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wearing a mask .
i feel like i'm wearing a mask . everyone sees me as this preppy girl wearing hollister & crap . but i'm really not like that at all. i listen to scremo and rock music , and i wan't to dye my hair blonde & black . i want to come out and say it . it's really hard saying this but i really wanna , and i wan't to start being more like myself . but im not sure how . i want to express how i feel . is there anyone that understands where and what im coming from and can help me? i probobly sound like some overly obsessed person whos all into lables . but i just need to start telling the truth.
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well there's no fun in being a prep if you don't like it. just start off slow. i use to be a WOAH prep, but i started hanging out with the funner people instead of the annoying preps and now my life is much funner. i don't have to dress weird and i don't have to date certain guys. i talk to who i want, when i want. do what you want, if you don't wanna be a prep, then DON'T. i'd say the first thing to do is make friends with people in the group you wanna be in. then dye your hair that color. yup yup.
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Just be yourself. Wear what you want. Say what you want. Listen to what you want. Dont worry about not fitting into a stereotype. You can be preppy and punk at the same time, as long as its you!
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Well I don't know if this is what you'd want to hear, but I'll say it anyway. It doesn't matter what you look like, you don't have to dress like a scene kid with blonde/black hair just to make people know you like screamo etc, do it because you want to look like that. You can listen to that music and still dress preppy.
I guess I was kind of like you a few years ago, I didn't want people getting the wrong impression of me so I dressed like a punk girl. I still do sometimes but now a lot of the time I wear polos and cute shirts, and no stranger would know that I'm in a band or work the underground music scene, but it doesn't matter because my friends do and that's all I really care about.
If you feel like you're wearing a mask, just go for it and do whatever you want. Wear what you like and act how you want, not just so people see you as what you are/want to be, but so you're comfortable with who you are. Find fun clothes, dye your hair how you like it, just be yourself. And yeah it's easier said than done but you'll get it.
Eh I don't know if that helped at all haha but I tried.
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If you wanna dye your hair, and dress in the styles you really like & listen to the music you want proudly, then do so! Who cares what people think about you? If they don't like you, then fuck them -- you don't need them anyways.
Trade in your Hollister for Hot Topic & live it up. Live your life with no regrets. Do what you like & have no worries about it.
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Then change.
No better time than the present.
You really don't need to wear that mask to impress people.
Don't worry about what people think or say, just have your voice heard.
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