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My Wife wants to broaden our horizons
My wife and I have been married for a little over 2 years. Recently, my wife told me she wanted to have three somes. With girls or guys, she said it didn’t matter to her (she is bi-sexual). However, she stressed the idea that me watching her with another guy then joining in really turns her on. I have done this 2 guys 1 girl thing in the past with a former girl friend, and it worked o.k. for a while, but had a disastrous end. My wife assures me this wont happen to us, because she is just adventurous and her heart belongs to me. I really want to make her happy, but I’ve had bad experiences in this department before. Thanks for any help,
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I honestly don't think it's a good idea, If you have had bad exsperiences in the past then why would you want to risk it happening again? Although your wife assures you that you belong to her in a case like that anything could go wrong. If she brings up the idea then maybe you two could try to spice up your sex life. I would recommend not going through with it. After all you are settled down now and you don't want to risk it all over a poorly made choice.
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That is a terrible idea, always. Thank you for recognizing that.
When I think of threesomes, I just see an atomic bomb landing on your house/marriage.
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Personally, I believe that in a marriage, the two people married should not be with anyone else, bisexual or not. Even though your wife is adventurous, that doesn't give her the right to sleep w/ another woman or man. Plus, do you want to see your wife w/ another person?
If two people are married they have made a commitment of love to each other, meaning there should be NO ONE ELSE in their relationship. And what's the point? If you love someone, shouldn't that be enough to not want to be with someone else?
Just my thoughts on this. If you are uncomfortable with this, you need to let your wife know. She'll understand because she loves you.
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If you have had bad experiences in the past I don't recommend you take your marriage there now. There is no guarantee for a good outcome and that kind of experimentation is probably best left to singles.
Maybe you could just use it as a fantasy and talk about it during sex or something. Much safer way to go.
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