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what will she expect?
Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f.
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i think she would expect it to end right away when she moves, or soon after. She might be thinking not to get involved being that she will be moving..but it depends on how decicated you will be..if you tell her you will drive out there two weekends a month..or meet her halfway somewhere..she might do it..but if it were me i wouldnt want to get involved if i knw i would be leaving in a month..it would be too painful for me..
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She might want to stay dating but like seeing each other on weekends...it's not that far away?!
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Well you just have to realize things. If you guys go out now...you might get to be able to be good bf/gf...but she is moving. And it is going to be a 4 hour drive. Here soon it will either cost you...or it will either once in a while cause jealousy and suspicion. Think about it, you guys are going to be away from each other a long ways away. What's to say you wont think she will cheat on you, or whos to say that she wont think about the same on you? You just have to think about these things. Unless you are completely devoted to her, and really do like this girl and want to have things work, then you can like visit her like.....every other three days or so. Who knows..for this is for you to find out, and for you to make up your own mind and figure this out. I hope i have helped in some way, and hope things will go out well for you.
~Dom
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awwww, that reminds me of that song, "Ohh I Know I Can't Be With You, I Do What I Have To Do... But I Have The Sence... To Recognise... But I Don't Know How To Let You Go..." Do What You Have To Do, Sarah McLachlan
I would try & stay friends, if ya'll think you'd be able to make thngs work, go for it! never hurts to try! & if things go wrong, you can't say you didn't try, right?
hope that helps!
-Cameron
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Well id be happy if you would ask me out, you sound like a really sweet guy. But expecting anything? well.. i would just take it how it goes, but really expecting anything, but what you could do if she is maybe kiss her unexpectantly but at the right time lol.
Go for it! :)
simone
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If you're an 18 year old.. (which you are)then its not that you CANT go with her its that you WONT go with her if you're 18 and you really like this girl then you would move with her but obviously shes not very important to you if you wont go with her..
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I know this isn't an answer to your question, but why don't you just keep in touch and see how that goes before you try the long distance thing.
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Honestly dude I find it hard to maintain a long distance relationship if its even an hour. Depends how much time you have and how much you really care though. Go for it, if it doesn't work atleast you gave it your best.
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You've probably heard this before, but I'm going to tell you again. Take risks. I bet you she is willing to risk a lot to be with you. Long distance relationships are only hard if you make them. Make this as easy as a relationship with a girl who is down the street. She's going to expect a lot out of you if you go through with this relationship. She's going to want more attention over the phone because she will rarely get to see you. I don't quite understand what you mean by what will she expect, but I know she will expect more from you than a regular relationship will. Take risks because you will miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
-therocket♥
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You should just ask her out. and see what happends and if it don't work out..just go back to the single life..im in a long distance relationship and its been going on for a long time. well good luck!
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aww how sweet mm QUCK WASTING HER TIME ASK HER OUT before she leaves
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