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so confused about him !


Question Posted Monday July 2 2007, 8:25 pm

There's this boy 'tom' that I like. He liked me last year and we were 'talking' at one point last summer. We stopped for a little, and this kid 'mike' liked me as well. Me and him started talking and ended up dating. Because of this, Tom got mad at me, and stopped talking to me. Me and Mike ended up breaking up, and me and Tom started talking again. I had really liked him a lot at this point. After we told eachother we liked eachother, we just stopped talking completely. Then a few months later we talked again, and he told me he was hurt from what happened in the summer, and we stopped again. Once again we started talking, and actually kissed! I guess you could say that made things 'awkward', and once again stopped. We havent 'talked' like that since, but we do talk, which makes me still like him, a lot, but im afraid to tell him because i dont want us to stop again, but hes all i think about!? any advice for this situation? =/ please help ! thankss xoxo

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khadiya answered Monday July 2 2007, 10:39 pm:
STOP!
Give up on this because obviously its never going to work. Be his friend and only his friend. If you and him were to constantly get into a real relationship and break up all the time then You would probably wonder why you wasted your time. So dont waste your time now. you likes him right now because hes like a fall back, when ever noone else is in the picture, then you feel like you like him.

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LOL_x0x answered Monday July 2 2007, 8:59 pm:
This is an icky siuation.
Start off by apologizing for what happened with 'Mike'.
Tel him this kid meant nothing compared to him.
Then, I'd ask him what's up?
Why he dosen't talk to you at points?
Is he uncomfortable with the fact you like each other, or what?
I'd tell him you like him and see what he says.
If he stops talking to you, confront him.
But don't hide your feelings,
life's too short to sit & wonder what could've been =]

<3 Laura.

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