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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Please help at all. if you could help, even just a little, itd be really appreciated. Tell me if there is anyway to make these foods healthy & still tasty when i feel like ordering them at restaurants or for take-out on weekends:

-quesidillas (probably didnt spell right)with cheese& chicken
-panini's (grilled sandwiches)
-pasta
-dessert

if i think of anything out, ill add it---

I'm not sure how healthy quesadillas may be, but I know that cheese&chicken are good for you. Grilled sandwiches might be good, but I'm not exactly sure. Pasta is full of carbs, & desserts have lots of calories & sugars. I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help.

Try asking Mike. He's made for questions like this. Here's his column:

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=MikeCFT

How do you know if you're in love?

You know how when you like someone, and they just make you feel good? Well, love is like that only like 33056849674x better. I mean, you always wanna be around them, and you miss them right after they leave. You always wanna hear their voice & kiss them & hold them. You want to know everything about them, and you wanna be the person they go to for everything. You want to know what they're thinking about, & what's on their mind. You just want everything & you would do anything&everything for them.

well,yesterday at school i was sitting in the shed with all my friends just talking and messing about.and then in a flash this basketball was kicked into the side of my head where my temple is and then i banged the back of my head into the wall.i stood up and i fell back down again because i went all dissy and my eyes went blury.i felt like vomiting and going to sleep all yesterday.today im home from school because i have a really bad headache and i still feel like im going to get sick.my appetite is gone.and i just feel exhausted ater having 10 hours sleep.im just worried of it because it was the temple of my head.should i get it cheaked out by a doctor?

I think you may have a concussion, so you should definitely see your doctor.

Hey I really like the movie "A goofy movie" which came out in the late 90s and I really want to know where I could buy it. And I'm talking about the first one not the second one. I live in Australia, so if you're american don't say an American shop. I really don't know where to find it because it's kinda old...thanks!

Since I don't live anywhere near Australia, I have NO idea what stores you guys have there, so I couldn't possibly suggest Wal*Mart or Target.

Try possibly Ebay?

i'm in love with a guy that i've only had 1 date with... he's my soulmate i can tell already. like omg.

well, he's about 2 1/2 feet taller than i am... so I don't know how I can kiss him...

I'm going to ask him to go bowling for our 2nd date... but when is the best time to kiss him?

and how am I going to accomplish it when he's so much taller?????

thx

I've kissed guys a lot taller than me, and it's not really as diffucult as you think it is. They usually bend down to kiss you, or they can pick you up to kiss. If you don't like those ideas, maybe kiss him while sitting or something.

what does the lyric "im telling you as fast as i can, im a trend" from the cute is what we aim for song I Put The "Metro" In Metronome mean? like the "im a trend" part.

thanks!

Shaant means that he's good for nothing more than a one night stand, and that it's a bad idea to get into a relationship with him.

I personally think it'd be a great idea. He's sexy, haha.

What is up with PeterAnswers.com? I don't really understand it..

It's some dumb site where you ask "Peter" a question & he gives you an answer. His answers were supposed to have something to do with what you asked, but I went there and they didn't. The kids at my school basically made it out to be something it wasn't, and it's a waste of a site. It's just a joke of a site that someone made when they had nothing better to do with their time.

Sorry if this isn't the right catergory....
I'm an 18 year old female. I've been on and off dieting for a few years now and nothing seems to be working the way I'd like it too. I lost elevn pounds last summer but I gained it all back as soon as School started again. I've been considering diet pills and since I'm old enough to buy them now, I think I'm gonna try them. I have afew questions though.
1.) Can anyone tell me the risks involved?
2.) I heard that once you stop using them, you gain all the weight back, but if I work ahrd enough, will the weight stay off?
3.) What would be the best and most effective for me?
Any help would be much appreciated.

Diet pills work & fast, but they're not healthy for you at all. They make you lose an excessive amount of weight in a short period of time, and it's true. If you stop using them, you'll gain all the weight back. I would just lose the weight healthily. It's more work, but it's better for you.

okay so anyone who's every read the clique series knows how close Massie and her friends are. well i want to have a clique like that and go shopping together with my friends. we sort of have a clique (4 of us) but i dont know if they want to hang out alot. how do i get a clique like the Pretty Committe? im 13/f by the way

Cliques are a bad idea, but if you want one, then just start hanging out more. I'm pretty sure they'll want to.

k so about a month ago or maybe less than a month my boyfriend was fingering me and still has been. but afterwards i had really bad cramps and my stomach felt really tight and i'd bleed a little. and i know that the cramps werent my period because that wasnt until the 19th and it was still a ways away. but when the 18th came i thought i started my period cause there was blood so i put a tampon in. (he hadnt fingered me that night i dont think) but anyways that was the only blood there ever was.. and the tampon wasnt even full. and usually i last for like 4 or 5 days with a decent amount of blood. i heard that physical activity and advil will help slow blood down and that week was cheer clinics for me and i took a buttload of advil because i didnt want cramps during clincis or tryouts.. so could that of had some effect on it? ive been really onerey lately and i still have cramps and stuff... whats going on?

That sounds weird to me. See your gynocologist.

And disregard the girl below me. While you may be young (which I'm not sure you are since you didn't state your age), she is not permitted to tell you what to do, or why your boyfriend is with you. Just make sure if you have sex to wait until you're completely ready & to use a condom.

My dog is 4 years old and housebroken. Lately (six months and counting) he pees in the house. He usually picks something that is laying on the floor, shoes, bookbags, clothes. He is crated when we are not home and is on a leash when he is outside. What can we do to stop this?

Teach your doggie right & wrong with rewards & punishments.

When you see he has to use the bathroom. Take him outside, and when he goes to the bathroom, tell him he's a good boy & give him a treat. Do that enough & he'll eventually learn where the bathroom is, and what to do when he needs to use it.

When he goes inside the house, give him a punishment. Don't abuse him, but make sure you let him know that it's bad & that's not where the potty is.

i really need more answers, you might think there good, but they still dnt make sense to me :]

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=488465

thanx

This doesn't really qualify as a question, but I'll answer anyways.

He sounded like he wanted to be popular so he could date you because maybe he saw you as the type that doesn't date the uncool guys. Just talk to him about it some more & see what's up. He's a little confusing.

In a month or so, there is going to be a JAM'N 94.5 Concert about 40 minutes away. My parents and I are a little tense about the concert because there's going to be all rap stars there. (Young Jeezy, Omarion, Bow Wow, Jim Jones, Lloyd, Ne-Yo, Ludacris etc.) And I would LOVE to see these people live, but I'm afraid these rap guys will attract bad people. Do you think the concert would attract a lot of "gangsters" and etc.?? I`m scared they might like pull out a gun and I want to feel safe... Please give me any advice and answers that you can...

I don't think you've got anything to worry about. There are stupid people who want drama/attention, but I think that it you go with some friends or whatever, you'll be fine. There's gonna be a lot of security & bodyguards there though, so you've got no reason to worry. =) Have fun.

Tomorrow I'm going to a rock concert with a friend. What should I wear, and how should I do my hair and makeup?

Also, what do you think I should take? We're going to be standing near the mosh pit, and I don't want to lose anything valuable.

Thanks in advance, xxx

Always wear something comfortable. That goes for your shoes too.

I would wear some cute jeans, & maybe a band-tee if you've got one. I would suggest wearing a hoodie if it's a little cold where you live, but if not, then don't bring one since it'll be a hassle to carry around in the concert. And you might get over heated. If you listen to this band & have their record, bring it with you along with a sharpie. Bands usually go by the Merch & meet their fans or go out after all the bands are done playing [if there's more than one]. Bring money to buy merch, & bring your camera/cell phone to take pictures. =) If you don't want to lose your things, take a purse or a tote bag. For your hair, maybe straighten it? Just wear eyeliner/mascara for your makeup. You don't want anything too overdramatic.

Have fun at the concert. They're amazing.

Does anyone have a good routine for waking up in the morning.As in getting ready for school
Time for hair
And make up.

From
6:00
to
7:00
And any good remedies for staying awake and falling asleep at night.
Mine doesn't seem to be working.

Maybe try getting up earlier & going to sleep earlier? Try going to bed an hour earlier before you usually do, and trying getting up at 5am.
5:00-5:30 am -- workout.
5:30-6:00 am -- shower.
6:00-6:30 am -- hair/makeup.
6:30-7:00 am -- clothes/checking if you have everything.

And then that could work. Don't workout/eat before going to bed cause it can keep you up & you won't feel relaxed like you're supposed to at bedtime. Maybe take a sleeping pill about an hour prior to bedtime so it kicks in right as you're about to go to sleep.

alright.
so i spent april 7th- april 22nd at my boyfriends house for spring break.
we are in a long distance relationship.
spring break was the first time i had seen him since january.
well. me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 2months. we are very much in love. and plan to get married within the next few years.
the only problem right now is his father.
his father for some reason s me.
neither of us know why because i have never been rude or disrespectful to him or anything bad. but his dad calls me a wench and a . and stuff like that. my boyfriends father hating me is causing tension between the two of them. and i dont want them to have a bad relationship because of me..but at the same time i refuse to let him go..ive been with him for over a year. and i couldnt picture myself with anybody but him. im so in love with him. and he loves me too. my boyfriend is actually thinking of completely disowning his father until he learns to respect me and apologizes to me for the things hes said to me and the way he has treated me. but i dont want him and his dad to stop talking just because of me. i dont know what to do. im so confused. the rest of my boyfriends family likes me..his mom. his sister. his grandparents. aunts. uncles and cousins all like me. its just his dad and his brother. his brother doesnt like me coz hes a suck up and if his dad dont like someone he doesnt either. but im so confused. what should i do!

If they don't like you then that's their problem. They're missing out on a great person, and you can't make them like you. I would say to just be as sweet as can be to them. Don't kiss their asses or anything, but just be nice like you usually are & be the best you can. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him you don't want their relationship to suffer because of you. But no matter what, it's your boyfriend's decision, and if he doesn't wanna talk to them until they decide to respect/accept you, then you can't stop him from making that decision.

hey, my name is nicole...i really need advice and i didnt want to ask the whole advicenators because i wasnt completely comfortable with what the answers would be

you seem like you know a lot and you give good, real answers which is what i need...sorry in advance for the length...

okay, first off...im 15 and my boyfriend is 16

im not sure if hes done or anyhting or what hes done with other girls...he probly has but idk ...iev been dating him for about 5 months now and i love him to death! (ive never done anything but make out)

im most definatly ready to start doing sexual things with him and so is he...i know this because he's tried to do things when we were making out but i stopped him adn changed the subject like three times because i get nervous, anxious, and i feel like im not gonna be good enough...i get concious about the way i look "down there" and just EVERYTHING but im definatly ready for it...

i have some questions though...

well a couple months ago i was talking to one of my guy friends and he was telling me how he gave oral to a girl and she didnt cum and we were talking about masterbation and he asked me if i did and i said yeah and hes like did you ever get an orgasm before? and i was sort of confused becuase every time i masterbate, i orgasm...ever since i started...

is it not normal for girls to orgasm??

and when i watch movies like sometiems the girls have sex for the first time and itll be there first orgasm...im just a little confused about that...

when guys give oral do girls normally cum? what normally happens?

and like does the guy keep going until she orgasms normally?

what do guys normally like thebest...completely shaved or some shaved?

when giving a guy oral, do girls normally swallow it or just finish him off with their hand and not swallow?

and if they dotn swallow...then like what do you do with it when youre finished...what normally happens??

when a girl gives a guy oral...what does the guy like and what does the girl normally do??

...like how does she start it then what does a girl do that guys really like...just a little bit of some of the things to do...

thank you so much in advance...i just need answers about how everything really is and normally happens

Hey. Sorry it's taken me so long to answer your question, I got banned, so I apologize for that. Anyways...

[1] Yeah. Some girls just don't orgasm sometimes. And it's totally cool. You're not abnormal, so don't go off think you are, cause you're not.
[2] Some girls can't get off when masturbating, so sometimes during sex the guy can make it happen, I suppose.
[3] Honestly, I've never given or received oral, and I don't plan to, but I guess the girl cums, or she orgasms. Whichever. Usually both.
[4] I think the guy keeps going until she cums.
[5] It honestly depends on the guy. Some guys like a certain type of wax, some guys like it completely shaved off. I suggest you shave it completely because sometimes the guy won't want a girl with hair and it might be a turn off for him. So until a guy tells you otherwise, shave it.
[6] It depends on the girl. Some girls spit it out, some girls swallow it. It's all up to you.
[7] You spit it out, haha. When you're finished, then the foreplay or whatever keeps going unless you decide to stop.
[8] I've never given oral before, so I honestly don't know what guy would like. Maybe ask some of your guy friends?
[9] I think a girl would start it by just kissing him & leading down there, but I don't know.

Sorry if that didn't answer it, but I hope I helped anyways.

what is sambal

What is google?

I had sex on the last day of my period (like i was still bleeding lightly but we both wanted to anyway), he came inside of me figuring i couldn't get pregnant since it was my last day. true?

NO. NO. NO. NO. NO.

You can get pregnant at any time. UGH.

so i have this friend. and she criticizes EVERYTHING, especially music. so i found this new band mcfly, and i like them and they're pretty good, they're a british punk band. and she HATES them. shes always saying they're whiny and nasty and a boy band, and she hasnt listened to them. so i said cute is what we aim for is whiny and nasty. but, ive actually listened to them and i think they are like that. then she got mad and started flipping out saying cute is what we aim for is not whiny and that i didnt know what i was talking about and stuff. this is just getting really annoying and if she listened to them and then said they were whiny, id be fine with it. because she at least have something to base her opinion off of. but she refuses to listen to them. so how can i get her to either listen to them or just stop talking about them?

thanks

I think you're gay for not liking Cute Is What We Aim For.

My opinion.

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