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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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Okay so my friend said she hates my boyfriend, and always tells me to dump him or she will make my live hell.. she said that i deserve someone hotter because my boyfriend is ugly, and cares about only me. She and my boyfriend are always arguing and it makes me cry, and today she was being really mean to him, and she made him cry, and then me. I dont know what to do..please help!

Well if you guys are friends, talk it out with her and see what's bugging her. And a boyfriend is supossed to care about your feelings; he'll understand. Let him down easy. Say you want to break up but you want to be really good friends. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Whenever I have a guy I like or my guy friends over or just any friends in general over, my little brother ALWAYS has to be with us. I can say "Can you go upstairs for a little..just for A LITTLE..please?" and he goes "i can do whatever I want" And it gets so annoying and my mom doesn't care and she lets him annoy us.I can be in my OWN room and he STILL won't get out and my mom lets him stay in there too. I even ask her NICELY to have him go upstairs with her and she goes "he's not annoying just deal with it"..how am I EVER gonna have boys and friends and my boyfriend come over without my brother around us all the time?HELP ME BEFORE I EXPLODED :x

Just let your mom catch him in the act. He just wants attention and if you completely ignore him, he'll go away. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I want to make Dance Company at my school this year. The thing is, it's for "advanced and talented" dancers, and I'm just okay. What can I do to prepare myself for tryouts (on September 1st) ????

Practice a lot and get your parents or siblings to grade you on performance. Then you'll make it! Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i recently meet this guy. hes great and i really like him but i cant stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend...i really wanna get back 2gether with him and at the same time i dont cuz he wuld always blow me off and never see me and the guy i met he likes me alot and i like him 2 and he wuld do anything for me.but everytime im with him i end upp think about muh ex...what should i doo?

It sounds like you can't chose between the two. Give it time and it'll solve itself. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey.. I am a 17 year old female.. And I am really REALLY stuck between these two guys. {D and G}.. I really like them both, me and "G" have more in common though. BUT my parent's don't want me to date "G". They like "D".. And I am not allowed to see "G" (Sorry if I am not making any sense!) I really really like them both though, and the both are really nice guys. The thing is, "G" keeps asking me out, and he knows that I like him... And I would love to go out with him again.. BUT... "D" is a person that I don't have to hide from my parents, and I don't have to lie about.. But I am really stuck, because I think I like "G" more... What should I do?!?

D's and G's are too confusing for me. Hope I helped!

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Well, this question is only for those who have serious answers. My hair really doesn't curl or scrunch. It just doesn't. What are some other non-boring hairdo's or things to do with hair besides straightening it all the time? Any other ideas that ACTUALLY work for most hair?

You could try putting it into a bun or keeping it own most of the time. Or you could put curlers in the previous night if you want curly hair. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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OKay I know there's a lot of questions like these, but I really need your absolute HONEST opinion about what I should do.

Me & this kid named Joshua met in May, and we've been very close since, we started dating the day we met because we had a lot in common, and we straight off the bat liked each other. We dated for about two months, until he broke up with me because he had feelings towards another girl. Which I was okay with, because I knew he'd come to me, our relationship was just too strong to be friends. We dated, again - I took him back because I just really liked him (not loved.)

In about July I started having extreme feelings for Joshua, he made me so happy, I thought maybe I was falling in love? I was really unsure, so we were still dating, & he broke up with me again, and he didn't tell me why. Then we dated AGAIN & I broke up with him because I thought I felt feelings towards my best guy friend. Now we're just pretty good friends, we talk a lot, & I just found out that while we were dating, he was telling his best girl - friend that he loved her, and calling her baby. That makes me extremely mad, because he's hurt me so much & I've never done anything like this to him before.

My question is: Should I still remain friends with him?? I don't think I'd ever be able to date him again. But he hurt me so many times in the past, I'm just unsure. If you were in my situation would you be friends with him, or would you never talk to him, again?

Thanks =)
I'll rate you a five just for answering my question. Sorry it's forever and a day long.

My advice to you: stay friends. It sounds like hs or you are not comitted enough to each other to have a comitted relationship towards each other. But if you choose not to follow my advice, go right ahead. I'm giving advice because I'm good at it. Please rate a 5. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??

thanks lots!
I rate high!

A girl looks for good looks and if they treat her right. She also looks for kindness, respect and consideration. In a conversation, they like to be noticed ans have a lot of sweet things said to them. They also wanna know that you love them. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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On Sunday I'm going to the beach wwith my family and another family who has a 14 year old son. He's a year older than me and he's cute!!! I have these one pieces that i look good in, but i also have some bikinis. The problem with my bikinis is my nipples show through the fabric!!! Yuck!! Should i wear the bikini anyway or go with a one piece?

Wear the bikini and wear a wifebeater over it in the pool. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either)

For one thing, it doesn't matter on the outside, it matters what's inside. I think you're being too picky. Try it out at first and if you don't like it, then you can dump him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Yahoo launch, and MTV.com music videos aren't working for me. Are there any more music video sites that are similar to launch? Like It keeps playing videos without picking certain ones? if that makes any sense...
but i really need help, this is driving me nuts!

Go to www.musicvideocodes.com. It may take awhile to load but it'll be worth it. They have a bunch of songs by different artists. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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well i just found out yesturday that i'm moving this saturday .. n i dont kno how to tell my friend maria .. cuz i'm always playin jokes on her that i mite move and i'm afraid she wont believe me .. what shood i say??

Just say, Maria this is serious. I'm moving this Saturday. And if she won't believe you, take her to your parents and let them explain it all to her. Maybe then she'll understand. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Im 13/ female, and i have been cutting for about 4 years now. I had been doing better, with everything and finally getting over the things that had happened, I stopped seeing my dad which helped alot. At the beginning of this year, my mom sent me and my sister back to live at my dads house. I started getting hit again, and the school called my house a ton of times asking about the bruises. i made up excuses that people eventually just stopped believing and everyone figured the truth. Lately things have been getting really bad again and i've overdosed two times in the past month, and have had to get my stomach pumped. I have been cutting so much more and i hate what it does to my friends when they find out but im at the point where i just cant stop, and i really dont want to its the only thing that helps. i dont know what to do, can anyone help me ?

thanks

First of all, I'm sorry this is happening to you at such a young age. This can be a lot to deal with. You need to talk to someone who will listen and do something about the situation. This is enough to put him in jail. And talk to your dad about living permantly with your mom. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey! I am a girl, and a sophmore!

I am taking Geometry this year! today was my frist day, and my Geo. teacher has different teaching styles, and I am finding it very difficult to learn. He is really into using logic, and I am totally a streat smart person.
Do you have any tips or sugestions to help with this? is there anything that I can do with my notes or anything to help?

thanks so much!
-Kels-

I'll rate and leave feedback! :)

Well this teacher sounds like a tough one to live with. You can switch out or wait for it to get better. Most teachers are full on the first day. Just know that you will suceed in this class. Or you can walk up to him and ask him to explain it more after class. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something?

The best thing to do is to talk to your mom. Let her know you were embarrased to talk to her and maybe she'll make it less embarassing. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high

Just give it time and you'll stop thinking about him. What he did to you was wrong. Hope I helped!

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I know this is kind of a stupid question to ask because I shouldn't care what people think, but I'm new to my school and I want to fit in and not get made fun of so I was just wondering if Etnies and DVS shoes are just for "skaters" or what. I don't want to be called a poser - and I know I shouldnt care what people think - but like I said, I'm new and don't want to get made fun of. Thanks in advance.

Just be yourself. People should respect that. You'll have friends in no time. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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So, okay..to make a long story short. I'm 18, and recently was at a party, and had sex with this guy. For the first time, ever. We've been hanging out a lot lately, but it's only ever at a party. We don't always have sex. But, the last time we did, he stayed with me all night and cuddled. He tells me that he loves me. He says that he does because, he's lonely and I make him feel good, and that he has a lot to offer. He also says that it hurts when I don't say anything back. Which, I have huge issues with trust, and I'm not a complete moron. I'm a bit skeptical of it. He was in a relationship for two years, and it's been almost a year since they've broken up. The girl will fuck with his head and lead him on. He bitches about her a lot. So, I haven't really worked up the nerve to be like, "Hey..is this going anywhere, or do you still like her?" I know it's what I need to do. I was just wondering, if anyone else thinks that I'm just getting used, or if it seems like he does care for me, he's just afraid. He does say himself that he has trust issues, because she dumped him and started messing around with his friend. We sort of got in an argument last night, because I asked him, "Why don't you trust me?" And he just got up and left. WTF? I hate mind games. Someone help!!!

It seems like you're getting used. Guys talk a lot about their ex but they will not talk about them non-stop. Hope I helped!

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heyy i was the girl who asked about how my friends bf was flirting with me and stuff.. he hasnt said anything lately.. should i still tell my friend about it? or just keep it quiet and wait to see if he keeps doing it... thank s

If you really want to be a friend, you would immediatly tell your friend. Its up to you on what you wanna do. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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OK, my problem is a bit weird. I'm 16, and that's normal, at least I hope. Anyways, I relised on my vacation last week that I never want to get married. And this isn't one of those "Oh, you're still too young to decide" things. It is one of those impulses that I know I'll have for the rest of my life.
Yet, I still want a child when I'm older. A few years back, I had another one of these impulses which told me that I do not want a child of my own, but I want to adopt.
I really don't know. Is this normal? Or is something wrong with me?

Its normal. Some parents don't want to go through with the pains of childbirth so they decide to adopt. And it is true, you're too young. But don't take my word for it. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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