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what are the signs a boy likes you?
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It can depend on the age of the boy!
Some will tease and torment you.
Some will flirt and joke with you.
Some will just smile at you and look at you all the time.
Some will just suddenly start talking to you for no reason about random things. :)
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/my friends and i went to this party, and there was this man/guy whatever and he was dancing with me and was being all nice, Then he said lets go upstairs i think there havin a party up there also. So i went with him! When we go there there was nobody there. I was getting ready to leave, when he pushed me on the bed. At first he was kissing me sweetley, but then he raped me. I don't know how to tell my friends or famil!!
PPLLEASSEE HELP MEE!!! (link)
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You do need to tell your mom. You need to file charges against this guy so he doesn't try it again
with someone else. You did not do a thing wrong. It is not your fault it happened. They will know that.
Go tell your mom right now. Don't live with this secret it will tear you up inside. You will need to see a doctor and make sure you are not pregnant and that he didn't pass an STD on to you.
It will be hard at first to say anything...just do it. You will feel much better when it is said.
No need to mention it to your friends unless you think it will be helpful to you. Tell mom first though. :)
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i recently asked a question about what to do about a girl named B asking my boyfriend out .. well now one of her friends is saying that my boyfriend and B hookedup .. i dont know what to do .. if anyone has any idea just please write back and i will give u my screenname and i will send u the message the girl sent me PLEASS PLEASE!! (link)
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No need to rate this. Here is the link to the previously asked question (might get you some better answers.) :)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=456482
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Hey! Well, I'm 14/f and I was wondering, since I have a cingular phone (Nokia), how do you put pictures from your cell phone onto the computer? Thanks (link)
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The only way I know of to do it is to send them to your email address. Then you save them to your computer from there. :)
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Well, my best friend's mom just died today.
I don't know what to say or do?
I was going to make her a large card [although it might not help] to let her know I'm here.
Is there anything else I can do for her to keep her from falling apart? (link)
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Give her a big hug and just be there for her. Right now there will be a bunch of family around her (not that you shouldn't go to her now..DO!). Pretty soon though they will all go back to thier regular routine. That is when she is going to really need you a lot. Just listen to her,& let her cry on your shoulder. You don't have to say a thing. :)
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I did something a couple of months ago that at the time I thought I did the right thing but now I'm regretting it. Well basically what happened is the man I was in love with who I thought loved me back dumped me very cruelly. I told him that I wouldn't have an affair; or get invovled sexually with him as long as he was married. Instead of respecting my decision he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. The reason I thought he did want to be with me is because he kept asking me if I wanted children and that I'd be a great mom and he had never had kids. I also knew he was really unhappy with his wife. I thought he loved me and he obviously was leading me on and just telling me what I wanted to hear so eventually I would sleep with him. I guess I just need someone to tell me that I did the right thing because I've been feeling so down about this. (link)
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You did the right thing. If he cared he would still be with you. :)
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my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.
[15/f; friend's 14] (link)
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Just don't abandon her after she has the baby, should she decide to keep it. That is really hard on a person.
Be a good listener. She will need someone just to bounce ideas off of. She will be scared and need someone to hold her hand. Just be a friend and listen. That's all you need to do. :)
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I wasn't sure whether to put this under "Parenting" or "Sex" but seeing as how this category seems to be more popular, I put it under here to get as many possible responses.
Hi, i'm 15/female and i'm a little worried about a possible pregnancy. Any help at all would be greatly appreciated, but i'm asking you nicely, please do not judge or critisize me. If I am pregnant, which I have a strong feeling in my heart that I am, i'm going to take care of the baby with the help of my boyfriend, friends, and parents. All of whom are very supportive of all decisions I have and will make in the future. I still don't know how i'm going to tell them, but i'll found that out later on. I'm feeling very bittersweet about this whole episode, but I have decided i'm keeping the baby if I happen to be. What I need to know is if you guys think i'm pregnant as well?
I've been on birth control (ortho cyclen) for a little over 6 months now. I've had no problems other than the occasional missed pill that so far i've always taken the next day. My period has been a little of schedule here lately, sometimes it comes a day or two late, but I always experience light spotting on the days I don't start. I've recently been in the hospital do to a urinary tract infection and my doctor prescribed me amoxicillin. My boyfriend of a little over a year now are sexually active, and we have been for about 7 or 8 months now. I just recently quit taking my antibiotic, and I noticed as I was throwing the pill bottle out (my mom always gives me my medicine in the morning, so I never really looked at the bottle) that there was a warning saying "This medication may decrease the effectiveness of birth control. Use a backup method" I mentioned this to my boyfriend and we both freaked out; We don't use any other method because i've been on birth control since we've started having sex. And yes, he does ejaculate inside of me, everytime. To make matter even worse, while I was on my antibiotic, I missed a pill and didn't retake it. [I dropped it one morning while taking my other medication (zoloft, claritin) and couldn't find it. I still haven't]. Dumb on my part, I never told my boyfriend this. I was afraid he would become upset with me. And in case you were wondering, I don't plan on telling him. We did some research and discovered that the medicine I was on only decreased the effectiveness by a small amount. I'm still very worried though, because of the missed pill. It's way to late to use any emergency contraception, so if I am pregnant, i'm going to have to deal. I absolutely will not terminate the pregnancy! I am 100% against that. My boyfriend obviously doesn't want to have a baby. He asked me if I would get an abortion if I was pregnant. When I said no, he became upset but dropped the subject entirely. We haven't talked about it since. My period is now 3 days late, and I am pretty sure it's not due to stress. I'm perfectly ok with the possible pregnancy. I'm a little upset as to how mine and my boyfriend's family will take it, but other than that i'm fine. I've had some mild cramping, but no other symptoms or signs of pregnancy. I still haven't taken a pregnancy test, if I don't start in a week, I plan on asking my boyfriend to get me one. We'll take it from there. But basically, i'm just looking for advice. (link)
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There is a small chance you could be pregnant.
I would take the home test if you don't get your period in the next week or so. Missing a pill might have thrown you off too.
You can't really depend on symptoms other than a missed period. There are many women who never have morning sickness or other big indicators that they might be pregnant.
I hope your boyfriend will stick with you through it all. His initial remarks were probably just curiosity about what you might be thinking. He hasn't left yet so chances are good he will be there for you.
Get that home test. Best of luck to you. :)
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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥ (link)
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If you need reassurance then maybe it isn't okay for you. I don't see a reason to hookup with anyone you don't see having a relationship with. Of course, depends on what you mean by "hooking up". I think there are to many life altering diseases out there
to make it completely OK. Just my opinion. :)
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13/F
Okay, my boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a WEEK, and he's already kind of hinting that he wants to have sex with me. I know I shouldn't, and I won't give in, being as that I am Catholic and have religious morals. But, I was with him yesterday and he had an erection. It kind of freaked me out, because we weren't even kissing or anything, and I really don't think I'm ready to have the same type of relationship he wants. And also, yesterday, he showed me condoms he had bought, and that pretty much just took me over the edge. He told me if I really wanted him to just stop everything, he would, and I do believe him, but when I'm trying to tell him no, my shy-side won't let me say anything. Is there any way I can simply tell him no and I want to wait for things like this until I'm older? (link)
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It is very good to hear a girl your age is deciding to wait. A lot do wait but it isn't talked about quite as much as those who are sexually active. You are much to young to handle all the consequences that could occur.
Here is a good page for you to read. I hope it helps
you. Just tell him what you told us. You are not ready for that type of relationship right now. :)
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/virginity.html
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how do i gett my little advice thingy known? I like to help people out and i would love for people to ask me direct questionss. (link)
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You have to answer a lot of questions that are asked to everyone on the site. You have to give good advice and it needs to be well written and understood.
No chat speak or a lot of abbreviated and misspelled words, like cuz instead of because.
Most of us don't get a LOT of inbox questions. But you will get some. A lot of the time they may have a question about some advice you gave, or want a little more information. If you have really helped someone they may just come to you for advice the next time they need it.
Answering questions from the site will also get your column a rating. Some will look for ratings when trying to find a columnist to ask a question.
Inbox ratings to not count toward your column rating.
So just answer a lot of questions. Sooner or later
you will start getting questions to your inbox. :)
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My boyfriend and I have been sexually active, and I'm just wondering when it is safest to have sex without the possibility of pregnancy... like right before or right after having a period? thanks. (link)
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There is NO time when it is safest to have sex without the possibility of pregnancy. Some think there is and they usually wind up pregnant.
The only safe way to avoid pregnancy is abstinence or use protection. Before, after or during your period. :)
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If I were to get a 2005 Jeep Liberty that's 4WD, about how much would the payments be & the actual car itself? I don't need an EXACT answer but as close as you can get would be nice.
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I got a 2005 Jeep Wrangler. I think they are pretty similar in price, Liberty may be just a little higher. My payments are about 460 a month. :)
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I was reading another question and I got to thinking, is there really a point to shaving your vagina? Like, is it actually recommended and stuff? (link)
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No. There is really no point. It was originally started to keep pubic hair from peeking out of bikinis. My personal opinion is maybe that bikini is just to small!
Anyway, I can understand a little shaving for that reason only. It is way to much trouble, painful and every cut is a possible infection. So it is up to the individual but very unnecessary. :)
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will taking lexapro get you high? or kill you?
a friend told me he gets rly fucked up on lexapro.
how many do you have to take?
he says he takes like 5 (link)
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Take to much of almost any medication and it will fuck you up. You risk death or very serious damage
to yourself every time you take to much. Here are some symptoms of an OD. If it seems to you he has the symptoms then see he gets medical treatment immediately.
massive overdose of Lexapro can be fatal.
* Typical symptoms of Lexapro overdose include:
Dizziness, sweating, nausea, vomiting, tremors, drowsiness, rapid heartbeat, seizures
In rare cases, an overdose may also cause memory loss, confusion, coma, breathing problems, muscle wasting, irregular heartbeat, and a bluish tinge to the skin.
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is it true that if you run away and leave a note saying that you went with some1 that the police cant come looking for you?
-tks-
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No it isn't true. If you are under age and don't have permission to leave with anyone a note makes no difference at all. They will look for you. You will still be considered a runaway.
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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering. (link)
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Well for what its worth I think guys wearing cologne is great. I say wear it. :)
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okay, so i feel REALLY stupid asking this, but..
everyone talks about girls having "crabs" & all.. but what exactly ARE they?? because idk. i feel stupid that i dont know, but i have to find out somehow, and i figured this would be the perfect place to ask.
ps, i didnt know what category to put this under :x (link)
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Ok here is the dictionary version.
A sucking louse (Phthirus pubis) that generally infests the pubic region and causes severe itching.
You know what head lice are? They are basically the same thing except the reside in the pubic area. :)
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Okay im only 13 and i have a neice (or however you spell it) and shes 6, so the other day me and her went to a school dance (we go to the same school) and she likes this guy in my class (little 6 yr old crush...how cute) and she was begging me to tell him, so i go up to hima nd im like "hey josh, my neice here has the biggest crush on you?" she started to burry herself in my stomache and i cant help but feel bad, i mean, 6 year old dont know what they're talking about, and it was annoying so i just went right up to him and told him. Am i a bad aunt? and can you give me advice please.
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No you aren't a bad Aunt. You did just what she wanted you to do. She was probably acting bashful more than anything. I hope her crush was nice about it. :)
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ok i desperatley need to know what injuries to check for after a car accidents, and how to check for them.. like lets say you're supposed to check for rib-injuries, then how do you do it??
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I don't want to give you the answers because we aren't supposed to help with homework to much. I will help get you started.
First you have to make sure the person is breathing.
That is the first thing you check always. If they
aren't then nothing else matters.
Always assume a head/neck injury is involved in any accident involving an impact. Do not move them unless their life is in danger by remaining where they are. For example if they are not breathing...doesnt really matter what other injuries are sustained. They are dead unless you give rescue breathing and possibly CPR.
OK if they are breathing... whats next? :)
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