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well, my name's nicole...im 15, and i live in san diego cali! and.... i think im good at giving advice, my friends ask me for help a lot...so ya... and... yup....ask away!

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i'm thinking about japanese hair straightening. how log does it take? how much does it cost? how long does it last? or anything other information i may need. thanks. :]

OMG dont do it! lol sorry to come off strong, but i got it done, and i still had to get up and straighten parts of my hair. like it flattens it but it doesnt straighten it. it's just a huge waste of money, unless of course you have 200-600 dollars to spare...hope that helps!

ps...
what kind of hair straightener do you have??? HAI works the best! expensive, but unlike the japanese chemical straightening, it's worth it, and those last like...over 2 years

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Hiya I was wondering if anyone knows how to get that smokey eye effect with make up, also If you have any make up ideas that would look good but is not over the top for school that would be great. I am 15 I have dark green eyes, dark brown hair and fair skin.

Thank you will rate high for good answers.

what i do is i use either black, silver, or bronze eyeshadow and you take a brush with a thin, fine edge, and you line the bottoms of your eyes with it and shadow your eyelid with it. then contrast it with whatever lighter color you want!!!

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Are ceramic hair straighteners better for your hair than regular straighteners?

YES!!! MUCH BETTER! theyre also a lot more expensive, but i've had mine for two and a half years and its worked perfectly, until i dropped it really hard about a week ago, but if i hadnt im sure it would still be working great! buy the HAI stick!

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Hey. First off im 14/f, Freshman.
My size..is not what one would say..average, im about 16 in pants..but i dress kinda "punk" you know where most of my wardrobe is black. Im not punk though, but i want to be more girly, right now my favorite color is pink and my hair, i straighten it and stuff, and i wear eyeliner, More then black though lol i wear colored eyeliner too..any tips on how to be more girly, without looking stupid.? Remember im overweight..

hey, size 16 is NOT overweight, its plus sized btu you're not overweight. go into stores like torrid, they have the CUTEST clothes, sometimes i wish i was big enough to fit into those clothes. they have lots of pinks and girly colors. also, try not wearing eyeliner, even though you might be not wearing BLACK eyeliner, it still makes your eyes look darker liek your punk. shadow it with lighter colors, browns are really pretty if you have brown eyes, oranges for blue eyes, and if you have green or hazel eyes, try like silvers. also, accessorize!!! go to teh icing and buy some cheap necklaces and brecelets and earrings! you WONT look stupid. sometimes its risky to make a major style change, but not if you do it right. dont ease into it either. go out and buy a few new outfits and just go to school like that. people will react positively!!! GOOD LUCK!

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hey...well within the last year i have become christian. but lately i have been having my doubts. i have depression, and have had it for about 2 years now. i pray so much but i dont seem to be making any progress to becoming happier. i dont understand why my prayers arent getting answered.

well, i am a strong christian, and i know that sometimes our prayers dont get answered as quickly as we want, or the answer we get isnt exactly what we were expecting. but have you ever thought that maybe he is trying to ehlp you but you're not willing to do anywork on your own? you have to try on your own to come out of depression and be a happier person, which is really hard, but maybe once god sees some effort on your end, he'll try and help you.

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Me and my friend want to give my REALLY nerdy other friend a makeover at my house. She's the sensitive type, so how do I approach it? She has a unibrow, HIDEOUS nails, she wears pokemon shirts and granny jeans, her hair is frizzy, heavy, and waist length, and she desperately needs makeup. She desperately needs a new look, so how do my best friend and i approach her and give it to her? What things do I need to change to make her not-so-nerdy (nothing like cutting her hair)? I rate 5's

the way I would approach it is just be like, let's go shopping, buy u a cute outfit! then we can totally make you look adorable! tell her she already looks fine, btu just say you want to see what she would look like if you did this and that.

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my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!

ive never heard of baby powder working...but secret doesnt always work 4 certain people, i had to try around and test different stuff till i found one that works, so if you've already done that, i would recommend going to the doctor and getting prescription stuff, my friend has it and it works GREAT!

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im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?

i honestly dont think u shood b offended...not to sound like i'm on HIS side or anything, but hes a guy going through puberty and its just hormones, if its not in his computer or in magazines, hes actually out and doing it, so be thankful.

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I decided to lose a few inches for Summer. I have given up soda for about 2 weeks, and I feel great. But i look fatter then ever now!! My thighs look like they've gotten an inch bigger and same with my stomach! Whuts going on?

well, the only thing I can fathom is that maybe you're making up for the soda with other fattening foods, but if you're not....no idea! good luck!

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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.

you've totally not lost your chance! just because you didn't raise your hand doesnt mean your not saved. you dont have to go to church and be prayed over to be saved! all you have to do is pray! good luck!

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