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Make out or miss out?
I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice?
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Just simply tell him that your still waiting for that first kiss.
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Its okay to feel like that! Just make the first move or wait for him I guess. Its no big deal and you wont do it wrong. It doesnt matter who goes first. x0
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Its normal to be scared of your first kiss. Just pluck up the courage and kiss him, Do it when he least expects it and then once thats over with you will be alot less shy. Go got it!!!
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It's normal to be scared about your first kiss. The reason it hasn't happened? Your boyfriend is probably scared, too.
It's hard to mess a kiss up. Every person you kiss during your life will be different from every other person, so in a sense every kiss with a new person is like a first kiss.
Kisses can be messy or scary, but they're also exhilarating and special with the right person.
The only way to get over your fear is to pucker up and realize that a kiss doesn't have to be intimidating. Your boyfriend is obviously a sensitive guy, and not rushing you into anything, so I don't think you have to worry about impressing him with your expert skills.
Kisses happen on a learning curve, and the only way to figure out how you like to kiss is to practice on someone you care about.
So - your options are to wait for him to make a move, which will eventually happen...you might just have to wait a few more months. Or you can be a liberated type of girl and make the first move.
Either way, best of luck.
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When you told him that you won't make the move, he heard you say, "You're not worth the effort and I expect you to cherish me, but not the other way around."
Just get it over with and kiss him! Trust me, once it's over, you'll be amazed at how not-scarey it is.
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IT will come natural to you, and usually the right moment will come when you're both feeling it. So just be paciant and it will happen, and you wont mess up because its just natural to the human lol
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Don't be so nervous about it, the more comfortable you are, the better. Maybe when you two are alone, like at the movies or at one of your houses, just kiss him on the cheek and cuddle with him a little bit, grab his arm or something. He should get the message, if he doesn't make a move on you, then you've already broken the ice a little so it's less pressure on you. Chances are you won't do anything wrong and if you do, it's not that big of a deal, nobody's perfect on their first kiss. Hope I helped. -Angel
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what i think you should do is just go in there!!GO FOR IT!!you might not have the opportuinity agian...YOU LIVE ONCE!!do what your heart says...ands thats it!!just follow your heart...trust me it works
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ask him to kiss you or write him a note or send an e-mail that says you want him to kiss you.
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Well I think that a kiss is well . . . a kiss i mean seriously your first time having sex is supposed to be special your first kiss can be too but its not something to obsess over just kiss him and make sure u kiss good here are some tips:
1.Massage the guys tongue with yours
2.Occaisonally softly and gently suck the guys tongue.
3.Grab the boy and get super close to him while you're kissing him for ex:like wrap your arms around him and press your body against his then y'all will develop a more deeper steamier passion for each other.
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
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by the way how old are you? okay anyways just talk to maybe he is waiting for you to remind him and maybe he is scared to because he knows you never kissed someone before
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when u r alone, start talking to him and alow yourself to glance at his mouth the back at his eyes a few times. be kinda close, like a 1/2 ft. away. hopefully he will get the message. maby he is just nearvous and he wants to like, i dont know, make your first kiss the best. hope i helped
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First, let me start off by saying that i am not gay, but i have been in your shoes and let me tell you from experiance that making the first move is not as bad as you would think. But if it has been a month mabe the two of you should sit down and talk about it and decide if you really want to take it to this level. hope i've benn helpful. write back and let me know how it worked out
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I know you might have heard this from other people..and you might want to know an exact way to do it..but really..going with the flow and doing whatever is natural is the best piece of advice i can give. All you need to make sure you do is to have nice smelling breath, and lips that arent chapped. hes probably shy too..althouh guys traditionally are thought to always make the first move..this isnt true! they get shy..and soemtimes the girl needs to steer the guy in the right direction by making the first move. Just try and relax and truist that you wont mess up..you wont be a hollywood kisser..and he wont be either..so dont worry! hes probably worried about messing up too..so try your hardest not to be scared..because hes your bf! he obviously likes you..and wants to kiss you..so go for it..you'll be so happy you did :)
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