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Chosing between your new boyfriend and your ex boyfriend
I was with my ex boyfriend for four years and we had an amazing relationship and he was the perfect gentleman and he was always there for me. he was the guy meant for me and i loved him very much. By the end of the relationship, he was less comprehensive of me and didnt care as much and blamed everything on me. He ended the relationship cause he was going through a phase of confusion and didnt know what his feelings were for me anymore. he also kissed another girl but I have forgotten about this as he is truly sorry and was having a hard time. We stayed good friends aand were always together and we were still making love in the progress. We went through alot in the past 7 months that weve been apart as he was deeply confused and didn't know what to do. A few weeks ago, he told me that he had lost some of his feelings for me and i was completely heart broken as i was still head over heels for this man. But in the process, i found this fantastic guy, that treats me like a princess like no one has ever done and is there for me. weve been together for 2 weeks and a half now and im really happy. But a few days ago my ex came back into the picture and told me he knows how its like to lose me now and is more in love with me that he ever was and wants me back.. thats all i ever wanted in the past 7 months but i dont know what to do anymore as someone else has entered my life and has made a change. I do love them both, what should i do? Should i let go of a relationship of 4 years and all my happiness at that time or should i go back to it in a heartbeat?
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Well, you really need to speak to your ex about why his feelings for you started to diminish, if you want to get back with him. It's said often enough on this site, that there is a reason he is your ex - if it didn't work the first time, it probably won't work again.
Whatever you decide to do, it's unfair on your new boyfriend. You've only been with him for two and a half weeks, and you're already unsure? Well, you need to tell him. You cannot lead him on, like some sort of back up plan.
It also sounds like your ex is jealous: he want's what he can no longer have i.e. you are with someone else now, and so he says that he really misses you because he knows he can't have you : the chase is the most important part in courting to a male.
In short: Do what you think is best. I would advise against getting together with your ex again: sometimes you just have to let go. But if you still have feelings for him, it's unfair on your current boyfriend, should you lead him on.
Good luck with your decision!
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