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how do i tell my parents?
okay. so i'm 15. 16 in a month...
welllll you see i met this guy [he's the lead singer of my favourite local band] and we startedd talkingg and then it was every single day on the phone we'd talk. and we'd hang out once or twice a week..... well my parents met him, and they think he's okay. he's a good christian guy, and i'm christian as well.
well he asked me out, and we've been dating for about a week now. but my parents i think know we're more than friends? but i can't sit them down and tell them or anything. because they absolutely despise us..
you see the main thing is... he's 23. he's technically 7 years older than me, and graduated and has a steady full time job, while i don't have my liscence and i'm a sophomore in highschool. see i know i'm mature for my age, and not saying he's the most immature person, but he's not way to mature for me. we fit together. well. i know that it's illegal. but after i turn 16 isn't it okay?
anyway; my parents are concerned only about his age, that's all they think about when i bring him up. =[
i really don't know what to do?
i'm scared if i tell them, they'll never let me
see him or talk to him ever again. =[
sincerely;
lost in translation.
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you can't help who you like; sorry for anyone that think's you can:] ya he's older, but like you said he's not more mature than you. i mean as long as you get your parents ok , like i did, then it don't matter.
As far as how to get your mom&&'dad to say the "OK" if it was me i would pout untill i get my way but i'm a spoiled bitch:/ mabe catch your mom on a good day, and try to actually sit there and express your love for him to her! write here a letter, then she can't be in front of you to deny everything you say.
x'kayla
GOOD LUCK!:P
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Well you do need to tell them because you need their "okay" so as someone else said, he doesn't get arrested. Honestly, that is immature on his part to go out with someone so young especially if they're a minor. If I were you parents I'd be very concerned too. I suppose if you tell them, just list all of his good qualities and let them meet him if they haven't already.
I can't really tell you how to make them listen to what you have to say though.
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after 16, depending on where you live. its not ok you need you parents okay. otherwise he can get arrested.
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Im glad you love this guy and that hes a christian that is very important but as my bro puts it the 5 finger rule is important, i dont really think its going to work out theres just to much age in between you if hes actually mature he'll realize that
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