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how do increase the release of seminal fluid during sex (link)
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The point of your question title seems to be different to your actual question. I'll answer the latter.
The only way to increase the amount of semen released is to increase pressure. I.E. masturbate or have sex until you are at the point where your semen will be released. Stop, and then carry on. Also, foreplay helps, as you slowly get aroused.
In short: Increase the amount of time before ejaculation.
But there really is no other way. In general, men only release 1 teaspoon of semen. This is often surprising, but that is all.
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I just received my new passport today, and signed (signature line) using a thin black permanent marker. I went over it to make it extra dark/permanent, and it occurred to me that a passport official in foreign country might view it as unacceptable. It looks okay, but a tad sloppy. (it's a US passport)... Do I have anything to be worried about? (link)
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Sometimes, places that require ID, e.g. banks and so on, use your passport to compare their records with.
It isn't really a problem.
If you are worried, contact your local passport office. It shouldn't really be a problem though.
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I had my record sealed, but mugshots.com still has my mugshot and I want it removed. What can I do? (link)
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E-mail them, and ask them to remove it. It is probably best to get an adult to do it, if you are not one.
If that fails, get a Lawyer.
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I am very sure my dad is cheating/ being unfaithful to my mom.....AGAIN! from what I know this would be at least the 4th time. My mom and I went to go pick up my father from work yesterday. He asked me to come inside his job to help him carry a few things out, so I did. I was introduced to his boss, he seemed very friendly and comfortable with this man like they are friends. I then started walking ahead of them and I heard them laughing his boss said "please introduce me to your wife, so I can tell her all ur antics and the things you do around here!" My dads whole mood changed after he said that, he became nervous and uncomfortable and said" you dont need to go there, no you do not need to go there." I could tell he knew I heard what his boss said. I tried to act like I didn't hear it..it bothered me a lot. The way his boss said it made me think he is messing around with the females at his job. Considering my fathers past. He has cheated on my mom before. My mom was devastated by it, but yet she still stands by him and is still in a relationship with him. Should I tell her what he said? would it even make a difference.. (link)
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I don't think you should tell your mother.
As a child, you have to be independant in this. It's unhealthy for you to take sides. The problem is between your father and your mother. Your mother was obviously devastated before, and if you say what you heard, you will worry her again. It's understandable if his boss said "let me tell you wife about how you've been having an affair", but he didn't. He said "your antics" - that can be anything: not working properly, joking around with friends, making jokes etc.
The possibility of breaking them apart is not worth it. They have to discuss it out alone.
You could approach your dad about it though. Just ask him what he meant. This way, at least he knows you know, and may tell your mother himself (IF he has been cheating), and they can sort through whatever problems they are having.
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I reaallyy want to participate but I don't have any sort of... Well physical talent. What I'm really good at -or at list so I've heard from people- is writing and drawing. My teachers, friends and family all say this... But I honestly don't see what good would that do for the TS. I'm not physically fit in any way, get tired too fast, I have also tried dancing, singing and acting but honestly I don't think any of these are quite my ... Strenghts. Any good ideas? (link)
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Well, the whole point of a talent show is to show off a talent.
Your talent is obviously drawing and writing. Writing is difficult with talent shows. You could always draw something...like speed drawing. Or ask a random person to make a random line or mark on a piece of paper, and some how add lines and detail to make it look like something.
If all else fails, just forget it. Don't enter: it's not mandatory.
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I got off of my period during the end of memorial weekend, last Sunday, June 10th, I engaged in risky sexual activity with my boyfriend. We didn't have sex and he didn't go inside AT ALL. He rubbed his penis against my clit, he did not cum and he did not do it long either. But I'm really scared the Precum will cause me to become pregnant. Im pretty sure it was the day after ovulation too. PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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Of course you can get pregnant.
One single sperm cell may have found his way in.
It's improbably, but not impossible.
Get a couple of pregnancy tests, and see what they say. See a doctor if need be.
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When I was 13 I had cut my wrist,with my boyfriend's name (well ex now) cause he hurt me badly,he told me he loved me and my best friend and he choose her,so on.. so I cut my wrist,then he did it again,and the mark had gone so I went over it,then about 4-3 months ago he did the same so I did the same but on my arm a heart with his first letter of his name inside the heart,yes I know cutting myself was silly,I have noticed that now,but there is a red mark of he scar of the heart there now,the first scar has gone but my arm has a heart there when my temperature is high,how would I be able to get rid of the heart? Please help x (link)
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On a side note, you should really speak to someone if you feel the need to self harm. School councilors and psychiatrists are all available.
Regarding the scars, you should use some sort of lotion that contains Vitamin E. Palmers Cocoa butter, with Vitamin E is good. It's not too expensive either.
Bio-oil is an oil used for scars and stretchmarks. It contains Vitamin E too. It's pretty expensive, but you only use a little and so it's quite cheap in that way. It really does work, and can be found at pharmacists and supermarkets.
Good luck.
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So I'm going to be turning 16 soon. And my parents are buying me any type of car I want. I have heard about this website that had like, reposessed cars, and other cars that the police are selling. I have no idea what the website is called though. does anyone kno what its called? Ad also, what are the best type of nice, cheap, cars?" I was thinking in the type of car like 1970 dodge charger or 1970 chevy nova. I have always liked muscle cars where you can put a good system in it (subs, subwoofers) . So, if you have any idea of the website or what it sounds like please tell me. And any good car ideas. THANKS:) (link)
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I would suggest Autotrader. They have new, used and written off cars.
You can search by whatever you want. Here's the link:
http://www.autotrader.com/
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I was with my ex boyfriend for four years and we had an amazing relationship and he was the perfect gentleman and he was always there for me. he was the guy meant for me and i loved him very much. By the end of the relationship, he was less comprehensive of me and didnt care as much and blamed everything on me. He ended the relationship cause he was going through a phase of confusion and didnt know what his feelings were for me anymore. he also kissed another girl but I have forgotten about this as he is truly sorry and was having a hard time. We stayed good friends aand were always together and we were still making love in the progress. We went through alot in the past 7 months that weve been apart as he was deeply confused and didn't know what to do. A few weeks ago, he told me that he had lost some of his feelings for me and i was completely heart broken as i was still head over heels for this man. But in the process, i found this fantastic guy, that treats me like a princess like no one has ever done and is there for me. weve been together for 2 weeks and a half now and im really happy. But a few days ago my ex came back into the picture and told me he knows how its like to lose me now and is more in love with me that he ever was and wants me back.. thats all i ever wanted in the past 7 months but i dont know what to do anymore as someone else has entered my life and has made a change. I do love them both, what should i do? Should i let go of a relationship of 4 years and all my happiness at that time or should i go back to it in a heartbeat? (link)
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Well, you really need to speak to your ex about why his feelings for you started to diminish, if you want to get back with him. It's said often enough on this site, that there is a reason he is your ex - if it didn't work the first time, it probably won't work again.
Whatever you decide to do, it's unfair on your new boyfriend. You've only been with him for two and a half weeks, and you're already unsure? Well, you need to tell him. You cannot lead him on, like some sort of back up plan.
It also sounds like your ex is jealous: he want's what he can no longer have i.e. you are with someone else now, and so he says that he really misses you because he knows he can't have you : the chase is the most important part in courting to a male.
In short: Do what you think is best. I would advise against getting together with your ex again: sometimes you just have to let go. But if you still have feelings for him, it's unfair on your current boyfriend, should you lead him on.
Good luck with your decision!
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I am unsure if I am interested in law but my college doesnt offer any specific law courses. What courses can i take to see if i want to travel down that path. Would intro to criminology help? thanks (link)
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Criminology may help, but it's more of a focus on crime and criminals, rather than the Law in itself.
You should see if there are any adult education colleges, or evening courses in community centres/community colleges etc that do an into' to Law.
You could also speak to people that have studied Law to see what they thought of it. Ask friends/family/check internet forums for students.
You could also do what I did: do some work experience at a law firm. It's someone to work that they don't have to pay, and you get experience which will help your college application. Keep in mind that a vast majority of prospective law students will want to get some experience in a Legal firm, and so apply some time in advanced. I was fortunate in finding a relatively new law firm. They did not have any employees, and so I was valued to do odd jobs. I also learned about the field. And now, I'm great friends with the lawyer. I pop in if i'm in the area, and she always tells me that after I finish college, a job will be waiting for me, and she would be more than happy to train me further. So it's also a great way to make contacts for the future.
Good luck! :)
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If a person was that was close to you, really evil to you would you care if they died?
My aunt died 3 years ago and I didn't get upset when she died. Am I wrong? She died from some heart problems. My aunt was very evil to the people in our family. She stole money from a lot of them and did drugs with her boyfriend. They had a daughter together and continued to do drugs, just not around her. My grandmother was always in denial about them doing drugs until their daughter got taken away and they admitted it. My aunt also stole money from my grandmothers account somehow forging checks for over a year and she admitted. They used the money for drugs. They also begged for money from my grandma and she'd give them money for food, but they were most likely using it for drugs. My grandmother had to pay their rent every month and feed them, the only reason why my grandmother and most of my family dealt with her is because she had a daughter. My cousin who is my aunt's daughter didn't know that her parents were smoking crack and she Still doesn't know. My aunt used to say very evil things and do evil things. She cared about nothing but drugs and her boyfriend. She used her own daughter to beg for money from family members for food, they even came over our house begging for dinner because they spent all their money on drugs.My aunt was turning my cousin into an evil person just like her and her bad habits was rubbing off on my cousin. She used her own daughter to beg for money from family. My aunt left my grandmother broke every month from stealing and begging for money. Ever since my cousin got taken away and her bigger sister got custody she has had a better life, she goes to a better school and she's a very smart and good girl. My aunt is dead now and my cousin's father has cancer. I just didn't feel bad when my aunt died, but I feel bad for my cousin because she loved her mom and sometimes she still cries about her mom being dead. I also feel bad for my grandmother cause she lost her daughter. But things have been better since she died and I just didn't cry when she died. Am I wrong? (link)
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Well, we all feel differently when someone close to us dies. You may not have cried, but did you feel sad at all?
It's easy for people to judge other people, especially for children to judge adults. Children have a rose-tinted vision of adulthood and parenthood, thinking that every adult should be perfect because of their children. It is not like that however.
I doubt your aunt wanted to hurt anyone. She did what she did out of desperation. Desperation caused by a drug habit. When someone takes drugs at such a level, their brain virtually stops functioning as all they can think about is their next fix. The drug controlled her life, and prevented her from becoming a good mother that she could have been.
You must also realise, that she was a mother and a daughter. However bad of a mother or daughter she was (or it looked like), it's never easy to say goodbye to a loved one.
Personally, I can not be happy at anyone dying. For whatever reason, as it is a loss of potential- someone that did great, or someone that could have done great if they sorted their life out.
Although things seem good now, you obviously know that your grandmother and cousin are still grieving.
So it doesn't really make you a bad person for not crying when she died. Like I said, people grieve in different ways. If you did not feel anything, then that was probably because you only saw the bad side of her, and not the little innocent girl she was was, or the mother she could have been. But you can obviously understand that she did play a part in the lives of people you love.
Hope I helped :)
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I'm 14 and I have an 18 year old sister. I love her, that I know. But I feel like I can't trust her. Everytime she comes home from college I am very careful about what I say when talking to her. Everytime we fight (which is often), I can never defend myself or fight back because I know that whatever I "trust" her with, she threatens to tell everyone. I talked to her about it already, and she said she's more mature now and she won't do it anymore. But we just had an argument and it ended the same way I thought it would end, with her saying "I could say so much about you, don't mess with me." I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to live my life not being able to confide in or trust my sister. (link)
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Really, the only way to solve this is to speak to her. It's good that you have already spoken to her about that specific issue. She said that she has matured, but that is clearly not true.
I have to say, at 18, very few people are matured. Even at 21. I know people aged 30 who still act like children.
But you have to sit her down when you two are both calm, and tell her exactly what you say in your question. So let her know that you feel betrayed and that feel that you can not trust her, even though it would be horrible if you could not confide in your big sister. Just tell her exactly how you feel about it.
If however she carries on, then it may be best not to tell her anything personal that you wouldn't want other people knowing. It's a sad state of affairs, but if you speak to her and see no results, then you really have no choice. You could always just speak to your friends about things that you have to get off your chest.
But realise that your sister isn't necessarily bad for what she is doing. It's usually just an act of desperation, especially if you may be judgmental, or have a go at her for doing something wrong. She may just be saying it to you to end the argument or whatever, and she may have no intention of telling anyone anything.
Good luck.
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My baby daddy I'd bleeding out his rectom (link)
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You need to tell the Father of your child to visit a doctor. No one on here is a doctor, and so we can not help you.
It may just be a little bit of muscle tissue that is torn. This is not so bad, but can cause an infection.
It may also be cancer.
So like I say, visit your doctor and see what they say.
Good luck.
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This may sound like a very stupid question, but what exactly is phone sex? I don't really know what it is and I feel like a moron when it's mentioned. And what is the point of it? Why do people "have" phone sex? Thanks! (link)
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Phone sex is when people talk sexually over the phone. It can include stuff like fantasies, instructions, sexual sounds, or pretty much anything else.
Some people get aroused by someone else talking sexually. They may masturbate or so on.
Different folks, different strokes I suppose.
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i dont know who to ask this but if anyone can help it would be great. there is a fan page on face book which is racist, abusive and content which should not be published. i have reported this page to facebook but they dont seem to care as i have had no response. these people have publicly humiliated my partner and alot of other people. they have made hundreds of jokes about dead babies, racist jokes and remarks and are extremely abusive. please would somebody advise me on what to do thanks a million in advance.... this is the link:www.facebook.com/KurtiSafc and www.facebook.com/DeadBabyJokes (link)
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I think DangerNerd has hit the nail on your head. Send us a link to content that is breaking the law, and we can contact facebook. They'll take a number of people more seriously than just one.
Good luck!
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Since these last few months I've been eating so much! I have a kebab and chinese and like 2 mcdonalds a week! I can't be pregnant because I haven't been doing sexual things with anyone,I take a big bar of chocolate,sausage roll,chrips,2drinks and jelly to school and I still have dinner,I didn't eat that much before:-/!,what would be wrong with me? None of my friends eat like me:-/! But I don't put the weight on,but when I run I can't run for long anymore,last year I could run 800m in 4minutes but this year it takes me 7minutes,please help? (link)
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When you eat, eat slowly. This is to ensure that you can understand when you are actually full. Chew your food 25 times, and put down your knife and fork/food down after a bite. Once you have chewed 25 times, swallow.
Focus on your food, i.e. no tv. This will then help you to understand when you are actually satisfied. And don't just eat because it is in front of you. When your brain tells you that you are satisfied, stop eating. Wait 5 minutes, and if you get hungry again, eat. But if not, then don't.
You don't state your age, so It may be a growth spurt. Just be sure to eat healthily, and consciously.
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I live in an apartment and it is against the rules to paint the walls. I am going nits and would like to add some sort of color...What about wrapping paper? I know it sounds silly but my walls are white. I need some ideas! Something not messy and will not damage the wall.
No posters please....I am an adult (link)
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You could pin up curtains. Like really decorative ones. I've seen this done before. People put rails up, and hang curtains up. This may not be suitable, if you cannot nail anything up.
Wrapping paper can be difficult, because it's rarely attractive enough to put on your walls. It's also very thin.
You could use wall paper instead. Stick it up using some sort of adhesive.
Also, you could use art work. I was in the same position as you. I got a whole bunch of canvasses and art I really liked, if different sizes. Then I put up nails and hung it all up on a whole wall. The whole wall was covered with different art. It looked pretty good. Nails are not a very big problem, you can just paint over the wholes.
But yes, there is not *much* you can do because your landlord probably won't appreciate you putting things up.
Just be creative! Good luck!
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I'm 15 years old and a female. I am 5'7 and I weigh 145ish Ilbs but I didn't think I was fat. I work out often, almost every day for at least an hour and sometimes 2 hours. I play both hockey and soccer, but mostly soccer. On days i dont have soccer I'll normally run 5 miles. I don't eat the healthiest. But for breakfast I do eat a nutritious smoothie. Am I considered fat? If so, how do I lose weight? (link)
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We really can't tell you if you're fat.
You could do a BMI test online, but they are usually unreliable. You can go to a doctor, or get scales that can tell you how much of your body is fat, how much is water, and how much is muscle. This is more reliable, as you only really want to lose fat: not muscle or water. These scales are not terribly expensive. Have a look online.
But you seem to exercise a lot. Which is good. You need to keep this up, and keep challenging yourself. If you carry on doing exactly what you do right now, then your body will get used to it and there will be no change. So keep pushing yourself.
Around 80% of weight loss is down to diet. You should definitely eat well. Half of you plate should be vegetables/fruit. Very little should be fat. Throw some protein in, and a little bit of carbs. Make sure the carbs you eat are wholewheat, i.e. wholewheat bread, pasta, rice.
You also want to eat slowly, and finish when you feel full. Don't shovel it in, as then you can not tell when you are full, and you will just carry on eating. Also, do not go for seconds. If you are still hungry, stop eating and take a 5min break. Your craving for more food will usually die in this space of time. Want more food after eating in an instinct from when we were hunter-gatherers. Food was scarce, and so when we had food, it was worth eating as much as you can to keep you going until next time. Of course now, we have a glut of food, and so this is useless.
So really, a good diet and plenty of exercise is the only way to lose weight. For example:
If you eat 2500 calories, you need to burn at least 2500 calories just to stay how you are. You need to burn more than you consume if you want to lose weight.
Good luck :)
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I'm not from north america. That's for starters. I really wan't to be succesful in college and have a good life. But I don't know what I should study that I would like but that could also help me in economy. I LOVE to write and draw and was thinking about journalism but I like it better in English. Where I'm from universities don't cost as much as in U.S. but there is nothing that has to do with what I like AND in English. I'm 16 but tons of people keep telling me that I need to choose from now and I know they are right. It also scares me going to college and ending up miserable. (link)
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Why not study English? It's much better and respected to get into Journalism from studying English Literature rather than studying 'journalism' in it's pure form which is often seen as a 'non-sense' course that is not taught properly. And studying English is generally a very useful subject. You can go into Law, Politics, Broadcasting etc with it.
And why not study abroad? The USA is not your only option. Europe is also an excellent option. Here in the United Kingdom, we have the best universities in the world. I.e. Cambridge is on the top of the world league tables.
Message me for more info if you need it.
Good luck :)
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How do I glue extensions in to make my hair look like this?
Youtube video tutorials aren't working
I want my hair Like this: http://ionehellobeautiful.files.wordpress.com/2009/08/aaliyahbangs2001.jpg (link)
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I've seen a bombardment of questions regarding extensions and gluing and the such.
I recommend you go to a salon.
They'll know what they're doing, and if you pay attention, you can see how they do it and maybe try yourself if you feel confident.
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