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i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated

honestly... find a new group of friends... if people are leaving you out... get over it and move on... don't try to hold on to something that isn't worth holding on to...

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Okay I'm 13 years old and a female. Yesterday I noticed a small bump on my left breast, near the nipple. It sometimes hurts when I touch it but it also looks somewhat like a pimple. I'm really worried that this could be breast cancer. There is no history in my family of having breast cancer. Do you think it's cancer?

Thanks! =]

All advice is appreciated!

the cause of cancer is unknown... sometimes its hereditary & at other times it isn't... it wud be best for you to get a mammogram ASAP... almost any type of cancer is treatable as long as it is caught it an early stage... tc & get well soon... lettme know how things go for you...

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hmmm. recently i saw this 89 corvette, new engine claim the owner. sale for 8900$. is htis a good prise? how reliable are old vets?

go here

http://www.kbb.com/

and check the value of the car... you'll need to know the milage of the car

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hi. i am decorating a t-shirt for halloween that says happy halloween on the front and i already know what i want on the back but i dont know what else to put on the front besides happy halloween...
keep in mind its for work...i am a server at ihop...and we are able to wear halloween shirts...
anyone have any ideas for what else i can put on the front?
thanks!

put a cat on it... and have her collar say I-hop... ;)

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i have alot of stress right now and i feel like im going to lose my mind. what should i do to keep myself sane fora while until things calm down?

*bubble bath
*Go on a drive
*Listen to music
*give ur self a manicure/pedicure
*watch a movie

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I'm 14/f and I'm a virgin. I have only kissed and had a guy feel up my shirt. Recently I have found little white bumps 'down there' and I don't know what they are. It's starting to worry me. It kind of hurts but not really. I sort of look like a white head. The kind you can't pop. Of course I didnt try popping it. I had one between my thigh and it went away. Now I have 1 around my womb and my vagina part. I don't know what to do :-( ... help plz

hmmm a white head that you can't pop... kinda sounds like a wart to me... it's best to go see a doctor so you can be diagnosed & put on the proper medication

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This morning my dad got angry at me. The reason isn't really important. He threw the waffle that was eating at my shirt and got butter all over me. I was upset because he had the nerve to throw a waffle at me, and also because I was excited to wear the outfit that I had picked out to school. I started crying and I couldn't stop. Keep in mind that I have my period now. I was still crying when I got out of the car, and still crying when I was in homeroom. Of course, everyone was staring at me and wondering why my eyes were all puffy. My teacher suggested I go to the nurse, so I did and stayed there for half of first period. I was really happy by the time I was surrounded by my friends. First of all, I felt like an idiot because the people in my homeroom knew how upset I was in the morning, and then saw me laughing my head off with my friends two periods later. I just feel so stupid and I can't for the life of me understand why I was crying so much!! I know I have my perios, but I've never got PMS this severe before!! HELP PLEASE!! Has anyone beed throuhg an awkward situation like this?

it's really not a big deal... give it a week & every1 will forget about it... ive had a few emotional break-downs due to my period in the past... what your dad did wasn't cool... & you cryin over it is understandable... it happens to the best of us...

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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?

wow... i dont mean to be rude but have you ever heard of a pregnancy test... when some women get pregnant they have certain symptoms others have none... dont rely on a forum when your health & a major life decision is concerned...

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my friend is so chubby and i want to help her get skinny but she wont listen what should i tell her. she thinks shell get skinny when shes older but the truth is if she keeps on eating like this she will be obese for the rest of her life!

join a gym...

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ok i am going to make this short on friday i am goin to go see my boyfriend and meet his mom. since it will be cold i am plannin to wear a brown outfit that has a jacket with it. my onlu question is this. i got black and pink shoes? what should i do? i dont got any others because i through them out over the summer and havent had enough money to get new ones. what should i do? well it look bad?

wear the pink shoes... to make ur outfit match... you cud wear a pink shirt... or a pink belt... or a pink purse... or even a pink headband...

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Do any other girls have a list of qualities that they want in a potential boyfriend? I have a list of about 20 things that I want a guy to have before I date him.
For example, he must be a non-smoker, have a good job, live on his own, be neat in appearance, have a vehicle, and no children from a previous relationship. These are just some of the things. I had one guy ask me out but because he lived with his mother and smoked I turned him down. Another guy asked me out and he had a 5 year old daughter, so I turned him down to. Some people say I being too picky, well I tell them I just have high standards.
Part of the reason for this is because my last boyfriend was a total loser. He was on welfare, he didnt have a car or a license, he was dirty, he smoked, and was financially and mentally abusive to me.
Do any other woman have high standards? And do you think I'm being too picky? Also do you think I'm scared of being hurt again so that is why I strive so high, and subconsiously I'm doing this so I won't have a boyfriend again?

every1 should have high standards... but there is a difference between being picky & having high standards... no one is perfect that is a well known fact... now there is nothing wrong with not wanting to date a smoker or a man with children... but turning a guy down because he lives with his mother... i mean yeah that is a lil weird... but it shouldn't be a big deal.. take chances... you don't have to commit until until you are ready... you may miss out if you dont give people a chance...

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well i'm goin out with this one girl. i love her to death. but she cheated on me awhile back. so i forgave her and we started goin out again.well the past few days she has acted like she don't want nothin to do with me, and she seems more "interested in this other dude". so wat do i do? should i break up with her? or wat. HELP A POOR BROTHER OUT!!!!

why dont you tell her how you feel... i am sure that if she loves you she will forget about "this other dude" & direct all of her attention towards you... if she refuses to do so... you should drop her & move on

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my boyfriends birthday is on the 31st, what should i get him? we've been going out for about a week now and i dont have a lot of money. Dont say a pic of me or something,
thanks!

yeah i khow what you mean... you should save all the mushy presents for valentines day... you could get him a cologne... a video game... cd... movie... or you could put a lil coupon book together for his special day... like one of the coupons could say back massage... & when he gives you the coupon you gave him a massage... make sure you let him know the coupons are valid for a one time use only lol...

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13/m
There is this girl at school that I have a crush on and I tend to always offer her a seat in my 7th period class {study support} and I offer to help her with math and social studys. I am always talking to her and commenting her.
Am I flirting?

it sounds like you are tryin... but she may not realize that you are tryin to flirt with her... be playful... sit real close to her... try to tickle her... wink at her... give her playful smiles... etc

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ok.My really close guy friend recently died and im really bad at dealing with its been 2 months since he died but i still have those days were i miss him so much and get all depressed..and well i dont want to get this depression and i miss him ALOT but i dont want to feel this whole in a stomach like a part of me is missing...is there anyway i can get over it?how can i learn to cope with it?!

always remember that he's in a better place now... try to be happy with that thought... keep him alive in your heart... don't mourn over his death... celebrate his life...

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everytime i put makeup on it looks really powdery if thats how you spell it.. i use lotion before i put it on but it still looks dry and stuff.. what should i do or what brand of makeup should i try to use...?? i need major help haha

try panstick by maxfactor...

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i'm 14/f and i've had chicken pox already when i was in gr5. but iunno wuts happening theres all these red thingies appearing all over my body. what could this be?

It could be a number of things such as... small pox... mumps... scabies... or it cud be something as small as hives... but there is no way of knowing for sure without going to a doctor... ASAP... & if you keep gettin more go to the hospital ASAP... get well soon..

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Question for guys: If you were married to a woman that you could barely stand, was mean to you and had nothing in common with, why would you stay? Oh yeah, and you had no kids together. I'm asking because I know a guy in this situation, he admitted the relationship has been dead for two years and he still stays with her.

you woulndnt... its better to get out of a bad relationship in its early stages... the longer you wait the harder it especially after having kidds... now if they truly love eachother thats a different story... but if they dont love eachother than its pointless...

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Ok. this year I am trying to be friends with everyone. there is this one girl i had a crush on 7 years ago and when everyone found out they made fun of her. Part of my conscience says she hates me now. I would like to start over just as friends, but, she's avoiding me and I am too nervous to talk to her.
What should I do?
I will give you five stars if you try.

maybe she is avoiding you because she is embarassed after being picked on... try to talk to her... be casual... let her know you are sorry that people made funn of her... & tell her you wanna make it up to her... ask her if you cud take her out for ice cream or something as a friend...

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What shampoo do you think smells the best, but still delivers a kick-ass wash?

I rate high :)

thermasilk, pantene pro-v, sleek look by matrix, or you could try back to basics... they have a whole line of shampoos that come in different scents...

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