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I just got hired to plan a 3-year old's birthday party, and am stuck on games. I already have Simon Says and Red Light Green Light. I also want to do a craft. If it helps, the parents have rented a moonbounce for the event. If possible, I would like to have 1 water game that does NOT soak the kids!! Thanks in advance and I rate!!

little squirt guns are fun! the little water guns that dont hold much water. They don't soak much either. I think that would be a perfect water game, and the kids would enjoy it :D
h.i.h.

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Earlier today i went to the orthodontist and got my braces changed and now they are extremely sore and i can't stand it i've taken medicine and everything but it didn't help...I need your advice on how to make them stop!...they hurt so bad ive cried my eyes out over them!..thanks in advance i will rate if thats what you want!

i had braces and they never really hurt that bad when i got them changed. they shouldnt be hurting that bad.. unless they did somthing wrong or u broke a braket, so maybe go in for a quick check up. See what's wrong. Take some advil or anything else that might have helped. Don't eat hard food because that will make the pain worse.
hope the pain goes away :)
simone

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I am a tennis player and i play everyday except friday(sometimes) and I am on my school tennis team.. but my shoulder has been killing me!.. If I hit hard it pops.. and when I put my hand on it and move it I can feel my bones rubbing together!.. what is it?.. Is it serious?.. Are there anythings that may help the pain?

My arm does that sometimes when i play to much volleyball. I usually give my arm a rest for a few days and then play again and its usuallt fine.
so try that for like 2 days. and see if it get any better.
simone

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im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?!

hey im still an A lol theres nothing wrong with it. But if you really want to make them BIGGER then just get a bra that has alot of padding or eat ALOT of junk food.. i dont know what that will really do but it tends to make alot bigger.. lol
h.i.h.

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I'm 16 and have never kissed, dated, or even gone out with a guy. IS this really wierd? I'm not ugly, and i'm thin. But I am very shy. IS there any way i can get over this. I really would like to have a boyfriend soon. I want one really bad!!

lol omg i have the same problem but im 15 lol. But i dont know.. just be your self and i'm sure a really sweet guy will come around for you. :)
i no this didnt help much but feel free to IM me at n3thinbut0rdinry
S1M0N3

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What do you think about these baby names:

Mattilynn Nicole
Jake Ryan
Zachary Daniel
Rylee Elizabeth

Twin girls :

Ashlynn
Joshlynn

i think their cute names. i especially like Jake Ryan and Rylee Elisabeth.

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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?!

he likes you. a guy just doesnt bump into you everyday saing sorry with out something being attached to it. So try talking to him. If you like him to then its a big plus for the both of you.

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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high

well even if your lips arent chapped it always helps to put chap stick or lip balm on it to prevent dry lips.

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ok i have stretch marks on my legs (15/f) and i was wondering how the heck do i get rid of them? summers comming up and i dont want to be seen in a swim suit with stretch marks on my hip/legs...
please help i rate high

theres this certin type of cream at the mall that pregnant women use for stretch marks that might help. i forgot what its called but im sure if you go into a baby store or a buteqe/health store so try those.
h.i.h.

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well my dads birthday is coming up and im not sure what to get him. hes in his 40s and when we ask him what he wants he always says you dont need to get me anything. i dont want to spend alot of money and i what to get him something that is useful to him. he really likes sports and stuff. i would like to get him something at a local mall or something rather than take him somewhere because im only 15 and can't drive or anything. my max price is around $20.

please help me my dads bday is in less than 2 weeks

i probably answered to late... cuz its the 17.. lol but i hope he had a wonderful birthday and that everything went well.

Maybe next year you could get him like a Sports DvD or.. if you can drive you can take him out to lunch or dinner. And if you spend more than 20$ you can take him to a sports game.

hope you all had a great time!
h.i.h.

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Well, So far alot of guys have turned me down. SO i asked my ex why he broke up with me, and he seyd "well, All the guys say you really need braces so they dont like you" .. i have 2 teeth on the bottom that are slightly crooked, but i cant get my braces on till July, whut do i do?!??!

i would just ignore it, i mean i would want a guy that goes out with me for who i am at the moment not some one who they think is all perfect.. So just be patient until you get your braces and go from there.
h.i.h.

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When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5

It all comes natural so just go with the flow and once you start its all taken care of.

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Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!!

take some old navy jeans that fit well, maybe slide around on the carpet and drag the bottom of the pants while you weat them so the edges get warn. and if you want a ripped hole on the buttox (heheh from Forest Gump) anywayz lol to do that just get in and out of chairs alot lol.
To patch it sow a lite fabric under neath to make it look patchy and there you have you worn jeans!

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HELP! Im going to Florida in 2 days and i dont know what to pack!! Is it REALLY warm? Like what should I pack to go to Disney World ..has it been raining alot lately? Should I pack a pair of jeans? please be specific im going for 4 days - Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Thanks!

Wow my dad just went there. lol
Um.. I would bring shorts and t shirts/tanks ect. because it is warm but i would bring like 1 pare of long pants and a sweater because it gets a little cooler at night. And incase it does rain bring some rain jackets or w.e you use lol.
For Disney World.. well now thats a place i havent been for years becuase i dont live there anymore but just somthing you would bring to your normal theme park.
have a great time!

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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????

Please help me?????

19...Female

It possible that you are obsessed but i'd look at it as you two are really great friends, almost like sisters who cant be split appart.
The bond is so strong that if your split that you feel theres a whole in your life.
So yea shes a life time friend. I would hang on to her because not everyone can find that one person that just clicks and just is so similar.

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my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help

My mom used to do that to me but then i was like, what is good for her isnt good for me and what my best is is all i can do that makes me happy, so at one point i wasnt even telling or talking to her.. that was maybe for like a week but i mean still, i hate to be down talked, and im sure everyone does. But all i can say is that sometimes you just have to ignore the impossible and get through it your own way. Not to whats best for someone else.
h.i.h. and good luck!

if you need to talk to someone about things that you cant talk about to other people feel free to IM me at n3thinbut0rdinry

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I really want to go to this high school that all my friends are going to but that's not where my parents want me to go. How do I convince them that that's the best place for me and I should go??

hum... Well i would talk to them about it and bring up all the positive stuff about the school you want to go to, and then slowly bring them into a begging sutiation to where they will just have to say yes to that school and no to the other that you dont want to go to.

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If a guy liked you, and you liked him alot, and he is gonna ask u out, thenyou hang out with him at a bandfest with friends one nite and hes ALL over you but at the end of the night he doesnt even talk to you anymore or n e thing, not even a good bye or anything, would you think he doesnt like you anymore?? would you give up on him?? or keep trying cuz you like him ALOT!!

if i really liked him alot i would keep trying. But if i knew for sure that he didn't like me then i would give up and move on.
hope that helped any ;)

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Ok I kinda like these to guys who are in the grade below me. I mean when I'm away them.. it's just my flirt meter goes off! And like I'm jelious when other girls are around this one guy. Is it wrong to like a younger guy? Is it stupid to go out with a younger guy?

no i actually like this guy at the moment who is a year younger than me. And there have been couples that have marries ten years appart, where the woman would be older then the man so its normal.

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14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??


-Anti-Hug Person

naa theres nothing wrong with you, some people just liked to be hugged more than others ans some not at all. so you're still normal lol.

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