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ok, i like this guy. my friend IMed him and asked him what he liked about me, he told her i was nice and kind and then she tried to get him more into details and he avoided the subject and told her it's not nice to talk about people behind there backs. almost like he was sticking up for me. he used to IM me all the time but now he dosn't i IM him with a random question which ends up turning into a conversation. he recently told me his dad had cancer, and the wayhe told me i didnt get what he said at first, so i asked him if his dad had cancer. he said he had to go and said bye, and signed off. In school i notice whenever im hanging out with a guy he looks at me laugh or watever, same with my best friend.

he sit's closer to me at lunch and talks to one of the guys i hang out with. i've caught him looking at me and i look away. i've also caught his mum looking at me like he told her something. His mum and my mum talks.i've called him once and it's always akward we end up taling about more personal stuff on Instant message too. more about our families too! when ever i tell him something random, he points it outor when i say somthing he teases me or tries to prove he's right!we are kinda friends i mean we've kinda talked in school and when he looks at me i look away. when i didnt go to a dance he Imed me and asked me where i was? and also when i left home sick, he asked me where i went? and it was like he accually cared about where i was. i know most guys would tell the girl they like, but the last time he told a girl he liked her she didnt like him back and it broke his heart. i watched him say by day in pain!(i kinda felt bad and fell for him) when ever i enter class he stares at me but dosnt smile.once in class he said my name and waved, smiling. that has only happended once, besides him looking at me. my friend always chats with him, but im usually by him and i kinda see him looking at her and then me but i look away. i see fear and sadness in his eyes. like he's afraid to tell me.

does he like me?

confused girl*
AKA Chris

like ive told you a million times grl.. he "LIKES" you!! lol

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Well im talking and i liek this sertain person and i sort of think that she likes me too and ive talked to her only on AIM and i dont talk to her at other places though and i really want to atleast be her bf
beucase i really like her and im wondering how can i tell her how i can be her bf I Would Really need help about this it would help so much:(

im not an expert at this or anything but ill try to helo :P
Talk to her like you do on AIM and then just ask her, its alot easyer since your not face to face so just type it and hit enter lol.
if you want you can talk to me about this on AIM lol if you wanna know more ;)
n3thinbut0rdinry
good luck!

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omg i just got braces like this morning and they are kind of sore..will anyone give me some advice on what to do and how to floss and all that stuff?? thanksss

it will take your mouth a while to get used to the braces... but with the flossing all you need to do is the same thing but you need to put the floss between you braces to get to the teeth... its quite frustraiting if you ask me lol.
h.i.h.

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does anybody have a quick and easy way of learning to swim?

go into the pool and use floties for a while, once you get the hang of it take them off or use smaller ones that dont lift you as much, but remember to move your arms and legs to keep yourself afloat.
good luck!

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okay my mom is going to dallas for the night till tomorrow at lunch, and my sister is watching us. ahe cant drive though, i need some good ideas of things to occupy me, that dont involve tv, books, or hanging out with my siblings

you could listen to music, draw, do a craft, chat on the computer, call your friends, do some school work if you have any, tan outside if its nice.. and thats all i got lol
h.i.h.

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Where can I find cute cursors?

go here: http://xquizit.xangans.com/cursors
they have some cute ones ;)

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Trent and I went on one date last year. To the movies. But there was some confusion in our relationship, so we never actually dated, but there was no awkwardness between us because we still felt like there was something there I guess, at least a friendship. This year I've been going out with Rob for 6 months, but recently I've come to the realization that I'm not attracted to him anymore. We never do anything with each other, and last week it was really awkward every time I saw him, and he's just not..interesting to me anymore. And meanwhile....Trent's back. He's in one of my classes this semester and we hang out a lot and have a ton of fun together every time. All of my friends say he never stopped liking me, and secretly I really think I never stopped liking him either. I had feelings for Rob, but they just weren't as strong as I thought they were. Anyway, they're gone now, and I know I'm being a jerk to one of them either way. (Because I KNOW I flirt with Trent all the time) So I think I want to break up with Rob, but I really want to still be friends, and I really love his family. His mom and dad have been every sort of nice to me, and his brother and I have been friends for awhile too. I just don't want to ruin other relationships by the natural deterioration of this one. I also don't want to jump right to Trent, because that would look really shallow, but I have a feeling I would end up telling him how I feel pretty soon after my breakup. I don't know, I guess this sums up to, how do I tell Rob it's over without ruining other relationships? And how do I stop myself from rushing to tell Trent my feelings?

Humm... well just tell Rob nicly that you don't want to go out with him but you wouls still like to be friends.
And then tell Trent that you still like him maybe a week later or to make it look less obviouce maybe two weeks.
good luck to ya! and hope i helped :)

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What is this friction between us?

What does that mean and what does friction mean?

It could mean that a persons wondering what the relation ship with between another person is or that you just click together like a puzzle piece.

go here to see what friction means: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=friction

hope i helped :D

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hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx

well my lil bro grew his hair hout but what he does is he either takes a shower and lest it air dry to make it look good or he fixes it with gell.
Also if you like your hair dont cut it lol. I think most guys look good in long hair anyways lol. but like i said, shower air dry or gell works great. or even just wetting your hair a little works too.
hope i helped*
simone

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What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more?

all i can say is: you love who you love, it donesn't matter in what you believe in, for all i know someone who i might really love could believe in something totally different that i might have never heard about, so if you think that you two like each other enough and you can see each other as a couple go for it!

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My mom is like soooo annoying! She constantly makes me repeat myself and takes everything the wrong way(for example: i'll say something like completely random and not in a mean way or anything and she'll take it as an insult and i'll give her an insult and she thinks its like a joke or something). Also, she still treats me like i'm about 3 years old and I'm actually 14!I try to put up with her the best I can but I usually end up being mad at her for severaly pissing me off. I know it doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but believe you me it gets extremely frustrating after 14 long years! Also she always points out the odvious and asks stupid questions and never listens to any answers! plus I just wanted to send in a question cuz this is my first!:)

well i think she doesnt want you to grow up, she want to have you as her little daughter you used to be. But look at it this way, at least you have a mom that listens.. or so she seems like she does lol.
h.i.h. and good luck with her ;)

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well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!

if your looking for themes try maybe a horror movie, those are probably the hardest. i trie my self lol. But their the most fun!
You could try a romantic movie if guys are involved. maybe somthing really drama or something really random, kinda like The life of the Nerds (Napolyen Dynamite) and stuff like that.
Music Videos are fun too.
have fun! h.i.h.

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there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!

.: Miss Confused :.

Ignore Courtney and dump him, because it seems to me like they like each other more than he likes you. I don't like saing stuff like that but its true.
h.i.h.

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If there are any cat experts out there, I need your help! My cat has constantly been throwing up her food twice a day for almost a week! (She's not bulimic!LOL)What's wrong??? I rate 5's!

well i have a cat so i might know.
but what yours seems to have i would take it to the vet! like now! cuz that doesnt sound to good.. i think your cat might be stuffed up and it cant digest to the stomach so it thows up.
Hope your cat gets better soon!! :)
simone

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Last year I was on the track team on the four by 100 meter relay. It was awesome and I loved it. This year was not the same. I was absent for a few days and missed my chance to be on the relay team. Another girl, who I happen to not really like, got on the team. This is her first year to be in sports and she honestly thinks she's better than everyone. She's one of those girl's whose egos are bigger than their wardrobe. I was upset, yes, because I wanted to be on the team not her. I was mad and her and I got in a little fight. I got over it quickly because I realized that it was stupid of me to be upset, but she got her "BFF" involved. A few days after the last track meet her BFF posted this in her xanga hope  you did great at the track  meet w/ YOUR relay team..and showed kristin whos relay team that really is..! (because we ALL know its not hers)... I'm upset, but I don't know what to do? Am i right to be upset?

its fine to be upset about it but i mean i would just ignore it, its not the most important thing in the world, so act like you dont care and they'll leave you along.
h.i.h. and good luck!

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Keenan was an 8th grader last year and i was a 7ie. We were good friends and were both really good singers. Anyway, this year he is in 9th now. Well i had to do a solo for a choir concert so i asked him if he would do a song with me. We got permission from my director and started to practice. Now that the song has progressed i think im starting to like him. He is the sweetest thing in the world. The problem is i wont be going to his school for another 4 months. I really like him and i think he likes me. My question...... should i risk telling him how i feel?
thnx!

I would wait a little longer just to make sure that you really like him. Try to pick up hints, and maybe after the preformance ask him, just incase, you wouldnt want to feel all weird when you prefrom.
but yea i would :)
good luck!

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ok i need help yesterday 4/14/05 i was baby sitting my best friends little 4 year old brother because she went on vacation and we were playing hide and seek in my woods and after a few minets i could not finde him then i herd him scream!! i finally found him crying and screming on the ground a stick got poked rite in his eye im not sure how far back it got i pulled it out but half of the stick broke off into his eye he is getting very sick and i can't get any thing done with out his parents permission and they don't even kno their coming back on 4/19/05 in 5 day and i don't kno wut to do HELP ME PLEAS!!!

call the parents and say that your bringing him to the hspital. This is very seriouce. Even if you just leave a message. thats fine, but don't wait until they get home because things could leade to worse, so id drivehim to the hospital and if they ask you qustions on stuff you need just say that you have been babysitting and they aren't comming home until the 19th and that you called them ect..
o i hope everything goes ok with him. good luck!

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I'm going to a car show tomorrow with my boyfriend. It's suppose to be 72 degrees. I don't know what to wear, or how I should wear my hair(it's right below shoulder length)
Please help.

Wear your hair down with a cute T and caprees or jean shorts.
its comfterble and cool for the nice wearther.
But i would wear somthing that you like to wear becuase im sure he'll love you no matter what you look like.

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I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out

ive never beem pregnant but i'd say you probably feel WAY different, and you could get morning sickness which is where you either get nausia or thow up (not every one gets it) um... your appitaight may change.
thats all i know :P but you can try google and type something like, ways to tell i'm pregnant.
or somthing like that.
good luck!

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I really don't know where to put this.

I was just downstairs doing my homework, and I yawned. It felt like something popped and then my tongue and the outside of my neck/jaw began to hurt. It is physically painful to move my head backwards (like to look up at the sky) because it pulls on my neck and tongue and I don't know what I did...

Maybe I just pulled a muscle? Please help...it is also painful to swallow, although bearable. It feels almost like the kind of cramp you get in your foot when you flex it and then it 'catches' and continues to flex by itself.

it probably is just a puuled muscle or a pain that you would get in you foot, neck, shoulder... ect. I think that happened to me before... but i dont remember lol.
But if it keeps hurting for more than a week maybe go see a doctor, but im pretty sure its just a pulled muscle. :)
h.i.h.

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