|
Scared period!!!!
hi, i have just turned 14 and my period hasnt arrived yet i used to masturbate with pens and dirty objects will this affect it and my friends all have started theirs and talk about when it is and how they have to wear this many pads and stuff i don't want anyone to know my period hasnt started im really scared and upset please help me thank you so much. Will i ever start it?
xxx
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
yes, you will start! It may not have started for several reasons, if you are very athletic that could have a big play in it, like im a gymnast and when I am in the gym for like 7 hours a day and 6 days a week I never have a period, but even if your not working out that much it can still be because you are active, another is that you may not be developed as some of the other girls, honestly I dont think it is that big of a deal, When I was in high school I did not start until I was 16 so yeah it depends on your body and all but if you are really conserned or think there might be something wrong you may want to see your doctor but give it time!
]
you'll definitely start, calm down! and once you do, you'll HATE it. so enjoy your freedom while you have it =] i didn't get mine til i was 15 and a half lol, so don't worry.. mention that you're concerned next time you go to the doctor, and maybe she can check you out.. and masterbating has nothing to do with it.. it will come when it's ready too =] hope i helped hun, and good luck ♥
]
Yes, your period will start.
Masturbation, with or without diry objects, will not affect when your period comes. The time a girl starts getting her period varies from girl to girl. Some start as early as 9 and some as late as 16. And you don't have to tell your friends you haven't gotten it. Though honestly, they'll be jealous. Period are not fun.
On a side note, I do not recommend masturbating with pens. It doesn't sound safe.
]
My period arrived just after I turned 14. I felt the same way you did. Girls these days are starting earlier. The average used to be 12. I think girls as young as 9 are getting their periods now.
I can't say you're better off without it because I remember that feeling of being different and worrying whether I was normal. At one point, I felt inside my vagina and thought my cervix was a penis. I thought I was intersex for a while! I don't know what to say because "don't worry" doesn't work. I believe you are very likely completely normal and your period will come when it's your time. I believe your time will be soon. Medical guidelines say that you should see your doctor for evaluation if you haven't started menstruating by the age of 16. I wish I could say something to make it better, but all I can say is that I was once where you are now and it all turned out fine for me. I'm not intersex. I have a child. All that stuff works fine. I think you will eventually find that things work out for you as well.
THEN you can happily write in for advice about how to use tampons and asking why your period is irregular or complaining about cramps, acne, and PMS. :) Looking forward to it.
Hang in there.
Sabine
]
Of course you will start it. Masturbating shouldn't affect it, even if the objects weren't necessarily sanitary [which I suggest you clean whatever you use so you don't get an infection of any sort]. I know someone who didn't get there's until they were 16. You're lucky you don't have it yet, it's such a nuisance. No need to worry at all. =)
]
Yes your period will start.
There are a ton of late bloomers.
Ask your mom when she started her period, usually girls start their period the same time their mothers did.
And you should feel lucky that you are the only one that doesn't have it.
You should brag about it.
:D
Hope I helped.
]
More Questions: |