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Rape?


Question Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 6:16 pm

16/f
Say your cousin Had sex with you when you were 7 and they were 13, but nobody made ur cousin do it she chose to herself. She kinda used you as a sex toy. But Your both girls. Is it still considered Rape?

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MITCH.MOORE answered Tuesday February 10 2009, 7:16 am:
Hi,
Very difficult question and subject matter.

Im not going to attempt the question 'was it rape' as I think a more important question is simply 'was it right / ok for that to happen?' And the answer is of course absolutely not.

At thirteen that girl was very young herself but old enough (and older enough than her cousin) to make what she did very wrong indeed.

Im assuming that the seven year old is you, although of course it may not be. I think this girl in question, weather it be you or not needs to talk to someone about this. A professional who is experienced in dealing with things like this.

With the limited information I really can't say more than that. Take care.
Mitchmoor2009@hotmail.co.uk for questions that will never be posted anywhere. MM

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WittyUsernameHere answered Monday February 9 2009, 10:33 pm:
Yes, I would.

Rape is taking advantage of another person through force, coercion, or diminished capacity (like drugs or alcohol)

In this case, a 7 year old is severe diminished capacity, at that age no one is old enough to understand that they should say no, why they should say no, or to back up a no with resistance. A 13 year old is old enough to understand this concept, and to use it against someone else.

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brittanyhutchinson123 answered Monday February 9 2009, 6:33 pm:
Rape is when you're fourced to have sex with that person, if your cousin fourced you into it or did it without your permission then yes it is rape.

If you said no to it and she continued to do it that's rape too.

hope my advice helped.

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BahaiMa22 answered Monday February 9 2009, 2:01 pm:
Believe it or not, Girls can still rape another girl. I know it sounds impossible but there are ways to do it and it has been done. It sounds like the 13 year old took advantage of the seven year old. Yes, It's concidered sexual assult and you can go to jail for it. It's wrong If you exsperienced this or even witnessed it I would recommend reporting it to an adult.

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rvshawnee answered Monday February 9 2009, 11:47 am:
I would consider it rape. The cousin could be sent to jail. If this happened to you or some one eles that you know you should defently tell a trusted adult like a parent(I would go to mom first), a teacher, maybe even a doctor that you know well (incase there are health concerns in this problem). I hope I helped

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