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OKay I know there's a lot of questions like these, but I really need your absolute HONEST opinion about what I should do.
Me & this kid named Joshua met in May, and we've been very close since, we started dating the day we met because we had a lot in common, and we straight off the bat liked each other. We dated for about two months, until he broke up with me because he had feelings towards another girl. Which I was okay with, because I knew he'd come to me, our relationship was just too strong to be friends. We dated, again - I took him back because I just really liked him (not loved.)
In about July I started having extreme feelings for Joshua, he made me so happy, I thought maybe I was falling in love? I was really unsure, so we were still dating, & he broke up with me again, and he didn't tell me why. Then we dated AGAIN & I broke up with him because I thought I felt feelings towards my best guy friend. Now we're just pretty good friends, we talk a lot, & I just found out that while we were dating, he was telling his best girl - friend that he loved her, and calling her baby. That makes me extremely mad, because he's hurt me so much & I've never done anything like this to him before.
My question is: Should I still remain friends with him?? I don't think I'd ever be able to date him again. But he hurt me so many times in the past, I'm just unsure. If you were in my situation would you be friends with him, or would you never talk to him, again?
Thanks =)
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My advice to you: stay friends. It sounds like hs or you are not comitted enough to each other to have a comitted relationship towards each other. But if you choose not to follow my advice, go right ahead. I'm giving advice because I'm good at it. Please rate a 5. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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Ok, here's my opinion. I think that you should do what feels best. In that situation, I would maybe talk to him every now and then, but not a daily basis type thing. That is really messed up what he did to you, but if you's are really close friends then stay friend's with him. Just don't get too close... You know what I mean? Don't start dating him again, because obviously he's a player! But, do what ever feels right!
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I would date him again. It seems to me that Joshua has a problem with commitment which is only going to lead to heartache if you keep taking him back. If you feel that can be friends with him without emotions getting involved, I see no reason why you can't still be friends with him. If you don't think you can leave emotions out of the friendship, I wouldn't try it.
I would suggest taking a break for a while so you can deal with your feelings. Right now you're too raw to deal with a friendship with him, especially since you don't feel like you can trust him. Even a friendship must have trust.
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Hey Hun!
I was in the same situation before except he didnt tell hes best girl- friend he loved her and we are really good friends but if he would have done that to me I just dont think I would talk to him as much I mean I would talk to him from time to time but I wouldnt be as close to him as I am not. And after that whole thing with him ( after we broke up for good) I met the greatest guy ever! I love him so much and he is so good to me. If I was you I wouldnt date Joshua again I would just wait and see what happens in the future you sound like a really great girl you'll find someone!
Hope I Helped! ( Sorry its so long)
~*-Britt-*~
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Hmm well you seem to be in a not-so-cool situation. if i were you i would still talk to him from time to time.. i just would keep it strict. liek if he starts saying im such a fool for hurting you and stuff liek that.. just be liek Yeuh you are missin out on alot. your loss. or sumthing liek that haha.
Maybe if you find another guy, that would take your mind of him. that works for me.
i really hope i helped!!
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To tell you the truth, I would never talk to him again (but that'd be mean, and that'd explain the large number of people who dislike me). That is SUCH an evil thing for him to do, and he sounds like a totally incostistant, backstabbing jerk! Of course, it's always better to have him as a friend rather than an enemy. I think that you should just not hang out with him at all anymore and just become friendly acquaintences, but not friends.
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I think you should keep talking to him. Like you said, you prolly won't and shouldn't date him again, but you should still be somewhat friends wit him. It would prolly be extremely hard to just stop talking to him anyways. If you forgive him just know not to fall into that kinda trap again. Hope I helped
BD
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