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Okay I have this black pigment skin I guess you would call it. Where like some parts of your skin are darker than others. Like around my mouth its dark. Does anyone know how to get rid of it? I hate it.

uumm maybe go to the doctor and ask if theres anything you can do about it? or use make up to cover it up..but try the doctor and if he/she says theres nothin u can do try make up!! sorry i didnt really help hun :o/..

michelle♥

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what age do girls stop growing their boobs?

can milk help them grow?

around the ages 18-20 and no milk doesn't help..thats for bones hun..

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I decided to lose a few inches for Summer. I have given up soda for about 2 weeks, and I feel great. But i look fatter then ever now!! My thighs look like they've gotten an inch bigger and same with my stomach! Whuts going on?

your probibly eating more to make up for missing out on soda..done give up soda just drink diet soda instead so you dont eat more..you probibly dont even notice your eating more! that happend to my friend..she drank tons of water and she gained water weight..so try what i said! good luck.

michelle♥

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Can you get genital herpes without having any sexual contact?

Yea you can..Like if your b/f/g/f touches your genitals you can get it..Or if you touch something that someone with herpes had then touch your genitals then you could get it...Just be safe and wash your hands and stuff like that.

michelle♥

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Me and my boyfriend kissed for the first time a while back, and now he keeps wanting to do it every day. I'm afraid if we keep kissing every day, we'll soon grow bored of it and move of to sex. I don't want to take things too fast. So what should I do?

Well thats what you do in a relationship..LoL but if it makes you uncomfutable i guess you could tell him you dont want to kiss as much..And if you dont want to do that and it does lead to sex...If you tell him your not ready then he should respect that. If he keeps pushing you to have sex then hes not right for you..

michelle♥

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I am having a party in two weeks because its the end of the school year. I have this one friend who I just met this year. I really like her and I want to invite her to my party. The only problem is that some of my friends dont like her. They think she is annoying. I really want her at my party but I dont want to upset my friends either. Some of my friends said they wont come if she is there. I really want my new friend there but I also want my other friends to have a good time and come. What should I do? Thanks for your help!

Uhm wow..if they dont come because of her thats pritty shallow. I mean they should come for you not for her... Tell them that. Tell them that their coming for you not her.. Thats exactly what happend to me.. My friend HATED my other friend and said she wasnt going to come to my party if my other friend came. And i got upset and i talked to her about it and told her that she would be comeing for me not her.. And it worked! They just didnt talk at all..which was fine with me cause they were both talking to me! haha but good luck and try what i said!

michelle♥

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I am taking a weekend trip to San Fransisco for the first time. Does anyone know any "must sees" or great resturants?

Oh i LOVE San Fransisco...DEFINATLY go to Pier 39...they have the BEST food and the BEST shops down there! No matter what eat the Clam Chowder in the bread bowl..omg its so amazingly good..Embarcadero is a street that has alot and alot of shops...Theres also China Town thats fun down there.. and uhm..Garadelli Square is fuunn lots of shops! Theres also the wax musium! its so cool..its kinda expencive but FUN...hmmm Oh yea...The Golden Gate Bridge! haha you can go see that...ANNNDD theres Alcutraz...I

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Me and my friend want to give my REALLY nerdy other friend a makeover at my house. She's the sensitive type, so how do I approach it? She has a unibrow, HIDEOUS nails, she wears pokemon shirts and granny jeans, her hair is frizzy, heavy, and waist length, and she desperately needs makeup. She desperately needs a new look, so how do my best friend and i approach her and give it to her? What things do I need to change to make her not-so-nerdy (nothing like cutting her hair)? I rate 5's

ooh sounds fun! haha well have a sleep over! you her and your best friend...then to make it look like your not attacking her...make up your best friend first THEN say "hey were gunna do you now then you can do me!" for her unibrow...i have no idea how your going to approach that..try plucking her eye brows maybe then move to the unibrow? and for her nails im sure you know how to make those up! just file 'um cut 'um and paint them. Lone her some cloths that you dont really want anymore so she doesnt wear those pokemon shirts anymore... :o/ then for her hair have her wash it and either straiten it for her or curl it with a big barrel curling iron..one of the biggest...(you can find some at target, walgreens, or sallys) then jusst do her make up like you think would look good on her! if she refuses to the make over just say "oh come on itll be fun!! were both doing it too" good luck! and have fun!

michelle♥

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i don't get this

its like everyone knows tanning causes skin cancer and ages people skin through time.

why is people still doing it?

because they dont want to be as white as a marshmellow...if its not your skin thats getting tanned..dont worry about it..

michelle♥

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i am a 14 yr old girl and of my boyfriend always wrestles with me what does that mean ?

uhm..hes flirting lol hes just playing around..nothing bad..have fun

michelle♥

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can i hav your email address

yep! for msn its:

lodiding@lodinet.com

my other one that you can e-mail me at is:

puma_gurly039@yahoo.com!!

michelle♥

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i've had under eye circles my whole life and sleeping more doesn't help because it just makes them purple from too much sleeping. stupid eyes. circles be gone!

im sorry...



did you have a question??

michelle♥

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What is the difference between vegans and veggetarians?
Thanks

vegans do not eat meat or dairy products..nothing asosiated with animals..like eggs, milk, cheese, meat etc.

vegitarians eat everythign but meat..they do eat eggs, milk, cheese etc..

michelle♥

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some people think that i'm fat but i dont think so. i mean i watch what i eat, and excersice daily. But, i cant lose weight. and i have a lot of friends who are super skinny, and they make me feel fat. what should i do, because i want to look more skinny i just dont want to me anerexic.
plese write back,
chunky monkey?

dude if you dont think your fat then DO NOT CHANGE! do NOT lisen to what people say about you..im sure your not fat what so ever...the thing i hate is that people think anorexic skinny is perfect now these days..people with curves are much more attractive to guys anyways so DO NOT CHANGE PLEASE!! dont lisen to them babe!

michelle♥

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where are places to get awesome and comfortable hoodies?

the most comfurtable sweat shirt i think are hurly sweat shirts! but some places you can go to get good sweat shirts are...

pacsun♥
zoomies♥
gottshocks
maceys
american eagle
ancoreblue
wetseal

try those stores!! hope i helped..

michelle♥

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Theres this guy named Jack..and well..my best friend's bro is friends with him. They both go to my school. Well the other weekend me and Jack hung out..with my best friend and her bro..well he was flirting with me the whole night..and me n him were just talking to eachother and no one else. So..Joe (his best friend) thinks he likes me and he keeps making fun of Jack for liking me. He does it non stop to me and him. It was funny at first but its getting old. Well..i like Jack..and i really want to hang out with him but the thing is i dont think he will because some of friends make fun of him..what should i do? move on or what?

well he wouldnt care what his friends thought if he wanted to be with you. and also his friends are jelous that he foudn someone..so when his friend teases you guys say "OK! we get it damn.." or something like that and he will definatly stop...but keep flirting and talking to him dont give up!!

michelle♥

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okay i really think this kid is hott but i dont even know him...i see him in the halls alot but i smile and he smiles back but i want him to notice me what do i do???? should i wear something differnt put heavy makeup on? i know it seems really stubid because of a guy but i dont even know him!!!

dont change for him..

do you have any classes with him? because there was this really hott guy in my class and i wanted to talk to him and he was wearing this sweat shirt and i said "your sweat shirts hott" and he laughed and said thanks and weve flirted & talked ever since!

if you dont have anyc classes with him try complimenting him on something...then you guys might get to talking. or have one of your friends say something to him then start talking! just strike up a conversation it will work TRUST ME! it worked for me ;o]! good luck

michelle♥

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My boyfriend's a rather sexual person, and I'm..getting there, haha. I've given him an orgasm and we've been trying to give me one. I'm kind of reluctant cos it hurts! Should it hurt? We are not having sex, fingering, but no intercourse. When he touches my clitoris it seems like pain, but also kind of good, but like tickling in which you try to move away. It hurts when he presses too hard of course, but then doesn't give that weird kick when it's not hard. The other day he was touching my clit and my leg started spazzing, but the clit hurt, but it felt like we should keep going, yet we stopped cos it hurt me kind of. We don't think I came. Wondering, what aren't we doing? And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)?

expieriment on yourself. you cant figure out what pleases you unless you do it yourself. clitorus' are VERY VERY sensitive..it is the most sensitive nerv on your body..so he could be pressing to hard..also try using lubricant..try those three things...also you could try not doing anything sexual for a couple of days then do it and see what happens..sorry i didnt really help

michelle♥

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Female 16...
My friend and i haven't been talking for about a month now and its all because she started spreading rumors around school about me and she also went out with a guy i really really liked, that i had told her about.. After she had hooked up with him she cheated on him with her so called ex boyfriend.
The guy i like has become a really good friend so i had to tell him. If i didn't i would have felt really bad about it..I actually have a few questions about this though.....
If he askes me out should i go out with him?
Should i keep this friendship between me and teh other girl?
and was it right for me to tell my friend about what she did to him?

shes not a good friend at all..if he asks you out..def. go out with him.. obviously your friend doesnt care about your feelings or his so go for it.. DONT try and keep your friendship.. what she did to you was nothign a friend would do..dont save it find someone better..and it was very right that you told him. she cant go around and cheat on her boyfriends i respect you for telling him cause most girls wouldnt...i kno exactly how you feel when your friend takes the guy you like after you tell her you like him. its happend to me about 3 times so i just stopped telling her who i liked...:o/ it sux but you can find someone so much better thne her!! good luck

michelle♥

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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and I just had my period. I usually have it for 4 or 5 days but I only had it for 3 this time. The first two days it was very heavy. I had to change my tampon (regular absorbancy) every hour. Thats a lot for me but still it was only heavy like that for 2 days .. Im really nervous. I just want to know if u guys think I could be pregnant. I dont feel any different at all.. no stomach aches or dizzieness. Please help.. I rate high!

you cant always be sure because your egg hasnt been released into your uterus yet. so maybe it being cut short is a sign. go to the pharmasy and buy a pregnancy test..better safe then sorry. and you dont have to have your parents with u they cant deny you buying that its illegal. so i really really think you should take a pregnancy test in about 3 days..and next time.. dont have unprotected sex..not a very smart thing to do!

michelle♥

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