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Crushed ego
A few months ago, something happened and I turned the school against me. I'm embarrassed even writing from this because I'm afraid someone from my school will read it and think of me.
I can't walk down the hallway without thinking that everyone there is thinking bad thoughts about me. I feel like everyone judges my every thought, word, or action. I know they don't, but I can't stop the little voice in my head that says they are.
What do I do?
Its making me feel like I'm going crazy.
I'm so concerned with what everyone thinks about me all the time now, its taking over my life.
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It very hard to get past something that happened, especially if you caused it. But all you can do is go forward. If you did something bad, then it's probably your conscience bothering you. And it's good to have a guilty conscience. But then you have to get to the point where you have to forgive yourself, whether those kids do or not, and hold your head up high when you walk down the halls of school and not care what they think anymore. You don't want to live the rest of your school days worried about what everyone thinks. And besides, after a while someone else will do something and they will be staring at that kid.
Please, please don't let this get you down anymore. Tell yourself good and positive things about yourself (in the mirror so you can see yourself) and then believe it, no matter what the past is. And just talk to people like it didn't even happened. If someone brings it up have a reply ready to cut them off and change the subject.
I hope it goes well. Hope this helps.
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First of all....you shouldnt care what other people think about you.This happened to me before so I know by experience.Trust me...if you ignore them then they will stop bothering you and you will make new friends.Also....try to let them know that you dont care what they say, all that matters is what you think about yourself.Hope this helps!!Write me a feedback please and thank you.
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I dont know exactly what you did but something bad happened to me when i was a freshman and the whole school found out and i thought they all looked at me different and some did but my real friends didnt! You really cant do much about what people think about you because they're going to think what they want no matter what! I really cant say too much more because i dont know how bad you situation is. .If you want you can message me and we can talk about it(with detail).
Im out of school so you dont have to worry about me being one of you classmates =]
-JABOiNKER
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