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fingering
k so about a month ago or maybe less than a month my boyfriend was fingering me and still has been. but afterwards i had really bad cramps and my stomach felt really tight and i'd bleed a little. and i know that the cramps werent my period because that wasnt until the 19th and it was still a ways away. but when the 18th came i thought i started my period cause there was blood so i put a tampon in. (he hadnt fingered me that night i dont think) but anyways that was the only blood there ever was.. and the tampon wasnt even full. and usually i last for like 4 or 5 days with a decent amount of blood. i heard that physical activity and advil will help slow blood down and that week was cheer clinics for me and i took a buttload of advil because i didnt want cramps during clincis or tryouts.. so could that of had some effect on it? ive been really onerey lately and i still have cramps and stuff... whats going on?
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You should almost definitely see a doctor if you continue to have abnormal bleeding. It may, in fact, have nothing to do with your boyfriend fingering you. There is a possibility that if he were very rough while fingering you that he broke your hymen, or popped your "cherry". However, that would not explain abdominal cramps.
BUT, on one hand, here is what could have happened:
There are many reasons that your period would be lighter that are well within the scope of "normal". Physical activity, especially something as vigorous as "cheer camp" undoubtably is, can definitely cause lighter and shorter menstration.
The bleeding could have been irritation if he was too rough, AND the abdominal cramps could have been caused by ovulation. Did these cramps occur about midcycle (smack dab between two periods)? Many women have slight cramping and sort of premenstrual symptoms during ovulation. It could have been a coincidence that they occured in conjunction with each other.
If you feel concerned about it, and if your cycle continues to be abnormal, or if you have irregular bleeding, your only option is to consult a doctor.
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see your gynecologist and tell him/her your problem. For the time being...you might want to tell your boyfriend to stop fingering you until you find out whats wrong. Get everything checked out before you become active again.
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That sounds weird to me. See your gynocologist.
And disregard the girl below me. While you may be young (which I'm not sure you are since you didn't state your age), she is not permitted to tell you what to do, or why your boyfriend is with you. Just make sure if you have sex to wait until you're completely ready & to use a condom.
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I don't know what's going on with your body and our period, but your boyfriend needs to stop fingering you.
That is just wrong.
Guys often say they love you only because they want to have sex with you.
Love is when someone will sacrifice what they want for you.
Please tell your boyfriend to back off before you end up getting hurt.
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