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Ok, I really like this guy. Only the problem is, he hates my guts. I used to hate him too. I was in like 3rd grade when i started to hate him and he started to bully me. Now, i'm 13 and I really like him,but he only dates girls older than him and he's dating some high schooler. My friends tell me to forget him. He's... how should I put this... a bad boy. But i still like him. I'm a not too into dating things. I've only dated 3 times since 5th grade. My first experience was bad. My first boyfriend physically hurt me, but anyway, I want to date this new guy, but he hates me, what do i do?! (link)
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To make you feel comfortable, I like a guy and I think he hates my guts too!
Call this guy and talk to him. Get to know him. Become friennds and don't date yet. This lets you to get to know him better and maybe he sees who you are and might change his mind.
It's difficult to answer this question because he dates women older than him. All you can do is try getting him to notice you. If it doesn't worrk, sadly, you should forget him. It's difficult, I know! It takes months! My little story is that this guy is a bully also and I didn't know he was a dating person because he never got girlsfriends. Probably because he was a mean guy. I decided to give up on him...it took me 5 long months!
Don't strain yourself by getting this guy. Guys are like cars! If you like it, you want it. If the car is bad and isn't good, you throw it a way!
Good luck! Being single is a good thing...it takes a while to get into a women's brain though.
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while having sex what does it mean to ride on a guy? like i think i know kinda what it is but hhow exactly do you do it? and does it really hurt more? (link)
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The guy lays down. The girl is on the guy. Simple as that! The girl goes up and down. It depends on the women if it hurts or not. To know, just experience. It might hurt if you don't do sex much.
If you want, here are a good list of sex positions and pictures. (Drawings, not prono)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_positions
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okay. im 14/f, and i have a huge problem. my boyfriend is really shy, and i dont know what to talk about around him.(im kinda really shy too.) like, what if i want to start kissing him? how should i do that?(im obviously not experienced)thanks. (link)
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Being shy is a difficult thing to cope. If you don't know what know what to talk about, maybe you guys aren't meant to be bf/gf. Not to make you feel bad, here are some topics you can talk about.
-Favorite Songs, Music, Color, Hobbies, etc. Get to know him real good!
-Family Members is a good thing to understand about his past and future.
-Beliefs is a minor thing but is a good way to think how he thinks
-School. Sounds lame but it goes far. Talk about favorite teachers and stuff.
-Embarssing stuff. There is no better conversation than expressing what you've done. This make you feel better and him. This makes you guys cloes and this conversation can be a long one!
If you are shy talking to him, call him on the phone. Text him. E-mail him. IM him! Anything. However, you can't be a bf/gf is you do that. Talk person to person because that makes the moment real specail!
If you aren't experienced that's okay. It just depends your comfort zone. If you feel like to kiss, just don't dive! He's shy too. Whisper in his ear (this makes the moment romantic) and ask him Can I kiss you? It sounds werid but at least he knows whats coming! Even though he's shy, he might have feelings that he wants to kiss you...just too shy.
Good Luck!
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i just moved a few days ago to a totally different state and i don't really have friends..how do i make friends without seeming needy or like a loser? (link)
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Moving to a different town is difficult. Moving to a different state is even harder. It's difficult to make friends when the people you are going to be around are way different from you. However, there is no worry! Remember when you were little and to make friends is to be yourself. If the people think you are a loser, it's their fault, not yours! It just depends on the friend and their perspecive. To make friends is to be yourself!
If there are any girls at your new school or something, just talk to them. Other people enjoy someone to talk to when they don't belong. It takes a little while to become friends with new people, but the more you get to know about that person, the better!
Don't worry about other people. You seem to worried about how they think of you. What if I'm too needy? What if I'm a loser? Your overreacting! Stick to the simple plan, BE YOURSELF. It's hard becaues you want them to like you. Well don't pretend your someone else. This only leads to friendships dying. They see another side of you and don't want to be friends with you. To make you feel good, if your yourself, then there will be girls that want to be your friend and you know that they are truly your friend because they like who you are. Good luck!
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How can i change my network and how can i make my account private?
thanks (link)
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top left of the page: account -- > "tabbed at the top kinda" networks
you should be able to figure out how to change which network from there
privacy (next to account) --> profile --> the first box, set it as only my friends
that should have helped you if it didnt feel free to talk to me on facebook!!
http://hs.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1223791389
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ok i want a myspace, im 14 and i think im old enough to know what is out there. my mom has been thinking about it for like 3 days and still picks out all the negative things about it, there are more positive. what should i do to help my mom know im old enough to have one? (link)
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tell your mom what you can do to keep yourself safe
say you wont put your location, school,last name, etc.
tell her youll make it private and wont add people unless they PERSONALLY know you.
and if your willing tell her she can check it once in a while..
hope i helped
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My boyfriend is going to parties since school has ended. You know? Those high school parties and then he talks about going to those college parties. It really bothers me a lot :[ He's quite handsome and I'm sure he wouldn't do anything with other girls.. but girls have always flirted with him and tried to do stuff. I don't want something to happen. I know.. he's going to get high, drunk and whatever. It bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do... I'm afraid something might happen.
But I know that I can't tell him.. he can't go.
Is there anyway that I can distract myself? (link)
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hey
girl, if he messes up & he does stuff with another girl, it's HIS loss, not yours. i know it's hard to keep your mind off, but i'm sure you are a beautiful, smart, friendly girl that guys would die to date. but honestly, if he decides, "ehh i don't really care about her" you shouldn't care one bit. although, you should definitely clarify that you don't want him doing stuff at the parties, just so he knows you're aware of it.
all in all, act like you don't care when you do. if you find out he did stuff, let him go. & don't talk to him again cause he's not worth it. and it was a choice he made.
if he really really likes you, he won't do anything stupid. but honestly, what are the odds that he won't even look at a girl? if a bunch of hot guys were surrounding you at a party, wouldn't you feel the urge to do something despite the fact you have a boyfriend? he is probably going to at least flirt back, but if he does more let him go.
if anything suspicious happens after the parties, like he stops calling and stuff, i'd definitely talk to him about it.
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WEll, i don't think i'm over weight, but my stomach is like huge. can you please tell me how to get my stomach down and not so huge?
Also i have been eating every 2 hours, and small portations, is that gonna help any? (link)
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hey
do sit-ups & crunches to obtain nice abs & get rid of the fat. eat healthy & YES DEFINTELY. eating small portions every two hours is really really good cause your body can burn the food quickly & it speeds up your metabolism. you're truly off to a great start! keep it up and you will lose your belly in a couple weeks.
cut out junk food, soda... candy, chips, etc. & replace them with fruit & veggies. drink lots of water. 64 oz.
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I am a 17 year old female who is dating over the internet a 14 year old male who lives in Texas. I live in Canada. We have been dating for over a year now. I was wondering. Because we can't have sex and the law in Texas were as it is legal if there is a 3 year age differance. Is it legal? And could criminal laws get in the way? We are very much in love.
Thankies (link)
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if u guys dont have sex it doesnt matter
you could be 40 and he could be 10. as long as you dont have sex or kiss
once you guys both are over 18 then you guys can have sex but till then you should wait which doesnt seem hard since you live in different countries
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hey i need to get some new ring tones....
but i am not paying the 4 freaking dollars they charge...
so does any one know of a place that i can get freee ring tones...
please.. (link)
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freeringers.net costs 8 dollars but you get UNLIMITED ringtones like its not a monthly subscription. its a one time thing. so 8 dollars for any ringtone, as well as unlimited graphics
its pretty good i like it
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14/f
I have this weird sense of humor, and I laugh at a lot of things and everything is funny to me- like inside jokes with my friends and stuff...
And when we say something REALLY hilarious and stupid that makes me literally laugh until I cry, I can't stop thinking about it for hours or days or weeks or months or even years after it happened.
And these funny thoughts always come back to me randomly at the WORST possible times- when it's only appropriate to be serious. And honestly I can't control how my face turns bright red and I try so hard to hold back my laughter, but if it's really bad it comes out as sort of snickering through my nose, and sometimes i'll even sort of start to cry. Sometimes people notice it and then they just think i'm some weirdo.
I've gotten in a HUGE amount of trouble for it before. But I honestly can't control this i'm telling the truth!
so please tell me what might be up with my mind. (link)
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Well....if u r mental...
Then I am mental 2.
Trust me gurl...in a laughing contest...I d win
Lol!!!
Besides I just saw on Discovery Channel that if somebody is laughing byhimself eventually other people will start laughing. FACT.
Its contageous (Hope I spelled it right lol).
And all people like to laugh.
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I have a boyfriend that's 18 who turns 19 in August.And I'm 16 and I turn 17 in October.Would it work out if I was going in Highschool and he went to college in the area.Or do you think he would get tired of me and get someone better who's in college or whatever.Or even I would find someone in highschool.I just want some opinions if you don't mind. (link)
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Yes it can work out and it will work out just as long as the TWO of you want it. Actually..its not big deal at all...its as if 2 people from 2 different schools being together.
For as long as I remember...I only had ONE relationship that was from my school...and just so happens to be the worst I ever had. OK...maybe I had 7 relatioships from school...lol... but this one really sucked and its not really that important.
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hey i need to get some new ring tones....
but i am not paying the 4 freaking dollars they charge...
so does any one know of a place that i can get freee ring tones...
please.. (link)
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Well...if you had a new model of a cellphone, then you could just connect it to your PC and transfer the songs in it.
Free ringtones sent to you? No way. Only if you search on the internet for midi sounds and find a way to transfer them on your cellphone.
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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Well...it doesn t matter how old are you just as long as you are fully grown.
If you are ready for it mentally.
If you got a healthy relatioship. Dont fuck someone you only know for 3 days.
And just as long as its not just a one time thing only. Like...if you have a steady boyfriend.
For some girls its good when they are having sex when they are 15 years old, for some its bad.
Personally, I regret doing it, but only because it was like the worst sex ever...lol...we were both so unexperienced and...just do bad at it. We didn t do it so offten, we were young and didn t have the chance (parents, our own space etc.) and we only did it like...4 times on 2 months... I never came.
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i have a brownish lump on my breast like half inch from my nipple and im 13 most of my relatives and family died from cancer. could i have breast cancer?...my mom said there was a very high chance id have cancer but i never told her about it cuz ive had it about 2 days so far.....any doctor out there or anyone willing to help mee (link)
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My father is a doctor specialized in breast cancer.
An he keeps saying that a womans best doctor is herself. If something is going on, dont ignore it, have it checked out.
If everybody died from cancer in your family chances are you are going to have cancer. Also breast cancer is the most common.
But please, do not worry as it is really a not dangerous type of cancer especially if you find it out early. Out of the 7000thousand breast cancers, only 3 are deadly...
If cancer is very pausible you might gonna have a prophylactic surgery. Wich is they remove all the fat from your breasts and they add silicon.
I ve been into a breast surgery and witnessed it myself. Its absolutely NO big deal.
It took the doctors like..12 minutes to put the lady to sleep. It took the doctor 2 minutes to open her, find the tumour-cancer and remove it, and it took another 1 minutes to stich her back. When the lady woke up, her breast was not swolen, was totally normal, and the pain felt like a small scratch.
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hey guys, my boyfriend told me last night that "he knows" that I am deleting text messages from my cell phone that I don't want him to see...Well, he's right, but of course, I denied it. I'm not flirting with any guys or anything like that! I love him to death and I would never think of doing anything stupid to mess up our relationship, but I do delete stuff that i don't want him to see, like things I'm talking to my girls about or stupid stuff I dont want in my message box...But I cant tell him that or he will assume its cuz its a guy or something blah blah blah...So, what I'm asking is how CAN he KNOW? He told me again today!! I delete them from my inbox and outbox and from a message recipients list I have in my nokia...He doesnt go online to check our account so I dont know how he knows!!! can someone who is savvy in cellphones help me figure out how he knows I'm deleting stuff? It's weirding me out... (link)
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maybe he was bluffing and you fell into it
like saying i know what you did yesterday...when they really dont....
just dont let him play with your phone anymore
its a violation of trust
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do guys like a girl shaved down below?
juuusst wondering.. (link)
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hey
well, all guys are different. but most guys prefer clean shaven (aka no hair) cause it's cleaner. but ask your bf what he prefers. some guys like it hairy, some guys dont.
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so my bf was like
"will you give me a bj"
and i thought he meant like ben and jerry's and i didnt hear the & part
well he whipped out his whacker and i was like wtf am i supposed to do with this and hes like suck it...
i was soo confused...can someone elaborate plz?? (link)
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"Will you give me a BJ" means he wants a blow job. BJ are the beginning letters of Ben and Jerry's and I understand why you were confused. When he brought out this 'wacker' and he wants you to suck on it, he wants a blow job. All you do is put your mouth around it and suck it. There are many techniques. You don't have to. Just tell him your not ready. Here is a helpful sight that tells you the tecniques and stuff.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blow_job
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What is the difference between name brand clothing and designer clothing? What would Abercrombie and Fitch be? Lucky brand jeans? (link)
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A&F and Lucky are name brand. They're less than designer, but you still pay for the label. Designer clothes are the top fashion stuff. Like Chanel and Louis Vuitton.
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OMG!!!I just called my crush.He asked if I WANTED TO GO GET SOME PIZZA!He's so polite.I kno I'm young but he IS awsome, altho my mom don't like 'im cause he used to be...well...a dummy.But now he's so muture and I love him!Well for the moment.I hope our relationship will last long.I don't kno what to do about my ma!HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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have them meet before you go for pizza
have your mom get to know him
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