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just moved
i just moved a few days ago to a totally different state and i don't really have friends..how do i make friends without seeming needy or like a loser?
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Moving to a different town is difficult. Moving to a different state is even harder. It's difficult to make friends when the people you are going to be around are way different from you. However, there is no worry! Remember when you were little and to make friends is to be yourself. If the people think you are a loser, it's their fault, not yours! It just depends on the friend and their perspecive. To make friends is to be yourself!
If there are any girls at your new school or something, just talk to them. Other people enjoy someone to talk to when they don't belong. It takes a little while to become friends with new people, but the more you get to know about that person, the better!
Don't worry about other people. You seem to worried about how they think of you. What if I'm too needy? What if I'm a loser? Your overreacting! Stick to the simple plan, BE YOURSELF. It's hard becaues you want them to like you. Well don't pretend your someone else. This only leads to friendships dying. They see another side of you and don't want to be friends with you. To make you feel good, if your yourself, then there will be girls that want to be your friend and you know that they are truly your friend because they like who you are. Good luck!
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if you're going to school, you can strike up a conversation with someone with a simple comment. If you're no longer in school, get a job and make friends with your co-workers
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