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Sooo along time ago i like this boy jack a whollle lot!!! And now... a year later... me and him started going out.... I dont do any drugs or smoke or anything. Andi knew he smoked cigs.. but i can deal...and then i find out he smokes weed.... once again i can deal...just as long as he dont do it around me. But now im seeing that hes a lil too obsessed with weed ...and now i find out he does dip. I DONT WANNA KISS THAT!!
I really loves him and ive waited so long for this , but the dip and stuff crossed the line .... I dont know if i wanna break up with him, cus i love him ...but it seems a little out of control. PLEASE HELP!
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um tell him that he has to pick between his drugs and you. you are way more inportant than them!!! if he picks his drugs which he shouldnt then youll know that it wasnt ment to be so dont get upset your doing the right thing. hope i helped!!! buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!
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Ask him to stop. Tell him in a calm voice (when he's not around his friends and when he's not in a bad mood) that you don't like it when he does drugs. You care for him, right? Say that too.
Be nice about it. That's the key. Saying something like, "JACK I HATE IT SO MUCH WHEN YOU DO DRUGS!!!" isn't going to help; it will make him angry, most likely. It will be hard to stay calm because you might get angry or nervous, but you should be okay.
So confront him and be calm about it. Give him a few weeks. If he doesn't TRY to change (drugs are addictive; it won't happen overnight), then I'd break up with him.
I think that you should care more about his health than worrying about kissing him. I'm not trying to be sarcastic or mean, but you don't ever mention anything about being worried about him and his health; you only mentioned that you don't want to kiss him.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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Well it might be for sure that you love him but if he loved you , he would see that you dont like it and stop. Smoking is really bad.but you cant always judge him for those reasons. i think you need to take a look at the things you like about a guy.does he fit your list ?
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Breaking up with him is really not the answer here. If you love him be willing to talk to him about all of this and tell him your point of view. If he acts like a total ass about it then it is up to you. He may be your boyfriend but you can't change him unless he wants to.
Oh, and my boyfriend chews and honestly, it's really not all that nasty to kiss him. Just don't totally go at it when he has chew in his mouth. It's really not that bad.
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Don't just break up with him over it. Talk to him and tell him that you don't approve of his habits and that he needs to stop. Those are really all bad habits, I just wouldn't say it's worth just throwing him away over it.
I do have to say though, that he shouldn't be keeping things like that a secret from you. If he keeps secrets, then that means he's doing things that he knows you don't approve of, and I'd say that's grounds for a possible break-up.
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You don't want to get involved with someone like that. You may love him, but to be in a serious relationship with him would be a lot of strain on your part. What he's doing is illegal and it's also against your own values. To be in a healthy relationship with someone you need to share the same, or similar values. It's not just about liking someone or loving them. There are tons of other guys out there that you'll like just as much as him that aren't into drugs. You should, however, try to help him get off the drugs. You could even tell him that you can't be with him unless he stops. If he likes you and wants to be with you enough he will try to do that and will likely succeed. If he doesn't try then he doesn't deserve your committment. So, basically, try to help him out, but don't date him, it's not worth it. Good luck!
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first off I dont know what dip is never heard of it but. I think that any girl can be treated better than a guy that is involved with drugs. You may have liked him for a long time and whatever but sweetie you dont need to get involved with that mess. drugs are such a horrible impact on the other persons life. Believe i've watched a close friend have her heart ripped out by a guy that was involved with drugs and its so hard to get out of situations when the person means a lot to you, but since its a new relationship I'm sure you can possibly get out fairly easy. Just think about your life. Do you really think that this guy that is involved with drugs is gonna be the one you want to spend the rest of your life with? He has no future with that path hun. Think about it :-/
Good luck and best wishes
<3 holly
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maybe if you lean to spell and have better grammar, you'll be smart enough to realize that he's a bad influence.
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