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Ok. this year I am trying to be friends with everyone. there is this one girl i had a crush on 7 years ago and when everyone found out they made fun of her. Part of my conscience says she hates me now. I would like to start over just as friends, but, she's avoiding me and I am too nervous to talk to her.
What should I do?
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she is probably just embarrased about her past and everything try starting off small a little hi here or there and work your way up
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Ask her to talk to you when you get the chance.
Normally if she's cool like that she'll be fine if you explain everything to her.
Start out as friends and ease your way into the relationship it's all good after that.
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Awe. Thats :(. Well, try to like start a conversation out of nowhere with her (i know it sound weird). Like you could bump into her and say "omg ____ (her name) haven't seen you in a while. Wanna hang out some time?" Or like when you pass by her and be like "hey ___ (her name) wanna hang out some time?" If she says no, its not your fault. She just doesn't get over things.
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Awe. Well, that was a long time ago. I mean, when we are all young, we all think the opposite sex has "cooties" lol. Well, just talk to her. Maybe call her on the phone. Or talk to her online. Talking indirect with someone could help express ur feelings because it is easy. well give me some feedback
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First off, I wouldn't recommend being friends with everybody. It's way harder than it's worth. Be friends with the people who deserve it and who are willing to put equal effort into maintaining a friendship.
About the girl, you've gotta temporarily suppress the nerves. As soon as you talk to her and it's out of the way, then you'll realize how easy it was and the nerves will disappear. But you've gotta do it. She's definitely not going to approach you about it, so if you want to talk to her, you've got to make the first move.
Just boost your confidence, and show it in your movements. You won't get far if people can see that you don't even believe in your self. Walk up to her and just be upfront and honest. Tell her you're sorry, tell her that you'd like to make it up to her, say that you'd like to start over from the beginning, as acquaintances, and then hopefully friends. Make sure that she really was just nervous, and she doesn't hate you. If she does hate you, forget everything I said. At that point, tell her you're sorry and that you'll leave her in peace now, walk away, and hope that she comes to her sences and comes back to you later(that's actually how I got with my current gf; she hated me about a year ago).
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maybe she is avoiding you because she is embarassed after being picked on... try to talk to her... be casual... let her know you are sorry that people made funn of her... & tell her you wanna make it up to her... ask her if you cud take her out for ice cream or something as a friend...
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Confront her about it. Nothing is going to happen if you don't say anything. Just be open and tell her how you feel. It she's worth it at all she'll listen.
Also, you don't need to be friends with everyone :D
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U should accedently try to start a converstation fo ex. bump into her and b like o my gosh i am sry o its u havent seen u in a while mabe we can get together and catch up... Gud luck
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