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I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?
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Well first I wanna say that's awseome that you've had a good long relationship with someone! =) And because of that long relationship, I don't see why you guys shouldn't move your relationship up a bit, I mean obviously you guys care about eachother and love eachother alot. First I would dicuss this with her.. see if she's ready to have sex. And yes 11 inches would probably hurt her, but then again sex hurts the first time anyways so she'll hurt no matter what. Just go nice and slow. And be safe! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
i like this guy, and im not sure how to approach him. he's a friend of mine's friend. but my friend wont talk to him for me .. so i guess im on my own. but idk if he'd be interested if i tried telling him i liked him. i met him before so he knows who i am. but i've liked him almost my whole freshman year and i just dont know how to talk to him about it. he's popular .. im not. and all that stuff. but im just not so great around guys and im wicked nervous. any ideas? any help would be great.
Well first I might want to try being his friend, so then you both can get to know eachother and then you can see if you still have the same feelings, and then he'll see if he has new feelings for you. And then he can feel like he can talk to you about stuff too, etc. So then if he DID reject you, you'd still be able to have a friendship which would be better than nothing. But if you don't want to be friends with him first ( but I'm just saying that might be a good idea..) well then instead of talking to him about it to his face ; which can be pretty nerve wracking, then just IM him about it or talk to him on the phone about it, or write a note, text, etc. And ask him who he likes. And then just be like," Well.. I like you. I mean I don't know how you feel but I just needed to tell you that, but if you don't, please just forget I ever said that, cause I don't want to ruin everything." ( or something like that ) and also just because he's popular doesn't mean anything. At my school, everyone just dates whoever they wanna date. Even if the one's popular and the other isn't. You just have to take a chance and not be scared of rejection cause then in your head will always be the famous," What if? "... I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
ok.. i have this friend, and she's been my friend ever since pre-k! i haven't been in her class for a while, and now i am. we've been hanging out a lot more often, and she gets really annoying!! please help! thanks!
This happens alot with people ; you hang out too much and they start to get on your nerves cause their like the only person you see and talk too. What I would suggest doing is ( so you don't make her feel horrible but she still gets the hint ) is make some more friends and then make plans with them and then whenever she calls just tell her you can't hang out, you have other plans. But then do that for awhile and then hang out with her too for awhile you know? Kinda balance them out so then she sees you have other things to do instead of just talking to her and stuff. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.
Well what I would do is flirt with him and see how he reacts. If he flirts back, then he might possibly like you, but if he doesn't, then I'd just forget anything happened and stick to being his friend because you don't want to ruin the relationship you two already have. Or another thing you can do is the next time you talk to him, ask him who he likes and if it's anyone you know...and then maybe even tell him you like someone he knows, so in a way it's sorta hinting but he probably won't figure it out cause guys aren't the best at that sorta thing =P but maybe also try asking his friends who he likes or maybe have one of your friends ask him. If none of that, then I'd just suggest asking him out. Sometimes you can't be afraid, cause you always gotta think WHAT IF? WHAT IF he did like you and you never asked him out? You'd have lost the possible chance at a relationship with him. So sometimes you just gotta take a chance. Be like," Hey.. I gotta tell you something. I like you alot. I don't know how you feel about me, but I just needed to tell you that because I just wanted to get it off my chest. If you don't feel the same way please let's just go back to friends, because I don't want to ruin our friendship over this and I promise it will not be awkward it will be the same as it was before." ( or something like that ) and you don't have to tell it to his face.. you can always text, IM , say it on the phone, write it in a note, etc. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
lol okay not so much a problem as a general wondering of action here... i'm 16, this guy at work - also 16 - has been telling a bunch of his collegues I've been "checking him out" and he reckons I fancy him and he fancies me blah blah blah. I heard all this off a friend/collegue and didn't even know who the guy was :| ... anyhow fast forward a few days.. I know who the guy is now and today when I was around doing some jobs and needed help he was available and was all...showing off whilst helping me... which was funny... but I remained normal as to not give him any signals. Let's just say... im not interested in him, especially since he told his collegues I was checking him out :S
Anyway near the end of my shift his mate comes up to me and hands me over a piece of paper with this guys name and mobile number on... haha which made me laugh... and he managed to work the last half hour of his shift right by me...but not quite near enough for speech.
Anyway what do you reckon I should do now? Umm.. I don't wanna be mean but I'm totally not interested but wouldn't mind being a mate and crap.
Should I talk to him next time I see him in the store (which may be next week) say I lost the paper? or text him tell him im not interested ect... lol how would be the best way to put this?
Help muchly appreciated! xoxo
It would be alot easier to text him because then you don't have to do it to his face and stuff. So maybe just text him and be like," I'm sorry, I'm interested in someone else, but is it cool if we can be friends?" ( so then you aren't completly hurting his feelings by going," I'm not interested." ) and then if he doesn't get the hint, just keep reminding him. And if he still doesn't, I might want to back off from him cause then it'd sorta be kinda creepy. But yeah, just text him about it and be nice. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!!
Well if you are shy, a nice cute way to do it, without having to do it to her face is just write her a nice note. And then tie a little ribbon or something ontop of the note with a little daisy or flower on it ( not like a whole bouqet cause then that'll look like you're trying to bribe her into going out with you ) just be sweet and sincere. And in the note just explain how after she said she liked you as a friend, you still couldn't get over her and as time passed you thought about her more and you want to try again and ask her if she will go out with you. And have her write her answer back and give you the note. A good place to take a girl somewhere on the first date is a movie. You might think there's no good movies out to see, but she might. Let her pick the movie. And if she can't decide on one, have her go over your house and you can rent one/ or watch one you already have. Which'll also be good for the date cause since you are at your house in your a comfortable place and might ease up more. And talk to your parents about this first ; they might be able to help you out with some stuff. Just tell them that you have this crush on this girl and you are planning to ask her out and if they can help. And finally, about rejection ; don't worry about it. Sometimes it happens to people, and I know it hurts, but it may not seem like it but sometimes it's worth it. Because hey, at least you gave it a shot which some guys don't have the guts to try and also if you never did ask her out, there'd always be what if? What if she does like you and you never asked her out? You would be losing the chance of a possible relationship happening. So just ask her out ; and if she says no ; she says no. But ask her if you still want to be friends so at least you have some sort of relationship with her and can be close to her and talk to her. And then who knows? Get to know her really well and maybe someday she'll like you back ( unless she already does ;-) ..) =) If you want to talk more, please IM me at:
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...I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
I have been with my boyfriend for a relatively small length of time, and its his birthday too, but im away on his birthday. Im going to get him a present and i wanted it to be really thoughtfull because im really into him but i have no idea what to get, any ideas for things? I have no pictures of us so picture frames etc are out. Thanks Muchly!
Just do something simple ; don't go and get something expensive cause I mean you've only dated him for a small amount of time. If he has a favorite sports team, maybe get him a hat or a jersey or a cute idea would be make him a CD of all the songs that remind you of him so he can listen to it whenever you are gone and write like a little message on the CD that says like," I miss you so much! Sorry I'm not here for your birthday =( Well happy birthday and whenever you miss me, listen to this =) Love, ____ " ( or something like that ) cause it shows you are thinking about him and you care for him and make him a little hand-made card cause that shows you put personal thoughts and feelings into it and that you care alot. Just think about things he likes. Maybe even talk to his friends ( if you talk to them ) and see what he likes and what they are getting him to get any other ideas. Oh and another maybe is get him some nice cologne ( if you want cheap stuff, most guys use like Axe and Old Spice and stuff like that.. I really don't know many men's colognes and stuff ) =)I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks
Well just get her something really cute and simple nothing like huge and expensive cause I mean you guys have only been dating for awhile, and also cute and simple things show that you care more because then you put personal thought into it and that you really care. And especially make her a self-made card cause that's just really sweet and nice =) lol maybe get her a little teddy bear and a balloon and just think about stuff she likes like animal wise cause if not a teddy bear get her a stuffed animal of her favorite animal or get her a present that has to do with something she likes. And then take her out to see a romantic movie afterwards =) It's all really sweet and I'm sure she'll love it =) I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice.
Well first of all, he needs to break up with his current girlfriend before he can do anything with you. Because if you guys are considering keeping yourself a secret then that sounds like he has no intentions of breaking up with her which means, yes you will get hurt there and then he'll be cheating on her with you, which also means he'll be breaking her heart, and then that means theres a HUGE possibility that he could start cheating on you with someone else which leaves your hurt there too. =/ But if he does break up with his girlfriend and you guys don't keep this a secret, then I don't see why not because you guys still like eachother and you never have stopped only because of someone else talking to you on IM ( which I should also say here he should get a new screename and possibly you too ) ...I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!!
Okay you guys should really have a talk about this. Just go to her and be like," Look I really really like you but why won't you tell your parents about us? Because I wanna be able to do stuff with you and hang out with you like boyfriends and girlfriends should." ( or something like that ) .. she just might be embarassed to tell her parents cause sometimes parents like to tease their kids and stuff like that. The only other thing I was going to suggest was that maybe it IS because her parents think she's too young to date and she doesn't want them to find out but you said you know that's not it =/ Yeah, I would seriously ask her about that. I don't know ; this is a tough situation...I might want to stick with her ( at least for awhile longer ) because all that's gonna happen is your gonna break her heart and possibly yours too. Just stick with her for awhile longer and if you guys still don't hang out and stuff like that, then I might consider dumping her because I mean you guys have dated what? A year? I think she should be able to tell her parents she's been dating a guy for a year, and boyfriends and girlfriends should hang out together, ESPECIALLY after having such a long relationship! And I think you deserve a girlfriend whose gonna hang out with you, have you meet her parents, etc. So just wait it out a bit, talk to her about it, and see what happens. If you want to talk more, then PLEASE IM me!! =)
I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
ya well for night i know ur supposed to wear pads but i have the dinky to go ones.. n i used my sisters but i dont want her ot know and now she like has none.. so i dont have any to wear at night and my mom is outta town with my dad (not like im goin to ask him) n i cant ask my sisters! what should i do!!!!!
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NO GAY ASS ANSWERS PLEASE!
oh and i have my period right now and idk what to do!!! about the pad thing
I don't see why you can't just ask your sisters, I'm sure they'd understand.. I mean I'm sure it's probably a little embarassing, but they're girls too. They go through the same exact thing so they probably won't care if you ask. Or ( I'm guessing your sisters are older or at least one of them? ) try asking one of your sisters to maybe run down to a store with you and go buy some of your own. And then whenever your mom comes back from out of town, tell her that you need some and then just keep them in a drawer or something, that's what I do, so then whenever it starts, I always have some. And if I do run out, I take some from my mom's bathroom, she understands. So just ask your sisters, because I don't really see anything else you can do..I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
How do you give good advice? Should you include personal experiences or would that make things confusing. What are some good tips when you want to give somebody advice, like things you should make sure you do? I like to give advice and help people, but I'm not always sure how. I rate 5's for any answers - please help me out on this. Everyone should help so that anyone who reads can get better too. Thanks!
Well what I do is completly read the question. Cause I remember once I just read like the one part ( I didn't read the additional information ) which I should have because then that would have changed my mind on the advice I gave. So completly read her problem. Then just put yourself in him/her position, if you were her/his situation, how would you handle it? And it's also good to share personal experiences ( not like a whole story about your experience and THEN advice, just be like," I had the same thing happen to me once and what I did was...". And sometimes it's good to re-read what you wrote so then you can make sure you made sense and it's understandable cause sometimes the person who asked the question might not understand something you might have said. And another good thing so they can understand everything more, is it's good to sometimes research about their question, so then they don't have to do it, because it's really annoying whenever people are like," uh, I don't know you can try going on google or something and looking it up." It just makes everything quicker and easier. And if they came to you for advice, the least you should do is help them out and just not tell them to go looking on google. And also-- just be honest. Just tell her/him what you think they should do/say/etc. just, put your honest opinion in there. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Alright- so my best guy friend might like me. How do I let him know that I sort of like him too without being vulnerable to rejection? Or I guess how can I hint it to him in a subtle way?
Flirt with him alot, and then see how he reacts. If he flirts back, then he must have some of the same feelings you do. And then after awhile, just ask him who he likes. You can't be afraid of rejection, because then that's how stuff never happens. Some people want to ask someone out, but their afraid of rejection so they end up never asking them out, and then it just so happens that person likes them, so they never date. So you just have to take a chance ; and if he says he doesn't like you ( or doesn't want to go out with you ) then just say," Ok.. well can we still be friends?" because it'd be better than nothing to at least be friends. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
i have a dell windows and i have an ipod and today i got the cord for it but i have NO IDEA how to set it up or getr songs into the ipod...can anyone please help? thanks:)
ok well on the cord, there should be a little part, and then a wide part. You put the wide part in the bottom of the ipod and the skinny part in the computer thing .. somewhere on your computer ( hardrive I think it's called? The tower thingy lol ) there should be two ( or one ) plug thing just sitting there ( there's no other cords or anything in it ) and that's where you put the skinny part of the cord ( it could be on the front of the tower thing or the back.. I think most it's on the front part ) so then you have your ipod connected..and it'll say "DONT DISCONNECT" on the ipod screen so.. don't disconnect and stuff. And then have you installed the ipod program? Well if not, put the disk that came with it whenever you bought it ( if you didn't get one with it, you should have...) and then install the program. And then the iTUNES program will come up and you just go to the "SEARCH" bar and type in whatever song you want and see if they have it. And then you look for it and click "BUY SONG". And then the ipod'll update itself with all the songs and stuff so that's all you gotta do, adn then once you get all the songs in there, wait until the ipod finishes updating itself, and then whenever you look at the ipod screen and it has like the menu and everything on there not anything like," DON'T DISCONNECT" and stuff then just unplug it! I hope I helped! Sorry if I was confusing!! Sometimes I can't describe stuff very well haha!
Love,
MELii
well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP!
I think you guys should just defientley stay friends.. because even if he did break up with his girlfriend? Online dating really isn't a good idea.. I mean have you ever seen this guy's picture? ( even if it really IS his picture ) he could be like a 50 year old guy for all you know...and we don't need another missing girl on the news. And also if he just got a girlfriend, I don't think he's gonna break up with her soon, and also she's like right there. This is what happened with this guy I met on the internet too. I REALLY liked him, but I got over it in like two seconds because I was like," psh even if he did like me, it wouldn't work out.. I mean, I'd never see him he's like states away! That's just really stupid.." and who knows what he'd do behind your back anyway if you did date? I mean, you're not there at all to see what he's doing with who whenever he's not on the computer..who knows who he's talking to while he's ON the computer! =/ It'd be best just to be friends, I mean you can flirt and see what happens, but I just don't think anything's gonna happen.. sorry. I hope I helped! =/
Love,
MELii
This is my second time posting here on Advicenators. Well, I could really use some good advice here. I am 14 years old, never been kissed, hugged, dated..etc. I like older boys better because I know they tend to make the first moves and spoil you more, but I never thought I would end up like my best friends older brother. He's just two years older, not even. He's cute and he's funny, but he's really shallow. He's making me want to just die with the harsh things he says. He's always telling my friend Marissa* you should hang out with hot friends because all your friends are ugly. Right when I am sitting there. Now I can't stop hating myself.
Okay first thing.. just don't listen to the jerk. Next time he makes a comment tell him just to shut the "heck" up. You can't let people talk about you like that.. especially in your face! I know how most people care about what others say..I mean I do care about what others say, but not all the time. They think I'm ugly? So? I think they're a *beotch*. They think I'm stupid? So? I think they're rude and obnoxious and have no life and they only follow what other people do because they don't have a mind of their own. Even though he may be cute and stuff that doesn't mean he can just go around and call people ugly. I mean I don't think I'm ugly.. but I've never been kissed and stuff neither. Well I've been hugged but that's a bout it. I dated someone for a week and a day, so that's really nothing to brag about ( he was weird )..anyways, just think about the positive things about yourself. My friend always goes on about how she thinks she's ugly, fat, etc. And I do at times think," Ugh I hate my hair", " ugh Im ugly" but I just keep it out of my mind. So next time he says something like that, just ignore him ( and hopefully he'll get the hint that you don't care anymore and shut up ). Or try saying something back to him. ( I can't think of anything right now haha sorry ). Maybe go to his friend next time they're there and just be like," You should hang out with nice friends because your friend here is a a big "freakin" jerk who has no consideration for people's feelings which really won't get him far in the girl's department if he keeps calling girls and stuff ugly.. not that he got far before." ( oooh diss lol sorry ) I don't know ; something like that. But the big moral: Just ignore him ; who cares what he thinks.. someday you'll get a guy, who likes YOU and won't insult you and stuff.. I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
p.s. Sorry this might not make much sense.. whenever I type long advices, sometimes I tend to zone out and not think and I just start typing so I might have said something that might not make snese, or I repeated things.. lol once again, sorry!! =P
I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?
Just talk to her about it. If she hangs out with you all the time, then that must mean you two are really good friends, and she should be able to understand and stop. Just the next time you guys hang out and she does/says something mean to you. Just go to her and be like," Look, I'm sorry, but I gotta tell you something. Why are you always so mean to me? I know you may not think you are, but you are. I mean it really hurts my feelings, and you are a really really good friend and that makes me feel even worse that my really good friends is saying/do stuff like that to me. Can you please stop being so mean?" ( or something like that ) and just..be honest about it. Just talk to her about it. She might get offended and stuff at first, but hopefully she'll understand what is at stake ( your friendship ) and she'll cool off and be nicer. But if she doesn't and remains to be mad at you, that doesn't seem like a very good friend to me, cause obviously she doesn't care enough if she's being mean =/ I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.
Yes I would definetley want to tell them, and warn them. I would suggest them not to mention anything to him and go up to him and flat out apologize. Just have them be like," Look, ___ we're so sorry about what we did to you.. we thought it would be funny at first, and then after awhile we thought about it and we realized that that was a really rude thing to do.. we didn't think about your feelings at first, and we just wanted to say we're sorry..." and don't make them sound obvious like they know what you told them so he doesn't get angrier that you told. Because have you heard some of the stories of what happen whenever some people get pushed too far? School shootings, deaths, etc. It doesn't sound like it's going to be that drastic of a "revenge"..but you never know.. those people thought that the person they made fun of wouldn't go that far, and they did. =/ just apologize him and be very kind to him from now on...also, try asking him what his "revenge" is and see if he'll tell you that too. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
hello...
im 13/f and my friend was over at my house today and i showed her this site and she wanted an advice column. i told her that she was to young (shes 11) and she got really mad. so my question is:
why doesnt this site allow anyone under 13 to be a columnist?
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Well advicenators probably thinks," Well probably most of the questions on this site are going to be from 13 year olds and older ( which it mostly is ) and stuff like sex and drugs and suicide which a 13 year old or older might relate a little better to than an 11 year old might because she might not have as much/nor any experience in those kinda fields as a teenager would. Because she's not even in Jr.High yet, so she hasn't begun to feel the pressures of dating, sex, drinking, etc. I don't know ; that probably is it. To make her feel better, have her help you out with problems and such. It'll be both of your site! My friend helps me all the time with problems. =) I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
sum one keepz on calling my cell phone on private and hanging up i dunno what 2 do...iz there aniiway i can call tham back or un block there #???? PLiiZZ HELP!!!
I had that happen to me once..and I thought maybe do *69 ( i don't know if that's the same number world wide, but it's to like see the last number that called you ) and it said I couldn't do it on a cell phone but you should try. That's the only way I know of.. but the only other thing you can do is just ignore it. Everytime it says "Private", don't pick up. Or just pick up and not answer. Cause once I did that and I heard in the background," ___, did she pick up?" and then I heard," I don't know, she's not saying anything." And then I knew who it was by that. Cause they probably think you picking up and going," hello? hello? " is so freaking hilarious, when really if you think about it, it's probably the stupidest thing ever. But what I did was after I found out who they were I did the same thing back to them ( and I blocked my number ) to show them at their own game and stuff and they got mad and stuff, it was funny. I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii