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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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Hello*

Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.

Brenda***

Well it sounds like your in love. If you can't stop thinking of him and always talking about him, its love!! Hope I helped!

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I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke?

Yes its ok. Diet doesn't have sugar and sugar is the hormone that produces fat. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i have the hicups what should i do to get rid of them please help i really really need it and i need it bad because i have them for like fifteen hours

Stand on your head for 15 minutes while drinking a glass of water. It may sound wierd but it works. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok so im going to be a freshman and i want to dress really good this yr but i dont want peole to think im al self absorbed bc im not! i just want to look nice but not snobby bc i want to meet some new people
thanks!

Maybe just wear a cute t-shirt and a mini skirt one day and wear a shirt and pants the next. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok so this yr im a freshman & the 1st day i have to bring EVERYTHING! i mean biders books supplies, gywm clothes, gym shoes,,its ridiculous! whats the best way to get it all there without lookin lik a total nerd in front of my new school?!?!

Don't bring it all at once. Maybe bring your binders, pencils and notebooks and gym clothes the next day. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I'm the same person who asked how i could persuade my parents to let me keep my brother's dog while he is forced to live in hawaii(military orders). My brother and I decided to talk to our parents(for the third time) and my dad was cool with it but my mom wasn't. Everything got out of control and my mom and my grandmother got into this violent argument and my mom was close to killing my grandmother. My mom saids that my brother deserves the pain of his problems just because my brother is taking a while to pay her back cuz he doesn't have much money rite now. To her money comes before family so itz her #1 priority. So my mom threatened to pack up and leave home forever if the dog moves in. I'm so upset and stressed out. what should I do?

Talk to her some more. If she doesn't love you enough to keep your dog for you, then ask one of your relatives if you can stay with them. When she cools down, consider moving home. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks!

If you like him, you might try to get to know him better before the end of the night. Then when the timing is right, tell him. He may be flattered. And with the ex, try to get away from the party to tell him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?

Wait to date untill your older. Most guys stay jerks forever. There are precious few guys out there that can carry on a conversation without talking about sex. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I am having some friends over today and there gonna be over for like 5 hours before our cheer practice and I have no idea what we can do I don't have a pool just a trampoline I mean I live in a place where we can go for walks and stuff but thats boring anty ideas on what we can do? I'll rate high

Maybe take a drive to the mall or take a walk or take turns on the trampoline. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok.....i think that black guys are sooooooo much hotter the white guys. i'm white. i would love to go out with a black guy cuz they are over all soooooooooo much better. but if i did my parents would kill me!!!! any advice? i give 5's!!!

Any reason? Well just explain to your parents that you like black guys better and if they love you they'll understand. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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my friend goes to a different church then i do and she met this guy there named cory, and they see each other alot and i rele want to meet him and my friend likes him alot and even though i dont know cory i still like him i have dreams about him and i cant control them. there not like normal dreams there more like im in some kind of novel and cory is the man of my dreams and we have sex and everythings okay im just rele confused about my feelings. I like Cory alot from the way he`s describes and like what he does but i dont want to hurt my best friends feelings and i promised her that i wouln't steal him from her. (guys tend to like me more than my friend) So can u plz help me and dont say anything like thats retarded or stuff like that i rele need help

I RATE HIGH

thx in advance
my love michelle

Well if she's your friend you wouldn't move in on her guy. Do something together the 3 of you and let them have their time together. Your guy will come. Untill then, be patient. Guys don't like a girl who are persistant in getting their attention. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help!

What makes you think you need a boyfriend? You're so young. You probably hear that a lot. Don't rush life. If you really can't handle not being with this boy, just say to your mom please try to understand that I have a boyfriend. We won't do anything nasty but I wanna be with him. Hopefully she'll understand. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok this will be long but please help me out here....

Last summer my mom and I went to canada to visit her best friend (scince high school)she has two sons. we had a good time and stayed over a night. and then we left I never really knew the dad but i said hello cause he had known me scince i was born.
so we left and about six monthes later we got a call from linda thats her name, and she said that her husband had died and that it was a car accident and that he didn't suffer but we were all sad and i was too and i thought that maybe they would come to visit us but for a long time they didn't

Then about five monthes later she calls and says she is coming down with her kids who are ages 17 and 14, and they will be staying near our house and will come to visit us and im so scared because i wont know what to say and what to do. What if they start to cry how do i act what can i say to keep their mind off of the subject?

and what are good conversation starters i feel so bad for them but it will be terrible if i just come out and say it!

someone please help me ill rate a five for good advice.

Just start up a conversation saying, How are you this fine day? Its normal for them to grieve for their daddy. Give it time. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been into it last night and pretty much all of today. The thing is, I think I really get jealous too easy when he talks to other girls. Heres the thing. It may be long, but I need help. Alright he kinda cheated (what I consider cheating) on me with some girl at his church and I asked him last night if he had talked to her since we had gotten into it about that. He said that last SUnday she asked him a question in front of the sunday school class, and he didnt want to seem like an asshole to everyone, so he just answered her and carried on a conversation. The thing is, I just wanna know if I have a reason to be mad about that. Part of me just wants to think he was just being nice, but then again, why wouldnt he just ignore her or say "why do you care?" I really need help... and I rate 5s! Thanx

You definately have a reason to be mad. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he really loves you, he wouldn't do that kinda stuff to you. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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hey i was wondering if anyone knows any sites to pimp out myspaces with glitter and graphics and stuff like taht doll quotes ill rate 5s if you have good answeres

starlightmks.com. There's lots of glitter stuff and sayings on there. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

That is serious and unhealthy. When you don't eat, your body feeds off its fat stores. You have to eat and if you think you're overwieght, try excersizing more often. You'll feel better about yourself. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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can any one give me good songs

about loving someone and trying to get over them and your sad stuff like that

(techno would be good)

My happy Ending- Avril Lavigne

Addicted- Simple Plan

Lonely- Akon

Good luck! Hope I helped!

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well i have been crushing on this guy at my school name Shaun. i have liked him for two years now, but i'm not sure if he really knows i like him or if it's a trick that his sister is playing on him. even though he broke my heart when he turned my down at the school dance i still like him alot. why won't he talk to me?

Guys get shy around girls too. Talk to him some more. Maybe ask him why can't the two of you be friends. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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wat does masterbate mean? I have seen it in tons of advice columns and I don't know what it means!
i dont need to no but i am curious

Mastrubating is playing with your privates to see what it feels like. Hope I helped!

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im going to a new skool this year and i never had to be the " new kid " i've went to the same skool my whole life and never had to adjust to new surroundings or make new friends. is it hard to be a new kid? and im sorta shy so is there a easy way to make freinds? i have some old friends at this skool but im new at having to make freinds, i never had to do that!! is it hard to make freids? ne one HELP!!!! i'll rate high. if it's easier you can e-mail me at big_brat5@yahoo.com thanx

It can be hard but you get used to being the new kid. Just introduce yourself to people in the school and who knows. You may become friends with some of them. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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