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On Friday my school is having talent show auditions. The problem is we were notified on Friday of this. So this gives my friends and I almost no time to get a decent act together. We were planning on dance but we cannot because we are always busy and if we want a good dance it would take several days to make up. I play the piano and can sing but I am not the best at either. I also play the clarinet but without other insturments it would sound too swqueaky. So my question is what should I do for the talent show? Should I try and get a dance together, play piano, or sing? Or should I just play the clarient? Thank you for your help. (link)
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a suggestion would be for and your friends to find a nice contemporary song that you can play on the piano and that you can sing, and your friends can be backup singers or backup dancers or both and try that. Once again just a suggestion
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ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean! (link)
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well you should try and see if any one you know has spoken to her and see if you could get some information on her so you can attempt to contact her
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okay well yeah i'm a 13/f and i have this really close friend that goes to school with me! we are really close we talk about everything. we stay on the fone late and just never get tired of each other. well i just noticed yesterday that he gets mad or jelous when i talk to guys but he never admitted to likeing me he always say i just like you as a friend. but the thing is is that i like him more than just a friend. what do you think i should do (link)
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you should just pull him to the side one day or wait till you are alone and tell him what you just told me.
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This is a VERY long story so bear with me.
My father got re-married about three years ago. The woman he married, Karen, was perfectly nice until their wedding day, when she did a total Jekyll and Hyde (sp?) and went totally psycho. She started taking my stuff, hiding it or ripping it up, but never admitting that it was her. For a couple of years now my father's side of the family accused me of making it all up. However, about a year ago now, Karen sent a completely bitchy email, the details of which I won't bother going in to, which meant I stopped seeing her and my father's side of the family. Since then she has sent many more nasty texts and emails accusing me of all sorts and threatening to take the child benefit away from my mother, etc etc etc (I am aware that she couldn't legally do this).
Recently, her 'psycho stuff' has become a lot worse. She started sending odd letters - the address on the envelope disguised as a child's writing and saying on the back of the envelope, 'from Ryan' (Ryan is my younger cousin). Inside would be photographs of me, often cut up so I am the only one in the picture, and stuck onto a background of coloured card or paper. We knew she must be sending these because she is the only one, other than my father, with the access to these particular photographs (me on holiday with my father and Karen).
So, my (paternal) Nan confronted her and Karen has admitted that she sent the letters. She says it is because my father goes to work away a lot and she gets 'bored'. I personally feel that that doens't even qualify as an excuse to do what she has done - for weeks we had been terrified of who these letters were from, and I'm still scared to go out of the house (even into my backgarden) on my own incase she is lurking around.
Karen has since written a letter of apology to my mother's parents. WHY she sent it to them, I have no idea. My grandad doesn't want to take any further action, but there is no way that I am just sitting here and taking 'I was bored' as an excuse for putting my family through all the crap she has over the years (I have only mentioned a small amount of what she has done here). But what can I do?
She begged my grandad to NOT tell me and my mother that it was her who had sent the letters, but of course we know because WE figured it out in the first place. So, I think that if I do do anything, she will think my grandad has told me she did it, or my mother has put me up to doing whatever I would do. That means she might well hurt my grandad or my mother (I wouldn't put it past her - please no-one reply saying 'she wouldn't do that' because you don't know this woman. I do).
My mother thinks that I deserve an apology, not only from Karen but from all of my father's family for not believing me in the first place, but to me, 'sorry' just wouldn't cut it. 'Sorry' isn't a big enough word to make everything she has done go away. But what can I do? I know I could go to the police but my grandad doesn't think I should take any further action and I don't want to hurt or disappoint him. But on the other hand, there is NO WAY I am taking 'I am bored' as her reason.
There is also the problem that she doesn't know that me and my mother know she is the one who sent the letters. My father also doesn't know a THING about the letters yet, and although I don't get on with him, I want him to know - I'd want to know if my wife was doing something like that.
So, in summary, my question is: What can I do? Because there is no way I will do nothing. And how do I let Karen know that I know what she did? What else could I 'get out' of her other than an apology, something I don't want as I know it would mean nothing (she's already apologised to my grandparents, as I said, but that was only to stop them telling my father).
Sorry this was so long, and thanks in advance for any help. I'm fifteen, female, and don't see any of my father's family other than my Nan, if that helps.
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there is no question about it. You need to go to the police and tell them what her crazy ass has been doing. and if you still have them, take some of the letters with you as evidence. If you do that, im not sure what will happen to her exactly, but i am positive that it will be more than telling you that she is sorry and the whole family will have to eat crow for not beleiving you when you told them what was going on.
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there is a new girl in my class and she is taking over my friends. my friends act like they dont want me around anymore.what should i do? (link)
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Go over and talk to the friends while they are hanging out with this girl and see how they treat you. if they act like they dont know who you are or they act like they are annoyed by you, then they are not your true friends, and you deserve better.
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Hi,
I get a LOT of pimples on my chin and it like sucks loads! I never ever pick them or anything but they always scar, no where else on my face, just my chin. Why is this and what can I do to get rid of the scars? I don't wanna buy loads of expensive treatment things. (link)
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the best thing i know to do is to go to the store and buy a tube of this cream called Mint Julip Mask. Its green and it dries the pimples out without drying out your intire face. Then get you some Coco Butter lotion and rub it on your face daily, it is made specifically for scars and skin discoloration. Both treatments are very inexpensive and work very well. I've used them.
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Ok, here goes. This might be a long one so please bear with me!
My friend Mike and I were at this school event called History Day (Science Fair except for history). I was bored, so I was hanging out with him and his friends. Then, his friend asked em if I like him and I said I don't know...and shrugged my shoulders. As I walked away, I looked back, and he was smiling at me. It's really obvious (though I haven't said it directly) that I really like him, but out fear of rejection, I semi-denied it. Do you think that I sent I like you vibes or I hate you vibes...and guys, what would you think of me now? Also, we flirt a LOT every day!! Thank you so much! (link)
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Me personally being a guy, it would only make me more interseted in you if i liked you already and you just played hard to get. so just keep playing and see where it takes you.
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ok..i stole a bottle of perfume,earings,keychain,lipgloss,2 rings, (this was formyself) i also helped out my friend steal her stuff and she helped me steal mine. I never stole anything before..and im kinda feeling bad now. the stuff i took was probably worth $15 or $20 altogether. is there a way i can make myself feel better and get rid of he guilt..besides returning it. And is it true that people steal stuf until they get caught? because ii dont want to make a habitt out of this. have any of you stolen anything before? (link)
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About two weeks ago i was in a situation where i went against my mothers wishes and gave a certain person a ride, because they said they needed to pick up there check. well they ended up stealing money from me and buying drugs with it. even though i didnt have any part of that, i was still wrong by disobeying my mother and i felt horrible for a few days. well i finally prayed to God and told him i wouldnt do it anymore and i talked to a freind of mine about it and i began to feel better and finally the whole problem went away.
hope that story helped you.
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I'm a song-writer, guitarist, and vocalist in a Christian band, and I want some help getting subject matter for some songs, we really need something new and I'm running out of any good ideas. Anybody got anything that would be worth singing about in a southern-rock/acoustic style of music?
+_=_RoadkillSalad_=_+ (link)
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I dont know how easy it would be to write, but why dont you try to colaborate with your band members and write a song about the recent tragedy at Lakewood high school and other teen age issues that are happening in the world and how we as christian teens should band together and help to at least try and influence someones decisions in a positve way
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I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice? (link)
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First, let me start off by saying that i am not gay, but i have been in your shoes and let me tell you from experiance that making the first move is not as bad as you would think. But if it has been a month mabe the two of you should sit down and talk about it and decide if you really want to take it to this level. hope i've benn helpful. write back and let me know how it worked out
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