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That my friend was taking naked pictures of herself. And im superr worried because i had NO idea she would do thiss. but i know because she sent it to a guy, and then the guy sent it to me. And i saw her face and everythingg..and i still havent told her because i dont think i should. But do you think i should talk to her about this? Or just leave it alonee? (link)
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If she was sending pictures over the internet and she is under the age of 18, I think you might want to comfront her parents about it after all it falls under child pornography.
Bahaima22
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I have wow cable so I don't get Smackdown:(
Uhm I saw a comercial on TV about Jeff and Matt Hardy.... What happened between them? THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!! (link)
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Don't get to crazy!
Go to this website,
http://www.hulu.com/
It will allow you to watch anything that is broadcast on television for free. :)
xx
BahaiMa22
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guy
gettin bushy
get some links of pics of different trimming designs (link)
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This questions is not something we can give links too.
Please try Google!!
Thank you
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My name is jillian
I love soccer
im irish
i love to shop
**I ♥ the ASPCA soooo much!**
I like curious george
if you need anything else just ask me! (link)
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Well,
How about
Jillabeans09
Jilly_Bean_Luvr
Soccer_Gal09
Something like that.
Bahaima22
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I have tried to have cordial relations with my neighbors, but do not have particularly close friendships with any of them.
A little over a year ago, a young man started coming to my home on a regular basis whenever my wife was out of town. After a while, he began spending the night with me when she was away.
Evidently, some of my neighbors noticed these visits and started gossiping about it, spreading the rumor that I am gay and that this young guy is my lover. More recently, however, he has spent the night when my wife is present, so now my neighbors think something kinky is going on.
At times I am puzzled by this. At other times I am angry at their arrogance and gall. The explanation is simple: The young man is my son from a previous relationship. Because we were prevented from having contact when he was a child, we are now trying to establish a relationship -- and we are making progress. My wife and other children have been wonderfully supportive in all this.
I really don't want to tell my neighbors what's going on because it will inevitably lead to a disclosure of some things that are really none of their business. But I am troubled by the rumor that I have a young male lover. What do you think I should do? (link)
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You shouldn't care what other people think, There are people all over who will judge others by what they see that is a part of life. Who cares if they think you are gay, Let them think it. After all, It is them who they are making a fool out of not you. This young man is your son, You are his father enjoy it being a parent is the most rewarding thing. Do not let your neighbors anger you and do not tell them what is going on because it is none of their buisness. If you do tell them, It will only give them more of a reason to gossip even more yet alone come up with something eles to spread around. Your buisness is your buisness. I honestly think you should continue being a wonderful dad I am sure you are and just live life to it's fullest. Don't worry about what other people think.
BahaiMa22
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I am a 38 year old female.I have a long time friend, who I have worked with at two separate jobs. We both have older children. We have been involved in our childrens activities, and we have done a lot together such as shopping going to the beach and just hanging out. I have so much fun with her.I caught her having an affair with someone that I knew. Then, she confided in me, and told me of many, many affairs she has had. To the tune of about fourteen. At first I was angry but she would tell me, I was her best friend, and she needed to talk to me. Then it became like a book, I wanted to know more. Now, I am sick of it. I do want to be friends with her, because we can have so much fun and I am loyal to my friends. But it sickens me because of how she is. Her affairs are still going on. Bringing the subject up to her offends her and she tells me not to judge her because I am not perfect either. Should I just break off the friendship or tell her husband she is still unfaithful or what. (link)
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Honestly,
I don't think you should tell her husband, Not only will it make matters worse for her but you will only be putting yourself in the middle of this mess more than you already are. If you do not want to be friends with her anymore that is your choice and you do have the right to choose your friends. However, You can come out and tell her you do not want to be her friend but I do think she at least deserves to know why even if she is offended. Honestly, (I wouldn't want to deal with it either.) Not only does it get annoying after awhile but hearing about the affairs your friend has been through only causes stress on the relationship with your friend. Tell her how you feel and why you do not wish to be her friend anymore and leave it at that.
BahaiMa22
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17, F
I lost my virginity in dec.
tonite was my second time having sex again. he fingered me a lot, before. and wow I'm sore and it burned really badly when I peed! is that normal? is there anything I can do for it?! (link)
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It is possible that he might of ripped the hymen, Which no it's not an uncommon thing it happens more than you think. Don't panic because it isn't dangrous and it will heal. (Basically meaning he might of slightly cut you) Make sure he keeps his nails clipped at all times if he is going to attempt to do something like that.
Here is a link to what I am talking about.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen
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I think I might be racist =(
I don't like Hispanic men. HOWEVER, my best friend is Hispanic (she's a girl), and I have no problem whatsoever with Hispanic females at all, its just the males.
I have had three relationships with Hispanic guys, all of which were miserable (not abusive or anything like that, I was just extremely unhappy). My last boyfriend was Hispanic, and I've decided I'm not dating another Hispanic guy again, because at first I might like him, but then the more time we spend together, the more I notice the accent, the more it irritates me, and I've noticed that they are all very touchy-feely, they always want to be holding hands or kissing.
So now at this point I just don't talk to any Latino men unless I have to. I just avoid them, but of course I'm not rude to them or anything like that, I treat them the way I would like to be treated, the way I treat anyone else. For example I sit next to a Mexican man in one of my classes, and he was having trouble with his computer so I volunteered my help. But otherwise I avoid making any conversation.
I hate this, I don't like having this problem. How do I make my racial issues go away?
18/F (link)
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I wouldn't say you are racist, I think you've just had a few bad exsperiences and you have convinced yourself that you are. You simply just might perfer your own kind and that is okay. There are people out there who just want to be with there own kind, That doesn't mean that you are racist. Not all Mexicans and Hispanic folks have a bad attitude. However, If you perfer maybe you should just be friends or stay with your own kind if that is what makes you comfortable.
BahaiMa22
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16/f
Say your cousin Had sex with you when you were 7 and they were 13, but nobody made ur cousin do it she chose to herself. She kinda used you as a sex toy. But Your both girls. Is it still considered Rape? (link)
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Believe it or not, Girls can still rape another girl. I know it sounds impossible but there are ways to do it and it has been done. It sounds like the 13 year old took advantage of the seven year old. Yes, It's concidered sexual assult and you can go to jail for it. It's wrong If you exsperienced this or even witnessed it I would recommend reporting it to an adult.
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so this guy i met at my friends house back in december, well i did see him again in january but i havent seen him since the begining of that month. anyways..in the begining [december] he really did like me, he told my friend how he did. but..then he told me that he didnt wanna go out with me because of basketball, and i didnt even ask to go out with him..so that kind of hurt. then a week later he started talking to me again but he told me he likes someone else [this girl who lives 2 hours away from him] but whatever i guess..so im not sure what it was but something made him talk to me more and more near the end of december..but, it wasnt normal talking. it was mostly sexual. before we saw eachother again he told me to flirt with him and that if i did he would like me and then he said hed make a move on me. one day we decided to meet at my friends house, and sleepover like the last time. i went..he ignored me for a while..he was being really immature [by the way he is one year younger than me]yeah so basically he was giving a lot of mixed signals..so anyways i went home the next day and cried for a good 2 hours. then 3 days later he IMed me and we talked about last time and he told me he wanted me to give him a hj..i said i would next time but when i said that i had no intention of actually wanting to do it and i just said i would because i like the attention of him talking to me but i wasnt actually going to. then since that day he progressively became more and more demanding with sexual favors from me and would think of something new to ask for, every week. i didnt say yes to them though. i said no in a nice way. looking back on our conversations, he used to be a LOT nicer. now, a typical conversation between us is, him: "hey i love your rack" "suck my dick" "lets just have sex" "i want you" and things like that. that is all he wants to talk about now. and he doesnt even ASK, he demands it. but anyways, last saturday night..and he asked for pictures and pressured me. then i looked on his facebook and the girl who he liked and went out with during the time i saw him at their house last, [i didnt know about that until my friend told me a week ago, they broke up] but anyways she wrote on his wall, i love you too! with a heart..and i think they are going out again..even though she lives far away..but..im sort of annoyed because now he isnt gonna talk to me anymore..thats WHY he hasnt contacted me since wednesday [well, i IMed him first..] but anyways when i IMed him he was begging me to give him a bj next time i see him [and who knows when that will be cause he is busy every weekend..]but i kept on saying nope sorry i dont think that will happen and he would just keep begging. but so he told me to text him and i did but his phone was off so whatever..so really, im just annoyed..because, i think he is back togethor with that girl..but he is trying to make it seem like i dont know..but i do know..and i could be wrong, but really..she writes on his wall everyday with hearts and says like i miss you and stuff. i think he just wants to use me to get some ass but im also confused because he hasnt talked to me in 4 days. i would think he would talk to me again but i guess hes done with me..i wish i didnt care, its embaressing how i care. i know this is gonna sound bad..but dont you think well, knowing him i mean, dont you think he would still talk to me and want to see me even though he has a girlfriend who lives far who he never sees, because it would make him feel cool. i know that seems terrible to say but he is immature like that and im pretty sure he would cheat on someone..ugh i feel really bad saying that..i dont know how to deal with this.. (link)
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Personally anyone who demands sexual favors all the time is plainly and simply just a pig. From the sound of it this guy doesn't respect you and only wants you to do what he wants you to do. I don't think he is worth your time. I can almost promise you that he already did cheat. You are better than that.
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i have had a long distance relationship for about 7 months now, and i have never met him in person. we are planning to meet this year. it would seem like we are meant for eachother by the conversations we have, but what if we are totally different in person? is meeting up a good idea?
im an adult, so i dont need the "internet predator" lecture, just give me some insights. anyone ever experience this?
thanks advicenators
=]
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Whatever you do, Meet in a public place. I'm not here to lecture either. However, It's better to be on the safe side.
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How do I clean my computer off? Its running really slow, last time it happened I had a virus. I don't want to get my parents involved. Any free computer cleaning products I can download? (link)
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You can download "CCleaner" scan it whenever you are offline and it will delete any temporary files for you and also fix any possible problems. You could also restore your computer back to an earlier date by going to Start-Programs-System Tools-System Restart. Restarting is recommended doing every few months. You could also try downloading Ad-Ware and scanning the computer to get rid of any possible pop ups.
xx
BahaiMa22
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My wife and I have been married for a little over 2 years. Recently, my wife told me she wanted to have three somes. With girls or guys, she said it didn’t matter to her (she is bi-sexual). However, she stressed the idea that me watching her with another guy then joining in really turns her on. I have done this 2 guys 1 girl thing in the past with a former girl friend, and it worked o.k. for a while, but had a disastrous end. My wife assures me this wont happen to us, because she is just adventurous and her heart belongs to me. I really want to make her happy, but I’ve had bad experiences in this department before. Thanks for any help,
Guy #1
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I honestly don't think it's a good idea, If you have had bad exsperiences in the past then why would you want to risk it happening again? Although your wife assures you that you belong to her in a case like that anything could go wrong. If she brings up the idea then maybe you two could try to spice up your sex life. I would recommend not going through with it. After all you are settled down now and you don't want to risk it all over a poorly made choice.
BahaiMa22
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A few months ago, something happened and I turned the school against me. I'm embarrassed even writing from this because I'm afraid someone from my school will read it and think of me.
I can't walk down the hallway without thinking that everyone there is thinking bad thoughts about me. I feel like everyone judges my every thought, word, or action. I know they don't, but I can't stop the little voice in my head that says they are.
What do I do?
Its making me feel like I'm going crazy.
I'm so concerned with what everyone thinks about me all the time now, its taking over my life. (link)
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If you are not comfortable talking about something here, Than feel free to send me a message in the inbox, I would be happy to give you a full honest answer. :)
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I am 17 years old, a virgin, and I have a best guy friend who I have known for 6 years and fully trust. We have A LOT of history together and recently I've been really wanting to have sex. I know he wants to also, we've talked about it. He is sleeping over my house on Saturday night, and I think it's going to happen. I am really excited and not at all nervous, only because it is with him.
I am just wondering, what you all think of this? If you have any tips or suggestions that might be helpful? because i dont know a whole lot about sex.. (link)
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I'm going to agree on what the last person said, Make sure you are sure about it first. Wouldn't you rather have sex with someone that you want to be with and that loves you? Remember, You only loose your virginity once and once it's gone there is no going back. Sex is a powerful exsperience, It's love, passion, trust and alot more to go with that. It's not something you rush into and say "Omg! I'm going to do it! yay" It's something you may want to seriously think about. If you are just friends and nothing more, Than why would you want to give that up? Well, If you DO decide to go with it, Make sure you use condoms and be safe about it.
BahaiMa22
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i turned eighteen three months ago. the guy is about sixteen and a half. i didnt realize he was this young when i first started talking to him. is that too much of a difference? (link)
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If you plan on having a relationship with him, Yes indeed it is a big difference only because you are 18 years old now you are now an adult. At the age 16 he is still a minor and having a sexual relationship with anyone who is under the age of 18 is qualified as statutory rape.
BahaiMa22
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About a month ago, I went to a poetry slam and I met this guy. Me and him had been sitting next to each other and we talked on and off throughout the event. Later on that night, I found him on Myspace and we started talking more and getting to know each other. During the next few weeks, we went from messaging each other on Myspace to texting each other. As more time went on, our texts began to get a bit more flirty. I'm pretty interested in him and I think he might be interested in me, too. We've only talked in person at that one poetry slam, so we decided we wanted to get together to hang out in person sometime soon.
We had things planned out (we were going to hang out after my classes and then we were going to head over to a cafe so I could watch him perform at the open mic).
I still live with my parents and I don't have a car, so I still have to go by their rules and ask before I go anywhere. When I asked my mom if I could go, she said, "No". The reason why is...I'm 18 years old (19 in June) and he's 25 (26 in September). That's a 7 year age difference. I'm not a minor anymore, so that's really not a problem. And we were just going to get to know each other better (me and him are trying to take things slow). But my mom doesn't want me hanging out with him because she's uncomfortable with the whole situation.
I really want to hang out with him, but the fact that my mom's not happy with the whole idea is a pretty big hurdle.
Does anyone have any advice or anything about what I should do? I want to see this guy, but it's going to be hard for us to give each other a chance (and--if that chance goes well--have a relationship) if we've got my mom to worry about all the time. So please, help me out?
Thanks!!! (link)
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If you no longer are a minor than the choice is yours to whom you choose to date or not. Your parents may not approve of the age difference but after all you are an adult now. However, Keep in mind that some older folks sometimes take advantage of younger people. (Not everyone, but it has happened) make sure you fully trust the person and that there isn't a doubt in your mind. I would also try talking to Mom, Let her know that you really like him and assure her that he is the one for you. Ask him over to the house a few times and maybe her opinion will change.
BahaiMa22
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well im 16 and i um like this guy and he is 20 and im wondering is that a big age diffrence (link)
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It all depends,
Some guys mature than others,If you are talking about relationship wise than yes indeed it is a big age differnce. Dating anyone under the age of 18 is concidered illegal in alot of states.
Being friends with someone of that age, I would say is appropriate as long as it doesnt' go any further and is strickly friends.
BahaiMa22
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15/f
okay, so today my friend jon (who is my ex-boyfriend also; we broke up about a month ago) told me that he is basically addicted to internet porn and that he masturbates all the time. and that he actually did it so hard that he hurt himself to the point where he couldnt walk, and that's why he missed school yesterday. when we were going out he seemed to rush things alot and now im so relieved that i didnt really do anything with him (we only kissed).
now im really, really grossed out and i dont really know how to act around him. part of me is extremely grossed out that i even went out with him, and the other part of me wants to try to be friends, even though i sort of know it will always be weird. what do i do? (link)
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I can understand why the situation would be weird for you. However, Alot of guys around your age are into porn infact probably more guys than you realize. The fact that he came out and told you that he masterbated up until he hurt himself to the point where he was unable to go to school might of been a bit inappropriate on his part. If he rushed things alot when you two were dating then he might of been using you for a booty call. I would personally maybe try and exsplain to him that he made you feel very uncomfortable sharing those sort of details with you. Question about the relationship you two had and why he was in a rush to move things so fast and if he is open and honest about it and admits to trying to get action out of you then maybe it's time to move foward and forget about him.
BahaiMa22
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hi i am an 18 year old female,and i've known this guy since the 8th grade and we had a thing going on,but it only lasted like a week because i was not ready nor interested in having a boyfriend.we stayed in touch and we became pretty close.i considered him my best friend. we were comfortable with each other and could talk to each other about anything,even personal stuff. i began to like him as more than a friend,and he said he was confused about me but he had a girfriend, so we just stayed friends.we would text everyday and we even stood up talking one the phone from 11pm-4am.then we jsut started to become distant,and now we're barely friends.if i dont text him he doesnt text me and when i do text him i feel he doesnt want to talk. when i see him at school we hardly talk and when i see him hug other girls it just kills me inside. i do not know where we stand.sometimes i feel he doesnt want to be friends.i really care about him and i think i love him,and i dont want to lose him.but i think i slowly am and i dont know what to do to make us close again.i dont want to keep insisting or text him because if he doesnt want to be friends theres nothing i can do. but i dont know what he feels or wants.what can i do? (link)
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Okay,
You two were close for a week but you weren't ready for a boyfriend that is perfectly fine. However, from his point of view he might of felt hurt from the fact that you two got close then you weren't ready to have a boyfriend so he moved on. You could try texting him or calling him to tell him how you feel but I can't promise it will do you any good seeing he has a girlfriend. He might of felt as if you pushed him away or you just simply weren't interested in him. Like I said, You could try talking to him but I would suggest talking to him in person if you get the chance.
Good Luck
BahaiMa22
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