I'm 16 and have never kissed, dated, or even gone out with a guy. IS this really wierd? I'm not ugly, and i'm thin. But I am very shy. IS there any way i can get over this. I really would like to have a boyfriend soon. I want one really bad!!
K2204 answered Monday April 18 2005, 9:11 pm: no, its better because then you havent gotten your heart broken yet! you are so lucky! you will find a guy who is good for you soon enough, but dont just get one, for the sake of having one, because then he probably wont be good enough, and dont rush things in a relationship, a good relationship can last forever with out doing anything at all! you should be comfortable around them, and everything!
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*ashlee* answered Monday April 18 2005, 9:07 pm: yes that IS really wierd and your really annoying with the way you capitalize IS for no reason. do you know what it means when you capitalize things? because i dont think you do. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
MummuM answered Monday April 18 2005, 9:07 pm: No, this isn't weird at all hun. Some of my friends haven't been kissed or gone out with a guy/girl before and they aren't ugly. Everyone is different, some people like to take things slow. I guess that's just the way some things happen. Since your shy, try talking to some of your good guy friends. Build up a very good friendship, by hanging out and talking a lot. Maybe some feelings will start up for both of you guys and see where it goes from there.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
not_your_star34 answered Monday April 18 2005, 8:52 pm: That is NOT weird at all. I'm shy too. The only way I can think of to get over the shyness is to just let loose. If you want to talk to a guy, just go over to him and introduce yourself and ask something about him (ex.- I heard you're on the lacrosse team. What position do you play?) and take it from there. Just think of the positive. If something doesn't go right, just shrug it off. And if he's mean then he isn't worth it anyway! I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
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xOxHOLLiSTERxOx answered Monday April 18 2005, 8:46 pm: no it`s not weird at all! everyone is different. you can get over being shy by start talking to a few guys that you like or whoever you think is kute. you`ll get to know them better and a few of those guys might like you too and then you might have a boyfriend soon! ♥ [ xOxHOLLiSTERxOx's advice column | Ask xOxHOLLiSTERxOx A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Monday April 18 2005, 8:45 pm: That's not weird. Infact, some guys like girls that don't have their first kiss when they are like 12. Lol. You just got to go up to them and talk to them, you will get over that fear once you realize that it's not as nerve wrecking as it seems to be! Good luck.
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