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Question Posted Monday October 24 2005, 10:56 pm

well i'm goin out with this one girl. i love her to death. but she cheated on me awhile back. so i forgave her and we started goin out again.well the past few days she has acted like she don't want nothin to do with me, and she seems more "interested in this other dude". so wat do i do? should i break up with her? or wat. HELP A POOR BROTHER OUT!!!!

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TRAGEDYhasSTRUCKagain answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 2:32 pm:
Well if this girl can't see what a great guy you are and your the only one she wants then dump her. She's not worth it.

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Vendetta answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 6:07 pm:
I'd break up with her if she were really interested in him. Just make sure you aren't only interperting it that way due to jealousy...or trust issues from the past. If it isn't that, then definitely dump her.

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Miss_Jvl_2005 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 10:50 am:
ok...do you really know if she was cheating on you for sure? I have been through this not to long ago and this is rough but dont break up with her right now give her a chance to explain and see what she says to you...if she really loves you she wouldnt cheat on you and she would tell the truth and maybe you should try alittle harder to spend time with her...hope this helps!!

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lilthug answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 12:40 am:
well i say you sounding 2 good 4 her brother so go on do better why should you hang around her why she acts like she aint ya girl when you the thats gonna get hurt in the end

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Jarhead11789 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 12:36 am:
Don't just drop her. Find out if she's really interested in him or not, talk to her about it, talk to him about it, talk to everybody you know that knows something about it. If she's cheating on you again, then tell her it's over. If she's just been showing some interest in the other guy, tell her it's him or you, if she picks you, then she obviously loves you enough to stay with you. Don't get violent or angry about it. Have dignity and pride, it'll show you to be the better man in any case.
Don't just dump her cause she cheated on you once. Things happen, people mess up. I cheated once, and I've always regretted it. I knew what I did was wrong, and I still don't know exactly why I did it. Thank God, my girlfriend gave me another chance, and I've never even thought about doing something so stupid again, and I assure the other commenters that I love her with all my heart. Just cause she cheated on you once doesn't mean she doesn't love you man. But you've gotta decide if she does, and you've gotta find out.
I hope I helped and I hope things work out for you. Good luck man.

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HollyAnn2282 answered Monday October 24 2005, 11:29 pm:
Yeah break up with her hun, I say once a cheater always a cheater. you deserve better in the first place. You should never take someone back for treating. That isnt love. She obviously doesnt care for you as much as you do for her. Sad story i know :-/
good luck
<3 holly

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday October 24 2005, 11:22 pm:
why dont you tell her how you feel... i am sure that if she loves you she will forget about "this other dude" & direct all of her attention towards you... if she refuses to do so... you should drop her & move on

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angelfire2708 answered Monday October 24 2005, 11:20 pm:
If things seem different to you lately, then what your saying must be true.

Have you asked her about this other "dude"?

Go with what youre feeling, because chances are its probably true.

I mean, she cheated on you 1ce, whats stopping her from doing it again??

Move on, there are alot of "NICE" girls out there!

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