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why do people like to have unprotected sex when they're not trying to get pregnant?? does it feel better...or give you more pleasure doing it without a condom??? (link)
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I believe that it does feel a little nicer without a condom. However, some people are just uneducated and think they can just "pull out" [that is only like 30-40% effective I think]. Also, drugs and alcohol DEFINITELY mess with your judgment with those kind of decisions. Some people are just in the heat of the moment and forget. I myself have it engraved in my brain to use a condom, even though I'm also on birth control.
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Okay, so what do you guys look for in a girl? From what I can tell in school its just looks and style basically. I have neither of them. I'm just...me.
I'm 5'6", 15/f. A little overweight. I have really dark brown, curly hair that almost looks black and dark brown eyes. I love being creative. I love to write. I'm working on writing something book-like right now. I also enjoy reading a lot. I'm not a genius or anything but I'm not an airhead. I love all animals. I'm pretty shy when I first meet someone, but once I warm up to them, I'm a lot different.
Does that sound like something guys would like? Most of the guys I know look for the "hot" girls that dress nice.
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I'm not a guy but you sound like an amazing person. Right now [most] guys are immature and stupid. A guy who's a little more mature than the rest of people his age would definitely like a person like you. They're hard to find, but they are usually not the assholes like most of the boys today. =)
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um..my bf wants to try anal, but im afraid it will hurt. i dont even know why girls like this because, how exactly does it give us pleasure? i mean, i want to do it because i want to make him feel good, but i dont want to be in pain or be uncomfortable just to make him happy. how bad does it hurt if it hurts at all? help. (link)
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The first time I went about anal, it was all wrong. There was this position where you sit on the guy and I sat down too quickly and it hurt like hell. The second time we tried a different method. Don't try this unless you are at least a little interested in it. Then, if you guys decide to do it, be sure he's wearing a condom, use A LOT of lubrication, and pick a position. I suggest laying on your side with behind you laying on his side also. It doesn't hurt nearly as much this way. It takes a while for the anus to stretch so make sure he goes SLOWLY. If it's too uncomfortable for you tell him to stop, it's no big deal. =)
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how do u have sex like im dating someone and they r getting serious and im getting scared and i dont want him to think im a freak so how do u have sex? and i really dont no how to makeout i guess im doing it wrong cause we made out once and hasnt sense like 2 years ago!
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Well it can't be too serious if you guys aren't even making out, unless you have a different definition of making out?
This is how to have sex [simplified extremely]:
Insert erect penis into vagina and thrust continuously. If he's on top you really don't do much.
I suggest that you're 100% ready to do something like this before you do, you don't want to regret it. And ALWAYS use a condom. =)
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I'm 13 and I spend a lot of time at my neighbor's lake house and it's really fun. Usually, there's only 3 kids there. One is a boy age 10, a girl age 10, and a boy age 7 so I have to hang out with them. Sometimes a 13 year old girl comes and I hang with her, but she hasn't been making it down a lot. I bring my friends sometimes but most are on vacation right now. If the only possible people you could hang out with were ages 10, 10, and 7 and you were 13, would you hang out with them? Because it's not fun swimming alone or playing games. (link)
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I totally would, age shouldn't matter as long as you're having fun. Hell, I'm 15 and sometimes I hang out with my 7 year old sister.
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how can you make brown eyes really stand out. they're not deep brown just idk brown?
i really want them to stand out.majorly.
any make up ideas? (link)
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hey
i have brown eyes as well, and i know what you can do.
i don't suggest doing the smoky eye look because it doesn't look good with girls who already have dark eyes. it looks good with girls who have bright blue, green, hazel eyes & dark hair.
i suggest -
- black eyeliner. a little bit on the lower lash, and a little on the top.
- white / light colored eye shadow on the lids. that way, your brown eyes will really stand out in comparison to dark brown eye shadow, which will just take over everything.
- eye-lash curler. it makes your lashes look so much longer and brightens up your whole face.
- mascara. a nice, dark mascara always makes your eyes stand out. it just highlights your entire eye.
all in all, you want your whole face light EXCEPT you want your eyelashes & eyebrows very dark so they're highlighted, and your eyes stand out. use an eyebrow pencil if necessary.
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all the boys here is a 34A in boob size big for you in a 14 year old girl thanks a lot.
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I'm not a guy, but that isn't big really. Than again you're only 14 so you will most likely grow more the older you get. 34A? You sound proportionate to your size though =).
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Hey. Does anyone know how to get the little tiny TM things for your myspace name?
I really want one and i don't know how to get it.
Help?! (link)
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right after you type ur name you do
™
its like the same as the ♥ thing.
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okay. so i'm 15. 16 in a month...
welllll you see i met this guy [he's the lead singer of my favourite local band] and we startedd talkingg and then it was every single day on the phone we'd talk. and we'd hang out once or twice a week..... well my parents met him, and they think he's okay. he's a good christian guy, and i'm christian as well.
well he asked me out, and we've been dating for about a week now. but my parents i think know we're more than friends? but i can't sit them down and tell them or anything. because they absolutely despise us..
you see the main thing is... he's 23. he's technically 7 years older than me, and graduated and has a steady full time job, while i don't have my liscence and i'm a sophomore in highschool. see i know i'm mature for my age, and not saying he's the most immature person, but he's not way to mature for me. we fit together. well. i know that it's illegal. but after i turn 16 isn't it okay?
anyway; my parents are concerned only about his age, that's all they think about when i bring him up. =[
i really don't know what to do?
i'm scared if i tell them, they'll never let me
see him or talk to him ever again. =[
sincerely;
lost in translation. (link)
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Well you do need to tell them because you need their "okay" so as someone else said, he doesn't get arrested. Honestly, that is immature on his part to go out with someone so young especially if they're a minor. If I were you parents I'd be very concerned too. I suppose if you tell them, just list all of his good qualities and let them meet him if they haven't already.
I can't really tell you how to make them listen to what you have to say though.
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17/f
I was on a website and I posted a picture of me and asked for opinions on what people thought of it. I'm the type of person who can handle any and all opinions no matter how nasty they are.
A girl posted a reply to my question saying I looked fake and I was trying to be "hardxcore." I sent her the following message to let her know a little about me and explain to her that I'm not fake.
Here's the message:
"I'm not trying to sound rude or anything, but I don't think you should be calling someone fake unless you know for sure they are. Like I said in response to your post, I've dyed my hair like that WAY before any other girl did, I actually started around the 6th grade and I'm now a senior in highschool. I didn't START the trend, I know, but I did start it in MY school. I live in a small country town where no one even knows the latest trends until they go out of style. Other girls started to copy me, that's why I dyed my hair one solid color so I WOULDN'T be called fake. I'm also not a "poser" like other girls are, thinking they're "hxc" and all, I don't think I am at all. I know that I'm more outgoing and daring than other girls, but I don't give myself that label. Like I said before, I wasn't trying to be rude I was just letting you know a little about myself to let you know I'm not "fake" like those other girls. I'm actually probably the most "real" person you'll ever meet, to be honest with you."
She then went on to post a really nasty comment on the message boards saying I was a b*tch and that I couldn't handle anyone's opinion and that I should get off the site. She was the ONLY person I sent a message to even though there were comments that were 20 times worse than hers.
Did I sound like I was trying to be rude and do you think she should have reacted that way? I just wanted to explain myself to her.
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No you aren't rude at all. She's just trying to get a rise out of you. Just ignore her comments and the others, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone who's that much of a bitch.
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okay well i really need a guys perspective on this..... so i like this guy in my class and i am pretty sure that he likes me back and all. but just recently he tells me that his friend likes me and now he is trying to set me up with him.... and i dont get it! he still flirts but not when the friend is around and if he liked me wouldnt he be trying to get me instead of handing me off to his friend????? plesseeee help!! thanx (link)
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well im pretty sure the guy you like doesnt like you, but just tell him "i dont want to be with your freind, i dont like him. i like someone else" then youve got him guessing whether its him or not. before you say this though, start flirting your face off,so hes got something to go by, incase he does like you...which, sorry, i doubt, but yeah.
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Ok so here it is.
me and my BFF have been best friends for 7 years
I moved away from where I use to live like 3 years ago...so me and her live an hour and a half away but still are very close well I met this guy and we started going out and I love him to death but I think my BFF is kinda jealouse of my bf cuz he gets to see me all the time adn we do stuff together alot and I tend to talk about him alot I try not to but idk..anywayz...what should I do should I do should I stop hanging with him so much....and should My bff be close to me then My bf???.......PLEASE HELP (link)
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Well I always believed your best friend is more important than your boyfriend. However, just put some time aside to just talk to her and see what she feels about everything. Try not to talk about your boyfriend so much when you're talking to her, I myself get annoyed when people just blather about their boyfriends or girlfriends on the phone. Cut back a little bit from hanging out with him, NOT a lot just a little and try to see if you and your bff can arrange to hang out somewhere. She's just as important as your boyfriend.
hope that helps.
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When/what age did you figure out you were bisexual? How did you know?
I'm really close to my friend and she's always been there for me and I just love her so much, but i've never felt this way about any other , only guys. Do you think I could be bisexual?
I'm 14. (link)
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WEll I'm 15/F. I was about 14 when I figured it out, all my life I always adored the female body and I'd think nothing of it until I found myself wanting to do things with women.
& that depends, do you love her or are you IN love with her? Like do you find yourself wanting to be with her the rest of her life, and feel the need to kiss her and stuff? If so, you probably are bisexual.
Hope I helped =)
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hi, i have just turned 14 and my period hasnt arrived yet i used to masturbate with pens and dirty objects will this affect it and my friends all have started theirs and talk about when it is and how they have to wear this many pads and stuff i don't want anyone to know my period hasnt started im really scared and upset please help me thank you so much. Will i ever start it?
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Of course you will start it. Masturbating shouldn't affect it, even if the objects weren't necessarily sanitary [which I suggest you clean whatever you use so you don't get an infection of any sort]. I know someone who didn't get there's until they were 16. You're lucky you don't have it yet, it's such a nuisance. No need to worry at all. =)
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So my boyfriend comes really fast. Why though ? and will it ever change? and how can we change it?
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I don't know why he does, some guys come faster than others. It will possibly change someday. He can see a doctor about. But there is this thing you can buy at Spencer's [if you have one by you]. It's like a short rubber rope-like thing that he can tie around his balls, so he won't be able to cum until he pulls the rope off. I'm not sure how well it works but you guys can give it a try. =)
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Ok I weigh 135 lbs and I want to lose atleast 10.
I'm 5'3.
Its mostly my stomache that bothers me,
what are really effective exercises that will help that, that I can do at home.
I'm also trying to eat right,
but no matter what I eat in a day, even if its healthy and not huge portions I always gain atleast 2 pounds, and yesterday I only had 1,000 calories.
I'm so confused, help? (link)
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UMm..sit ups are gonna build muscle in your stomach and gaining muscle will make you gain weight. Lifting light weights and stuff is good because it tones you but you wont lose much weight by lifting and doing sit ups. What you need is cardio exercise. You need to get your heart rate up so you burn calories. Best thing for this is to get on a treadmill every day or every other day...which ever works for you.
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I wanna be able to play the guitar. Nothing fancy really and im saving up for a guitar now and im wonder how much would one cost just aplan old NOT ELECTRIC or anything... no cool dizine i dont need that at like wal-mart or something. And i cannot afford lessons so what are some good sites that show me the cords and what they do and how to play some songs already made. (link)
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guitars can be really cheap, like second hand ones, maybe $60 ish.you can check on ebay, or other internet sites, even local papers and see if anyone is selling one. a good website for chords and tabs for songs in chordie.com, its like a guitar players bible-amazing.
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just so everyone knows, myspace is being stupid because there's a bug going around. people are being "phished" and you have to change your password to make it go away. (link)
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oh golly gee thanks of course tom didn't tell me this in a universal buletein...
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i need a different s/n can anyone help mee.
i want something kinda gothic punk and uniquly retarded. ~randomgrl777~ anything like me but the hard part is i want it kinda goth/punk but cant be extremely. just type anything and everything please. i just messed up my life probly. (link)
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x andblackmyeyes
(from the song "ohio is for lovers" cut my wrist and black my eyes)
ImRandom x SoWhat
ILoveYouxjustkidding
RANDOMGRLxblackmyeyes
SCREAMmealovesongxx
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i feel like i'm wearing a mask . everyone sees me as this preppy girl wearing hollister & crap . but i'm really not like that at all. i listen to scremo and rock music , and i wan't to dye my hair blonde & black . i want to come out and say it . it's really hard saying this but i really wanna , and i wan't to start being more like myself . but im not sure how . i want to express how i feel . is there anyone that understands where and what im coming from and can help me? i probobly sound like some overly obsessed person whos all into lables . but i just need to start telling the truth. (link)
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well there's no fun in being a prep if you don't like it. just start off slow. i use to be a WOAH prep, but i started hanging out with the funner people instead of the annoying preps and now my life is much funner. i don't have to dress weird and i don't have to date certain guys. i talk to who i want, when i want. do what you want, if you don't wanna be a prep, then DON'T. i'd say the first thing to do is make friends with people in the group you wanna be in. then dye your hair that color. yup yup.
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