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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!
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it hurts when i take my tampon out, is this normal?
YA its normal. it just means that all the blood hasnt soaked up completely yet so when you pull it out i hurts a bit.
&hearts leah
ok for the second half of my summer i want to keep summer going good..any ideas on what me and my friends can do to make this summer memorable?
thanks!
16/f
make a time capsual. put your memories in a box and then barrie it in your back yard..or wherever. then in like....10 years set up a time for you guys to meet there again and dig it back up! hope it works out
♥ cookierat123 ♥
me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok, i think you should bring it up. i mean life is too short to just watch it pass you by...you should be livving it. take a risk or two. or youll regeat not doing it later on in life...
hope i helped ♥ cookierat123
hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks
a crimper or curling iron then brush it out.
okay well i got my period summer before 7th grade.. and im in the summer before 9th grade right now....and i still havent used tampons!! at first i really just, didnt feel the need to..but now i feel the need to and all my friends do and i just cant.. ive tried a couple times but idk.. ive done it with a mirror on the floor, and one of my legs on the ground and one up.. so i can see what im doing.. and it looks as if there is something blocking where i am supposed to be putting it... does that sound normal? i REALLY want to just somehow shove it up there but i dont know exactly what im doing.. ive read instructions and even books made for girls called Caring For Girls... please help i think there issometing wrong with me down there... thanks a bunch sry if i grossed you out=)
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alright, i used to have this problem, so i know what you mean. alright this is gonna sound sick but here it goes. alright you gonna have to feel around for the hole (gross i know) then just stick it in and slide it up there....discusting....
dont worry there is nothing wrong with you. i thought there was something wrong with me but then i relized that there wasnt. so good luck with that and im sory if IIIII grossed you out lol.
♥ cookierat123
theres a song that goes like:
im like a bird, fly away, i dont know where my home is..
who sings this and what is the name of it?
its called im like a bird
♥ cookierat123
hey i am 13 and im an ice skater. i want a new screen name but i cant think of anything. i want it to have to do with ice skating, if anyone has any ideas please answer !! thank you so much
iceskatingirl
Hey Everyone! Well recently I discovered that the guy I've been crushing on for a month doesn't like me, because of the 5 yr age difference we have. Every single time I start thinking about him (which is pretty often) I feel siick to my stomach with the knowledge of me not being able to have him. I need to find an alternative that can replace him> meaning whenever I think about hm, I can just do something else that will get my mind off of him> My ? is what should that alternative thing be?? I honestly think that I'm in love with this guy I'm never going to be able to have. I need a cure to get over him and find some1 else that I like better. Please help I'm desperate!
alright, get a hobby like..um...eh...swimming, biking, skating, or just working out. get involved with something healthy! get your mind off of him! good luck!
♥ cookierat123 ♥
a few questions here...
im not fat by all means...just curious
whats a normal weight for girl that is 5'10?
and how can i tone up my stomach other than sit ups and crunches, its not flabby or anything but i guess anyone can use a tone up
i have really muscular legs but when i wear a skirt or something the top part of my thighes rub together and it gets really irritated and it hurts, how can i keep them from rubbing together and is that normal?
thanks a zillion xO
OH OH OH I KNOW! alright go to www.am-i-fat.com and type in your weight and your height and it will tell you! YEA!
♥ cookierat123
Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions?
wow, even though you told me NOT to say this but im gonna say it anyway. YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR OWN WAY! the next time you look in your mirror i want you to think to yourself about the wonderful things about you...not just outside but inside. trust me i feel that im ugly sometimes too, but then i relize in the end that im my own person and dont need the people who bring me down. i hope i helped and if you want to ask me anything else go ahead.
♥ leah AKA cookierat123
My friend lets call her july she can be really annoying sometimes and she is really really really reallly really really lazy and slow we have only know eachother for like 1 year she drives me crazy now and has to know everything about my family she tells my mom everything and i hate it i want to tell her but she never listens! What should i do?
you need to lay down the law with this chick. tell her that you need some space and air! tell her that your sorry if this sounds mean but you dont know wat else to do about it. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.
♥ leah
ok
ive known liam for about 3 years now and he is soo great! we are like best friends but my feelings have grown for him. hes moving away soon to live in australia. i really want to be with him. has any one got any advice on how to hint or tell him that i want to be with him?
please help me!
thanks
just tell him strait up. say it like this....listen..i really like you and i want to be with you. thats the way to go. hope i helped
♥ leah
I'm 13 and i'm looking for a way to earn some cash, and babysitting seems the best way, trouble is i dont really know anyone i could babysit! does anyone have any ideas on how i could find some customers??
tell your mom or dad or who ever, that you want them to ask people in there work if they need someone to babby sit. it helped me get some MAJOR cash, so i hope it helps you. $$$$$$$$$
Tryouts for my school's volleyball team start the week before school starts. My mom also works a lot and the only week she has off is that same week, so she planned for our family and her cousin and my cousins to all go to my grandparents lake for that week. I'm in 8th grade, and last year I made B team, so its not like volleyball is all I do. I also go to the lake every year, so its not like I'll never be there again... and if I miss tryouts I can't play at all. Should I go on vacation or stay and play volleyball????
i think you should go on the vacation...i mean you have you WHOLE life to play volley ball, right?
Allright my friendboy Lynn kissed me in a hotel bed, but he has a girlfriend. I kissed him back but I don't know what I should do. So, what should I do?
confused_on_this
ask your guy friend why he kissed you if he had a girl friend. tell him that it isnt right to do that. tell him that you both made a mistake doing that when he had a girl friend. i hope i helped
This previous year I was new to a school and made friends with all seniors. Now, that im a senior and they all graduated, i dont know ONE person. I'm not exactly good at making friends, i was lucky enough to meet them last year. (People at my school have already formed their cliques and dont really accept anyone.) I used to be extremely outgoing and have tons of friends at my old school, but im a completely different person now that im in an unfamiliar place. So now that school is coming up, im not sure what to do the first couple weeks of school. I know it'll take time before i make friends, because thats just me. So in the meantime, do I just sit by myself during lunch and hope that someone will come up to me? I'd rather be the one to go out and make friends, but it wont happen. Also, if you saw someone sitting by themself would you honestly go up to them? Any advice?
ok, i would go up to someone. life is short, so live it. if you see a person that is in one of your classes sitting alone,go up to them and say " hey dont we have ____ together?" and just say wat you thin about the teacher and stuff. then say your name and blah blah...there ya go, ya made a friend.
My friend says that blink-182 is a band which mainly girls listen to. I was like, no dude, blink-182 isn't like that. There are about the same of both. It's not a guys or girls band, kind of something which everyone listens to. Who would you say is correct?
YOU! all my guy friends listen to blink 182. i listen to it...well, im a girl...but w/e. boys can listen to it too. who does your friend think he is?
Are there any true Christians on here?????? Christians who belive that Christianity isn't a religion, but that it's a relationship between you and Jesus and a lifestyle. Are there any Christians out there that Love Jesus Christ with their whole heart and want to serve him NO MATTER WHAT????
ah...ya....im not like SUPER DUPER religous or anything, but i do belive in god, and i am a christian.
school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers!
get a straintener and straiten your hair
my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.
OK! OK! OK! IM GONNA TRY TO HELP YOU! CHILL! alright, i know you said you were shy but you need to some how talk to him. say this "um...did you call me?" and say it like you think its a prank but you still dont care. that way either way you say it you dont get embarased. tell your parents that you dont know y he called...