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Stuck between two guys...
Hey.. I am a 17 year old female.. And I am really REALLY stuck between these two guys. {D and G}.. I really like them both, me and "G" have more in common though. BUT my parent's don't want me to date "G". They like "D".. And I am not allowed to see "G" (Sorry if I am not making any sense!) I really really like them both though, and the both are really nice guys. The thing is, "G" keeps asking me out, and he knows that I like him... And I would love to go out with him again.. BUT... "D" is a person that I don't have to hide from my parents, and I don't have to lie about.. But I am really stuck, because I think I like "G" more... What should I do?!?
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I'm sort of in your same situation. You should try to talk to your parents about dating G. If you have more in common with him, and it seems like you like him more anyway. Tell your parents how much you like this guy, and ask them why they don't like G. Your parents shouldn't tell you who to go out with, it's not right.
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dont lie and may be ull get ur way hope i helped
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Ask yourself honestly: Does G have genuine flaws as a potential mate?
Parents are rightly concerned about the destiny of their genetic data. Perhaps G has genetic flaws that should not be passed on to your progeny. Or perhaps G has behavioral flaws that may be undesirable.
Although your parents are making G unavailable to you, this alone should not give G greater value in your mind. That would be a logical fallacy.
Parents are often wise with age; therefore, you should choose D. If, however, you sincerely feel that your parents' objections are unjust, then you must follow your hormonal urges and choose G.
Whomever you should select, please practice responsible gamete exchange.
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D's and G's are too confusing for me. Hope I helped!
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