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There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female

the easyest way to fix this is to just go upp to him and ask. Or call him.. but its probably easyer going up to his face beacuse you can see his expressions, where when ur on the fone.. u cant.

h.i.h.

ok there is a guy at school and we always flirt and we always talk on the phone till like 2 in the morning.. and i dont know what to do? i dont know if he likes me??? and i used to lke (i think i still do) but.. im trying not to cus i dont know if i have a chance? plz help me we r good friends to ...
love,
Single

i think if you 2 r great friends like that then i surly think you have a chance. anyone does. so sit him down or talk to him on the fone and ask him if he likes you.
never say that your not good enough.. it wont get you anywhere, trust me ive been there lol.
good luck hun!

i feel like when I get pushed around, I'm too scared to stand up for myself and I just ignore what happenes.Also I'm kinda short and also white.Where I live most people are different races and believe they are tougher than a small little white girl...how do i be more assertive witout being a bitch?I just want to be able to defend myself.

Well i used to get pushed around by my two friends one time but one day i was like enough of this! so i ignred them and then when they came over i acted like a i didnt care and told them off and all that, it was quite funny actually lol but anyways, you needa act tough and like you dont care that they're pushing or making fun of you. I no you're probably thinking but it does hurt me... well thats how you feel on the inside but somtimes how you act on the outside is what they see first so dont be scared to stand up for your sel becuase im sure those people do the same thing beacuse other people do it to them... i hope i didnt confuse you cuz this is long lol..
h.i.h.

Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f.

Well id be happy if you would ask me out, you sound like a really sweet guy. But expecting anything? well.. i would just take it how it goes, but really expecting anything, but what you could do if she is maybe kiss her unexpectantly but at the right time lol.
Go for it! :)
simone

I heard this song on the radio, 101.5 this morning and I just cant get it out of my head! :( It goes something like this..

"You just dont get it. You keep me copasetic. You just dont get it. Youre so pathetic."

That might not be in the right order but it's in there somewhere. I was trying to write it down and drive at the same time so I missed a lot of the lyrics. lol Anyone know this song?? :( I want it! I need it! I have to have it!!

it cant' think of it right now lol but im sure it will play on the radio again so keep ur ears open for it lol. If i find or think of it ill be more than glad to tell you. :)

i got my period last month on the 9th .. i am 17 years old and dont have a set schedule yet for my period...i have had it for 3 years now yet dont have a regular schedule..anyhow, i got it last month on the 9th ..it is now the 13 and i still havent gotten it for this month...does this mean i missed it or should i give it another week or so until i start panicking? i am sexually active and there is a possibiltiy i could be pregnant, but do you think i should start worrying NOW or not yet? thank you so much in advance, ive been driving myself crazy here.

i would wait another week and if you dont get it by then take a pregnancy test just to be sure.

Today, April fourteenth, 2005, is National I Love You Day. So, in honor of this, classic, yet slightly ... odd day, I tell all of you columnits this with feeling:

I love you!!

This, of course, has greater meaning to some than for others. But, hey! You're loved! If you love someone, tell them today!

i never heard of that but kool!! lol

i luv ya too lol :D

i dono who i love but i like some one does that count?
i luv you ******!! lol

how can i convince a girl to like me?what can i say to make her like me as a boyfriend

I like guyz that are them selves, not some show off... Be sweet to her and try to understand her. I prefer guys that are sweet funny and caring, but i mean everyone likes something different. But be your self, makybe flirt with her and compliment her on somthing you like about her. Add in a few cute jokes that you both ca n laugh about.
Hopfully she feels the same way you do!
Good luck!!
Simone

for prom i heard you have to sign up.. or something? when is the dead line exactly for that?

im sry... i wish i knew. I've never been to a prom what so ever so... i have no clue, but if i find out ill be glad to tell you :)
again... sry

Ok well there is this girl that i go to gymnastics with and she has been coming to gym with bruises and marks all over her legs. I've asked her many times to tell me what happend and she told me 'nothing!' and i keep asking her the same question and even the coaches ask her and one time the coach asked her if she fell and she said 'yes' but then she told me she lied to him! I think her parents might have abused her because shes very quiet and timid and if u tell her not 2 tell anyone, SHE WONT!(even my dad thinks so) I'm really scared for her so please help! How can i make her tell me the truth?

First of all don't push her to tell you, that makes her feel scared that you might hurt her too if she is being abused. Let her come to you and just let her know that she can talk to you about anything and you wont freak out about it but you'll try to help as much as you can.

im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks

well maybe flirt with her. Eye contact is a big thing when u like a girl. lol i no :P
Talk to her about stuff more personal maybe or just ask her out.

I know this is probly a question you get every now n then.. but I think I like thsi kid.. but we have only talked a couple times.. but each time we were kinda like... yah know flirtyishh and we don't talk a whole bunch.. but I think he might like me too.. but Ionoo is it too early to like him? and what should I do to figure out if I really do?

well i would hang around him alittle more and then your true feelings will show, weather you like him or not.
h.i.h.

I would like a knew screen name,iv'e been trying to think of one but i dont no what to make it.this may sound dumb but can some one help me make a new screen name up?|?

i love soccer/v-ball
i like sports
im taken by ryan (he is short im tall)
im 15
im in love..

i rate high

inluvwithhim
vballmastr
dontblamecuziminluv
^^^^(thats probably to long but its a though lol)
bestvballplayr
n3v4letg0

thats all i can think of at the moment

i have had the urge to write songs lately but all of them are about love and my lovelife and i seem to copy from alot of other songs? to help come up with my own ideas and NOT about my love life what could i do??? any advice is helpful here i dont care!

well what helps me is i try to make my life dramatic and then i write about other stuff besides love. Or sometimes i think so hard that somthing else pops into my head. So yea thats all that works for me at the moment. Maybe it will help you.
h.i.h.

I'm going to prom on the 23rd but I haven't gotten my period yet. I think I might get my period by that date. It makes me worry because I don't want to screw my new dress up with blood. It's not tight at the bottom, it's like a layered skirt that's kind of full looking. I'm going to be out from 5:30 PM to 7:00 AM for the dinner and the festive events or whatever, should I use pads or tampons? Pads are kind of gross, they make me uncomfortable because I'm afraid they'll move, but if I wear tampons I'm not sure if I'll remember to even change them during prom and I don't want to risk TSS. What should I do?

Well im sure if you would use a tampon youll eventually have to go to the bathroom because you'll have drinks and stuff so you could change it then. But i think pads are easyest just because you know when to change lol. But if its open you can always wear like a short spandex underneath just to slow it down alittle if it's heavy.

H.i.h. and good luck to ya hun!

my girlfriends bday is coming up and im clueless on what to get her i already got her a bracelet a necklace and i dont know what to get now we have been going out 1 year and 2 months

Get her a purse. Maybe from like Walmart or Target. They have some cute ones.
Or if you know what kind of music she liestns to then a CD would be a kool gift.
hope i helped and good luck!

i recently got my belly button peirced 3 weeks ago, its healed really nicely. my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ring for it for my birthday and i can't wait to change it. Is it too early to change it, because it says wait 8 weeks, but its healed and i know a otn of people who have changed it earlier, thanks!

Just to be safe i would wait until the 8 weeks r done with. Then you can show off you belly button without any problem afterwards.
h.i.h.

When my ?'s are answered, people say "Inbox me if you still wanna talk" or whatever. How do you "inbox" a person.
May sound stupid but hey! Im kinda new...

5's for anything thats correct

when you ask a question and they anwer all you gatta do is click on so and so's advice column. And then you can just ask them from there. But you should tell them who u r just so they remember lol.
hope i helped! :)

I have a friend who recently started taking the antidepressant drug Prozac. The doctor told her she had post dramatic stress disorder and should take this. She didn't want to take it at all but her mom forces her 2 and watches her every move when she takes it. Since she's been taking this medicine(which has been about 3 weeks) she's been having severe chest pains, migraines, constant vomiting, loss of weight (20 pounds), and muscle spasms 2. I think she's going to become addicted to the drug soon if they don't take her off of it and become to the point where her body won't be able to live without it. I don't know what to tell her to do because she's just out of options. Any advice at all would go along way. Thanks

Tell her AND her mom to go to the doctor! im guessing that you and your are teens in skool. Tell her to tell that doctor thats shes getting ALL of the symtoms. Its not goos for a teen to take something with attached symtoms. Well its not good for anyone actually but anyways.. if she's so stressed convince her mom to take her out of skool for a year so she can calm down and relieve some of that stress. Its not healthy! she could have a heart attach from it all. So have her see the doctor, and maybe if she does have all that stress help her find something natural not something medicated with attached symtoms.
good luck!

I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
xxxx

Well you can either talk to the two of them and convince them that all three of you can hang out TOGETHER. or you can ditch them and find new friends that you can hang out with while you hang out with them when they have time for you. I was in the same situation. And the three of us ended splitting in a year. And i felt like i was always left out. But yea it definatly helps having another group of friends on your side that you can hang out with while the two of them are to busy for you.
hope i helped!

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