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Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: cowboybobsayz
Member Since: May 6, 2005
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Last Update: July 8, 2005
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ok..i like this kid and his names Ryan. he lives in chicago and hes 14. i no him bc my dad and his dad r like best friends. i just saw him a few days ago and i REALLY like him! hes sooo cute and nice to me!! his bro and my sisters keep makin fun of us..i wanna no if he likes me and i want him to know that i like him. the thing is i dunno how to tell him or let him no...i was gonna tell his brother...but i dunno..we're gonna c them soon again b4 they go back to chicago...i dunno wat to do??? i no ur good at this kinda stuff so wat should i do???? help me !?!?
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okay.
to see if he likes you-
*do his feet point towards you when he talks to you? if they do, then he cares about what you're saying, not the way you look.
*when he looks at you, do the pupils (the black part) of his eyes get bigger? this is a scientific sign of attraction, and even if he knew it was happening, he wouldn't be able to control it.
*does he give you cute nicknames? this means he thinks about you a lot, and knows a lot about you.
to tell him you like him-
*flirt with him a little. complement his shirt or his hat, let him know you care. if he doesn't figure it out, try this...
*ask him to hang out with some of your other friends, like- "hey, some friends and i were gonna go see a movie, you wanna come?" later you can try hanging out just the 2 of you, but you might want to start out slow. if he still doesn't get the hint...
*write him a note, i know it seems 2nd grade, but it usually works. just tell him that you really like him and were wondering if he liked you also and wanted to hang out more together. also say that if he doesn't like you, you still want to be friends.
well that should do it! i'm glad i could help!
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well i do not noe wut 2 wear 4 a REALLY big party at this place i am going 4 summer. i am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo PICKY and has not found nething. i do not noe how many people will b thur but i noe thur will b ALOT! of courwes then i wanna look my best ..... HELP
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ask your mom or bff if you can go shopping with them. pick something that looks great on you, not just because it's kewl. or you can mix and match things you already have!
-ME-
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I have this friend, and we were really good friends at the beginning of the year. Literally every guy in our school thinks shes hot, and i think its gone to her head. She goes out with people shes not really friends with on friday nights and never invites me and acts like im a total freak all the time. on the other hand, shes always really nice to me and stuff when shes not around those people who think shes so hot, and i like to be around her then. i dont want to tell anyone how shes treating me because theyll tell her because they want to be friends with her. i cant talk to her because shes so mean when shes mad at someone and no one will be on my side of the arguement. (link)
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don't always depend on her. ask her if you can hang out sometime. if she says she's hanging out with someone else, tell her you're free that night and ask if you can come along too. if she doesn't change by then, you can either talk to her strait forward, or find someone else to hang out with.
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some people think that i'm fat but i dont think so. i mean i watch what i eat, and excersice daily. But, i cant lose weight. and i have a lot of friends who are super skinny, and they make me feel fat. what should i do, because i want to look more skinny i just dont want to me anerexic.
plese write back,
chunky monkey? (link)
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come on! people think you're fat, so what? you don't, and its not that you don't have friends! if you still feel like you need to loose weight, ask your doctor. hope i helped!
SuperSwimmer303
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(17, f)This summer I am going to babysit my ten-year-old cousin, because she doesn't want to go to the local daycare. She lives far away, not so far away that I can't do the job, but far away enough that I only usually see her twice a year. My problem is that I can't stop thinking of her as a little kid. That's just how it is my mind, for some reason. I want to treat her like she's more mature, but still somebody I am responsible for. How would I do that? (link)
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how would you treat yor bff? think of it as hanging out, but responsibly. when i was a little kid, my babysitter felt like my best friend, because she treated me equal. most likely when you get there it will be easier. you could be stressing over nothing!
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lets call the kids jack and jill.
so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.
what should i do?
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try telling the mom that jack is a little to much for you. ask her if you can have a friend come and help you babysit. on the summer job, negotiate. tell her every other day. you can always quit. you're in charge. change what you need to change!
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ok.. well theres these kids in some of my classes... theres alot of them and when theyre not all there its not so bad but when theyre all there (just one class) its bad. i sit in the front row and all they do it sit behind me and make fun of me. they always claim that i smell and they make jokes about it. theyre like the "popular" type so this is cool to them. i know i dont smell though. they just say that because that room has a weird smell coming from the vents. im not one of the popular kids so they do this to make fun of me. its no fun and i hate that class. trust me though, i dont smell, i thought maybe i did at first when they started but i put on stronger deodarant and i sprayed perfume. its definitly not me. how do i get these mean people to stop tourturing me? (link)
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ignore the geeks. the only reason they're making fun of you is probably because they think of you as a threat to their social status.
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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.
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your relationship with God is something all your own. you have tons of chances, and it's almost impossible to miss them. did some people raise their hands? yes. were they probably nervous too? you bet. don't be afraid to say you want God in your life. God is the best person to go to for any advice. sometimes it's hard to understand, so if you're uncomfortable, it's a good idea to ask someone annonymously (did i spell that right?) like you did here. all i'm saying is, you will always have a relationship with God as long as you beleive in him.
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