybe y`all should try an open relationship? That way y`all get to "play" and still have love without cheating.
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Well I've been there and let me tell you, it is hard. Now the whole long distance thing? I've tried it and it doesn't work out great. But the whole cheating thing... I've had major problems with that too in my relationships. My last bf cheated on me prom night and then flaunted the girl in my face for two weeks before he came crawling on his knees trying to get me back. I loved him so much that I took him back. And I can't say that was a bad thing, but I couldn't seem to trust him after what he did to me, and it hurt my feelings so bad that he had no reason what so ever to do what he did to me. So I broke it off. If I were you I would try seeing if friends is better for you guys. If you guys are meant to be together you will be sooner or later. Time heals all pain and it is the best solution to anything. Just be patient and think things through. If you want to get with other guys, then put him on hold and try that. You will never know if there is someone else out there if you stay with him. Just give it a chance. Good luck and if you need anymore advice feel free to note my inbox.
~Sherah
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You guys need to talk..Long relationships don`t work very well cause your not able to see each other & its hard not to want to be with other people..If you keep yourself attached to this guy & don`t see him most likely he`ll do it again && Hurt you..I think dicuss just being friends until you guys are able to see each other more..
Seeing other people i think would be a good idea..
♥Dez
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ask him if he wants to see other people say you want to keep your choices open
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You tell him you still want to be friends. Message each other and all that if you want to.
But, since you live so far apart it really just isn't fair to either of you to consider yourselves Boyfriend/girlfriend.
You never know what the future has in store for you. Right now though you need to be able to go to school dances and all that fun stuff with someone closer to home.
Good luck! :)
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