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My friend Mike and I were at this school event called History Day (Science Fair except for history). I was bored, so I was hanging out with him and his friends. Then, his friend asked em if I like him and I said I don't know...and shrugged my shoulders. As I walked away, I looked back, and he was smiling at me. It's really obvious (though I haven't said it directly) that I really like him, but out fear of rejection, I semi-denied it. Do you think that I sent I like you vibes or I hate you vibes...and guys, what would you think of me now? Also, we flirt a LOT every day!! Thank you so much!

I don't think it be a hate vibe, i think he know you like him and he probably likes you so maybe flirt a little.
But no it shouldn't be a hate vibe. I mean you looked back lol so he kinda know you like him :P
h.i.h.

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I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice?

IT will come natural to you, and usually the right moment will come when you're both feeling it. So just be paciant and it will happen, and you wont mess up because its just natural to the human lol

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I'm a song-writer, guitarist, and vocalist in a Christian band, and I want some help getting subject matter for some songs, we really need something new and I'm running out of any good ideas. Anybody got anything that would be worth singing about in a southern-rock/acoustic style of music?

+_=_RoadkillSalad_=_+

humm... what about religion stories from the past? or.. even something traditional.

hope i helped some!
simone

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ok..i stole a bottle of perfume,earings,keychain,lipgloss,2 rings, (this was formyself) i also helped out my friend steal her stuff and she helped me steal mine. I never stole anything before..and im kinda feeling bad now. the stuff i took was probably worth $15 or $20 altogether. is there a way i can make myself feel better and get rid of he guilt..besides returning it. And is it true that people steal stuf until they get caught? because ii dont want to make a habitt out of this. have any of you stolen anything before?

lol when i was little, like 5 or 6, i stole something from a store... my mom somehow embarresed me enough to where i stopped... but he only thing you could do is return it... or make up a really good excuse that they would fall for when you do return it, just so that you wont get into so much trouble.
good luck, h.i.h.

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I'm very shy and quiet, and I not a geek or anything but I'm not exactly popular either. There's this guy that I think might like me.. but he is really popular and outgoing, so I'm not sure if he really does like me or if it's just my imagination. Is it possible for a popular, outgoing guy to like a shy, not-so-popular girl? What are the chances? I don't know what to do because of my uncertainty.. should I flirt back or not?? Thanks in advance!! :-)

Yes it is possible.
The chances... that's depending if the guy cares about his popularity or the girl...
But yea if you like him too flirt back and see what happens!
Good Luck to ya!

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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me???

There's nothing wrong with you. If it's yor first it will be irregular for a few months to a year. So no worries.

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What would you do if you had a major crush on your best friends boyfriend?

Humm... well id secretly crush on him, because you don't want to make your friend mad while she's going out with him.
It's kinda tough really because, i mean she dates him and all but maybe when they break up you can mention a little bit with how much you like him and all, hopefully she'll understand, if she's a good friend she will.
hope i helped
S1M0N3

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im really worried about my best friend she sleeps with anyone and anything that moves last week she slept with 5 different guys than last night at a party she slept with 3 guys gave head to 1 and let that guys brother go down on her and hooked up with my close mate now she saying she wont hang around me unless i change im out of ideas of things to do.

Well if she wants you to change then she aint a good friend. Friends should like you for you and not for who they want you to be so i say ditch her.

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im 13 and im male. can anyone tell me some makingout tips. highly rated.

just go SLOW. You dont wanna scare her off moving fast. Make sure your breath smells fresh and dont stick your tounge down her throught we girls dont like that to much lol
GOOD LUCK!

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I think my parents went through my purse! I came home last night and my purse was on my bed and it was opened! I feel violated, and hurt because i dont know why they would feel the need to do that. should i wait it out..because maybe if they went through my purse then they would talk to me about it soon? or should i confront them? if it ends up they didnt look through it they would think im paranoid and think i mmight have something to hide right?

thats all true but if you want to know just ask them if they went through your purse. IF they did then you can ask why, but dont approach in a way that will make them think you have somthing to hide.
h.i.h. and good luck!

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

well you definatly dont wanna get the braces linked, that wouls sux. So play it safe and wait till you get them off.
Good Luck!

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

I think its perfectly normal!

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Hey, I might be going to meet Nicky Hilton tommorrow [if you don't believe me don't bother commenting because I will not rate you highly]. What should I wear? I was going to wear my THAT'S HOT tshirt with a Juicy sweatsuit set, but I thought it might be cheesy, considering Paris says that! Thanks ♥

Wear somthing kool, stylish, and be yourself. They seem nice too so they should'nt mid to much about what you wear, but i'd go for something cute, stylish, you, and IN.
Have Fun!
tell me how it goes ;)

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i babysit this 11 yr old boy, max and i am 13/f he is taller than me and is quite mature for his age. the thing is latley he's been acting really strange. he asked me if i had my period yet and i tried to change the subject but he was persistant. oh, and the other night we were watching a movie at his house (lion king) and he is younger than me so he like layed down on me and pretended to be asleep. then i fell asleep too. when i woke up he was like all over me and touching my boobs. i dont know what to do. his parents pay well and i need the money badly. should i tell his parents, will they hire me agian? should i talk to him? HELP!

Um... grl he likes you... and maybe he just wants to have sex... which is likly for the guys around that age... my bros going through it, sometimes it freaks me out lol but i think you should talk to him about it first and if it doesnt get better talk to you his and your parents about it.

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Anyone know were/how I can make a *FREE* website on my own..Like I can have links to other pages like one link could be my pictures (but on the same site not linked to a site where they are) and another link could be ramblings..its not exactly a journal but idk exactly what it is either..can someone please help me! I love making sites taht have already been made for me,but I want to make my own! ** I rate high **

I make sites on freewebs.com and geocities.com
there's probably more our there but that you would have to search in google.
h.i.h.

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how can you find your bra size? like is there a way to measure yourself? maybe with a tape measurer or something?

Measure with one of those benable tape measurers... and measure below you boob. IF it a regular # like lets say 36, then you add 4inches. and if it has a # like 36 1/2 then add 5inches to it. and thats your bra size.
And with the A, B, and C's ect. that's not to hard to figure that out lol. But h.i.h.

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Does anyone know where I can get some good quality (preferably with an underwire), but inexpensive bras? (like under $20)

Walmart, Target, Gap, Old Navy, Koles.
I get mine at Walmart and Target and they are really good quality and cheap! Try it!

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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do...

Well they are probably jelouce that you make better grades then them and that you are secure with yourself un like them. But the best thing to do is just ignore it. Think on the positive side about it or talk your self into it as like they're saying, that you're better than them.
Its worked for me!
good luck!

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besides babysitting, what are other little ways of making money at age 14, and also besides getting a real job (bc my mom won't let me)

Lemonade Stands... lol specially during the summer. Car Washes, dog walking, or dog sitting (there you make alot)
I'd go for the Animal sitting and babysitting. You get paid the most.

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I baby-sit this five yr old grl. She's a nice person when there are grown-ups around. And I get paid good money and her mother is so sweet. In fact, her mother is my pastor's daughter, and they both been good to me. But the little girl aint at all what i thought. she is so worsesome. she is the most whiniest little girl i ever met in my life. she's obsessed with thats so raven and watches it all the time. she bugs me about going outside in the rain and she insults my sisters. and she's only five. how do i handle her without losing my job. because i couldnt quit and do that to her mother. the girl is a handful

the girls spoild! you have to let her know who's the boss otherwize she'll just run all over you and thats not pretty if shes only 5. i had to deal with this not to long ago. But its basically like a dog, you gatta tell whos boss. And some stuff you just gatta ignore... like her insulting your sister. And its ok if shes obsessed with Thats So Raven cause at least she gets sidtrackted for a while.
feel free to leave me one in the inbox if u have anymore questions.
simone

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