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we were close but now we're barely friends,what's happening beetween us?
hi i am an 18 year old female,and i've known this guy since the 8th grade and we had a thing going on,but it only lasted like a week because i was not ready nor interested in having a boyfriend.we stayed in touch and we became pretty close.i considered him my best friend. we were comfortable with each other and could talk to each other about anything,even personal stuff. i began to like him as more than a friend,and he said he was confused about me but he had a girfriend, so we just stayed friends.we would text everyday and we even stood up talking one the phone from 11pm-4am.then we jsut started to become distant,and now we're barely friends.if i dont text him he doesnt text me and when i do text him i feel he doesnt want to talk. when i see him at school we hardly talk and when i see him hug other girls it just kills me inside. i do not know where we stand.sometimes i feel he doesnt want to be friends.i really care about him and i think i love him,and i dont want to lose him.but i think i slowly am and i dont know what to do to make us close again.i dont want to keep insisting or text him because if he doesnt want to be friends theres nothing i can do. but i dont know what he feels or wants.what can i do?
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You two were close for a week but you weren't ready for a boyfriend that is perfectly fine. However, from his point of view he might of felt hurt from the fact that you two got close then you weren't ready to have a boyfriend so he moved on. You could try texting him or calling him to tell him how you feel but I can't promise it will do you any good seeing he has a girlfriend. He might of felt as if you pushed him away or you just simply weren't interested in him. Like I said, You could try talking to him but I would suggest talking to him in person if you get the chance.
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BahaiMa22
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