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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles. I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!
I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.
I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.
I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.
I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!
♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥
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Does anyone know how or even if u can delete your sn on AIM?
no you can't delete your account on AIM, i kno i tried b4 too..i wish so too:\
hope i helped!!
if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
my s/n for AIM is in my advice column, or you could just put it in my inbox!!
good luck!!
*ash*
what does eating butt taste like?
i know some ppl that did it and they said it doesnt taste like anything really!! as long as the person is clean(try getting them to take a shower first!!) then it shuld be fine..
www.sex-project.com
try that too^^
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if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
my s/n for AIM is in my advice column, or you could just put it in my inbox!!
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*ash*
if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman.
it is possible he might have learned these things from another woman but most likely he learned it from a porno or sumthing. my boyfriend is always offering new things to do in the bedroom and it's only bc he watches pornos or looks things up on the internet and then shares them with me!! you should be happy hes wanting to do these new things with you and noone else!!
ask him about it just to make sure he isnt cheating.
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if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
my s/n for AIM is in my advice column, or you could just put it in my inbox!!
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*ash*
this girl at my school like sleeps around and does drugs and drinks and stuff...and not alot of ppl like her...but she wants to go out with my best guy friend and all shes gonna do is sleep with him and get him into drugs and everybody knows and doesnt want it to happen and i dont know how to tell him that he shouldnt go out with her...
theres no other way but to be upfront and honest with him!! let him know your concerned and just say "listen, im not saying this to get you mad, only bc i care.." and tell him how youre feeling and that you know for a fact that this girl is nothing but trouble!!
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if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
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*ash*
when you finger a girl are you just supposed to move your finger in and out or what? how do you do it? and where is her g-spot? and what do you do when you find it?
www.sex-project.com
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if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
my s/n for AIM is in my advice column, or you could just put it in my inbox!!
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*ash*
my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow and i want to give him head, but i want to seduce him and make him want it more and like right away, maybe like give him a boner or something, so does anyone have anything to do that will help?
www.sex-project.com
that should help!!
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if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
my s/n for AIM is in my advice column, or you could just put it in my inbox!!
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*ash*
i just got a tokay gecko from my friend and shes grumpy. i realize thats a species characteristic but i was wondering if anybody has domesticated one to the point that you could safely handle it, and if so, how?
Housing requirements:
Enclosure: Tokay geckos can be kept singly in a 10 to 20-gallon aquarium. You can house them in groups, however it is inadvisable to keep males together as they will fight. You can keep up to six geckos in a 55-gallon aquarium. When possible choose high tanks over long tanks. Screened enclosures are not a good choice because of the geckos’ delicate foot structure.
Temperature: Tokay geckos should be kept in a relative cage temperature of 85° to 90° F during the day with a 15° F drop during the night.
Heat/Light: A heat lamp may be used. As Tokay geckos are nocturnal, ultra-violet lighting is not necessary but can be used for aesthetic purposes and plant maintenance. Undertank heaters are rarely used by this gecko. A photoperiod of 10 hours light and 14 hours darkness is adequate.
Substrate: Potting soil and sand mixture, orchid bark, coconut fiber or fir bark can all be used as substrate.
Environment: Tokay geckos are from the tropical rainforest, but the can be found at home within human habitations as well. Since they are a rainforest species a relative humidity should be around 70% to 90% and should not drop below 50%. The substrate listed above will help in keeping the humidity in the desired range. Strong plants such as croton and wax flower are recommended. The back wall of the terrarium can also be lined with bark. Split branches, cork tubes and grape wood branches can also be used.
Diet: Tokays are not squeamish and will eat a wide variety of insects. Crickets should be a staple and will be relished. Wax worms, wax moths, superworms, locusts and even pinky mice will be eaten. Food should be offered every other day. Dusting of insects with a multipurpose reptile vitamin/mineral powder should be done at least every third feeding.
Maintenance: Spot cleaning of the terrarium should be done as needed. A complete breakdown of the terrarium and replacement of the substrate should be done every three to four months. Humidity can be maintained by daily misting once in the morning and once in the evening. These geckos stress with handling and should be considered a “hands off” gecko. If captured they will bit strongly. As these bites can be quite painful, it is best to wear strong gloves when handling is necessary. As the vast majority of Tokay geckos are imported and very few are captive bred, wild caught animals may be loaded with parasites. It is recommended to have a veterinarian check for these parasites with a fecal flotation exam.
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if you need any more help, dont be afraid to ask!!
my s/n for AIM is in my advice column, or you could just put it in my inbox!!
good luck!!
*ash*
My 15 year old friend engages often in un-protected sex. No matter how much I tell her to wear a condom, or my god, at least go on birth control, she continues to give herself to random guys, especially under the influence. Recently, she slept over my house and woke up with severe morning sickness. She also became constipated, and complains now constantly about her stomach hurting. She hasn't gotten her period yet either. I called planned parenthood for her and it did nothing. I can't think of anything else it could be but pregnancy, and they want to schedule an appointment, which would mean she would have to tell her mom, which, stubborn as she is, would be a struggle at best. She's my best friend, and I cannot see her do nothing about this situation...any advice?
You should defintaly go with her to the doctor, just you two, to see if she is pregnant or not. dont always believe pregnancy tests. Planned Parenthood is confidential and won't even tell her mom she was there! and if they have to call your friends house, they'll use a fake name like "Michle", pretending to be one of her friends if she doesnt want her mom to know its planned parenthood!(they give you a form to fill out when you go in and make sure yu check the box for that and write in the name you want them to say!!) .. and if she IS pregnant, then Planned Parenthood will help her tell her mom. It will all work out, and you have to get her to stop being with randon guys, or she will find herself dead, raped, or with an STD!!
good luck hope i helped
ash*
Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?
definately give her at least 2 weeks! then start to build yourself up and ask her..
hope i helped:)
good luck
*ash*
Okay my little brother is sooo picky when it comes to eating. he doesnt eat meat what so ever. he lives off of chips and captain cruch cerial! Oh and I cant forget about candy! My point being is he eats all this junk and hes not chubby for his age and height. I know hes only 7 years old but still how can u NOT be chubby and eat junk food everyday. Its not like he runs around cuz hes always in the house playing video games haha. Here I am busting my butt off trying to lose weight because im 16 yrs old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". How is this? Should I be a vegitarrian like him?
first off, 115lbs for 5'4 is awesome!! thats great as it is !!!! And, your little brother hasnt hit puberty yet, so he will stay skinny until his puberty years kick in..the same thing happened to me.. i ate and ate and ate and didnt gain a POUND until puberty kicked in.
hope i helped:) *ash*
i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ?
It will hurt at first cuz its something youre not used to. The tissue is ripping which is normal all the way. It might of hurt bc yes, the tampon may still be dry, or maybe the tissue inside of your vagina is ripping and tearing from the new object inside of you, which is perfectly normal. no worrys, youre fine girl!!
hope i helped:) need anything else, feel free to ask.
*ash*
my names samantha and im 16 b-days in september baby but any way! my question is? ok me and my boyfriend travis just broke up! i dont know why i broke up with him relly i think its because i was a little jeliouse that he talks to my friend mallory a lot! and then ok im pregnant to buthe already knows that! and when we had this fight he started drinking again and ya he kept saying he was gonna sleep with this other girl and then like a couple of days later he called me and he said he was sry and shit and that nothing ever happen!! but today i found out that he relly did sleep with this girl named jennifer...what do i do i mean i love this guy to death but i mean he never told me that he did this and that he slept with her he LIED to my face. and his friend matt had to tell me bcuz he wanted me to know...BUT WHAT DO I DO? hes the father of my baby and u i dont know wheather to like cut him off form talking to e or if i should get back together with him or what!???? im so confused PLZ i need a lot of answers if u guys can help that would be apreciated a lot thanxs.....samantha
i think you 2 should remain friends just for the baby's sake..but hes no type of guy at all if he is going to get a girl pregnant and then go have sex with another girl regardless if you 2 broke up or not...think long and hard about this and make the decision you kno is RIGHT ..not just what you WANT..but dont kick him outa your life forever bc thats not right for the baby AT ALL.
hope i helped..get back to me to let me kno how you're doing.
good luck sweety hang in there!!
*ash*
okay i have a dumb quesion? is this site free? lol i didnt even question it cuz i was too excited about helping other people haha but i was reading something and it said something about fee's? unless its too late at night and im just tierd hahha sorry for my dumbness!
yeppp 100% free!!!
I don't understand the columnist? Am I a columnist and if I'm not how can I be one? I'm just totally confused about this whole thing.
A columnist is someone who answers questions that others have on this site. You can answer anyones question you like by clicking on View Questions on the left hand side of the screen under "give advice"..and after you answer 10 questions, you are automatically listed in the "browse columnists" category, meaning you are listed officially as an advice giver on this site so then ppl can write to you personally asking for your help.
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Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!
Never think that once you start to go out with a guy, the liking part will just fall into place cuz it doesnt!! i tried it!! trust me...i think you should go out with Scott and see if you really do like him based on your instincts...and if you do, then there ya go!! if not, just remain friends.
hope i helped!!:) good luck
*ash*
ok i have like this guy for over a year now and i really like him but hes kinda popular and i am on the lower side of the social chain but hes been single for some time now how do i ask him out and also how can i make it so that nobody likess make fun of me or ihm for it ?!?!?!
try to ask him for something simple at school first, like the answer to a question on a worksheet, or what page the class is reading in the textbook (pretending you are lost and dont kno which page to turn to)....that should at least get him to answer you, and depending on what way he answers, that will show if hes even a nice guy at all!! if he answers nicely, then just slowly start talking to him more and more each day, starting off with something simple and smile at him whenever he looks at you, and things like that. And, if he likes you too, then he'll move foward. But, if he answers you with a cocky attitude when you ask him what page the class is reading, then forget about him cuz yu dont need an ignorant and prejudice guy like that anyways!!!
hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends?
Nothing is wrong with you..i think you just need to find new friends. or maybe you did something that your friends are mad at you and you dont even know. or maybe theyre jealous of you for some reason. try asking your girlfriends what the deal is b4 giving them up.
is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought
Thongs are only used so that you won't have panty lines on your clothes. In some pplz opinions, thongs are slutty bc most girls like to show them off. If you dont show them off, and noone else knoz yur wearing em(except for that special someone!) ..then you'll be totally fine!!!
hope i helped:) good luck and if yu need anything else, dont be afraid to ask!!
*ash*
does any one know where u can get accesories for a kyocera ohantom cell phone?
http://www.cutepcs.com/
http://www.cellularaccessory.com/qualcomm.html
http://www.1800mobiles.com/kyoccelphona.html
hope i helped!!
*ash*
ok.......theres this guy that i've been friends with benifits for a while. i've done things with him twice. the first time he said he used me but the secind time he dint bcuz he was thinkin bout askin me out. then a couple weeks later he goes out with one of my friends but still says he likes me. they broke up a couple days ago and now he wants to get together(hint hint). i like him alot, so much that i feel like im in love with him...lol. but what should i do? should i keep messin around with him or tell him that if were not gunna have a relationship then im not gunna be friends with benifits???? please help
I think that this guy is keeping you on the side lines for a quick make out session. If you are sure he really likes you, go for it, but in my eyes, it looks as if this guy is keeping you on a string so that you will be available anytime he feels horny.
hope i helped..get back to me if you need more help..
*aSh*