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Alright.. so there's this kid.. and i was going out with him, and i liked him a lot.. except he got mad at me a lot because i was doing stuff with my friends, and not him. so we fought a lot, but i still really liked him. (when we weren't fighting) so anyways..we broke up a few days ago, because this was on his away message "if your name is emily, call me" and my name IS NOT emily. :( and i asked him what he was doing (we were talking online) and he said he was "sitting here playing halo and talking to BRITTANY!"..And of course..my name isnt brittany either..and he wouldnt talk to me..so i just said k well whatever i think we should break up, and he replied with "agreed." i still like him A LOT. and hes soo fun to be with..but i know he doesnt like me anymore..what should i do? play hard to get? talk to him? what? i dont know what to do. i like him soo much.. thanks. (13\f)
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I know you probably don't want to hear this but you need to kick this guy to the curb. He seems like he's controlling since he expected you to ditch your friends. He obviously has no respect for you or your feelings. It doesn't seem to me that he cares very much about you since he's talking to two other girls.
I know it hurts right now but trying to get him back, even if you do manage to, is only going to lead to heartache. Spend time with your friends. Take some time to let your heart heal. For revenge, let the other girls know that he's a cheater. You deserve a lot better than a guy like this one. Just be patient. Your Mr. Right will come along when you least expect it.
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Whatever you do, don't call him, don't initiate a conversation with him, don't talk to him on the net don't do anything with him!
Right now you should go in to ice queen mode.
The reason I'm saying so, is because you have to teach the guy a lesson (or not). He's either trying to make you jealous by "talking" to a lot of other girls, and pretending to have just forgotten about you, or he's a complete jerk, and you'd seriously be better off without him.
If he's trying to make you jealous, he may crawl back in a few weeks, and then you'll get to lay down some rules and make him be sweet to you... if he's a jerk then he'll be off dating next week, and you should just leave him behind, no matter how hard it seems.
It's kind of hard to tell if he's a megajerk player, or just trying to make you jealous. I'd go with the second one, even though jerks are more common. But anyway, hope you don't get hurt
-K
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Wow he seems like a jerk..but the boy i like too is sorta like that too lol. I know what you mean and how you think he doesnt like you and you cant get him off your mind and you really like him. I'm in that similar position right now. What you should do is tell him that you still really have feelings for him and that you think you could work it out. Say you promise you'll try to spend as much time as possible with him because you wouldn't want to ruin the relationship again. All you have to do is tell him that you still really like him basically. Thats what I did to the guy I liked even though i didnt think he liekd me but it turns out he still did! so just take the chance and so what if he blabs it to everyone..it means that he's not just throwing you aside sayin "oh who cares if she likes me" Him tellin everyone shows that he has to care in some way, shape or form lol. Good luck hun and if you need anymore help dont be afraid to leave one in my inbox!<3
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