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confused..i guess he is done with me
so this guy i met at my friends house back in december, well i did see him again in january but i havent seen him since the begining of that month. anyways..in the begining [december] he really did like me, he told my friend how he did. but..then he told me that he didnt wanna go out with me because of basketball, and i didnt even ask to go out with him..so that kind of hurt. then a week later he started talking to me again but he told me he likes someone else [this girl who lives 2 hours away from him] but whatever i guess..so im not sure what it was but something made him talk to me more and more near the end of december..but, it wasnt normal talking. it was mostly sexual. before we saw eachother again he told me to flirt with him and that if i did he would like me and then he said hed make a move on me. one day we decided to meet at my friends house, and sleepover like the last time. i went..he ignored me for a while..he was being really immature [by the way he is one year younger than me]yeah so basically he was giving a lot of mixed signals..so anyways i went home the next day and cried for a good 2 hours. then 3 days later he IMed me and we talked about last time and he told me he wanted me to give him a hj..i said i would next time but when i said that i had no intention of actually wanting to do it and i just said i would because i like the attention of him talking to me but i wasnt actually going to. then since that day he progressively became more and more demanding with sexual favors from me and would think of something new to ask for, every week. i didnt say yes to them though. i said no in a nice way. looking back on our conversations, he used to be a LOT nicer. now, a typical conversation between us is, him: "hey i love your rack" "suck my dick" "lets just have sex" "i want you" and things like that. that is all he wants to talk about now. and he doesnt even ASK, he demands it. but anyways, last saturday night..and he asked for pictures and pressured me. then i looked on his facebook and the girl who he liked and went out with during the time i saw him at their house last, [i didnt know about that until my friend told me a week ago, they broke up] but anyways she wrote on his wall, i love you too! with a heart..and i think they are going out again..even though she lives far away..but..im sort of annoyed because now he isnt gonna talk to me anymore..thats WHY he hasnt contacted me since wednesday [well, i IMed him first..] but anyways when i IMed him he was begging me to give him a bj next time i see him [and who knows when that will be cause he is busy every weekend..]but i kept on saying nope sorry i dont think that will happen and he would just keep begging. but so he told me to text him and i did but his phone was off so whatever..so really, im just annoyed..because, i think he is back togethor with that girl..but he is trying to make it seem like i dont know..but i do know..and i could be wrong, but really..she writes on his wall everyday with hearts and says like i miss you and stuff. i think he just wants to use me to get some ass but im also confused because he hasnt talked to me in 4 days. i would think he would talk to me again but i guess hes done with me..i wish i didnt care, its embaressing how i care. i know this is gonna sound bad..but dont you think well, knowing him i mean, dont you think he would still talk to me and want to see me even though he has a girlfriend who lives far who he never sees, because it would make him feel cool. i know that seems terrible to say but he is immature like that and im pretty sure he would cheat on someone..ugh i feel really bad saying that..i dont know how to deal with this..
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Personally anyone who demands sexual favors all the time is plainly and simply just a pig. From the sound of it this guy doesn't respect you and only wants you to do what he wants you to do. I don't think he is worth your time. I can almost promise you that he already did cheat. You are better than that.
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