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please help:(
My 15 year old friend engages often in un-protected sex. No matter how much I tell her to wear a condom, or my god, at least go on birth control, she continues to give herself to random guys, especially under the influence. Recently, she slept over my house and woke up with severe morning sickness. She also became constipated, and complains now constantly about her stomach hurting. She hasn't gotten her period yet either. I called planned parenthood for her and it did nothing. I can't think of anything else it could be but pregnancy, and they want to schedule an appointment, which would mean she would have to tell her mom, which, stubborn as she is, would be a struggle at best. She's my best friend, and I cannot see her do nothing about this situation...any advice?
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she really doesnt have to tell her mom about going to the planned parenthood... it should be confidential.. but she will have to tell her mom if shes pregnant or wat not.. and if shes not.. i think u really neeed to sit down with ur friend and have a face to face heart to heart friend to friend conversation of how scared u are for her that shes having unprotected sex with random guys and ALLLL the things shes putting herself at risk for!!! if she still doesnt listen.. its outta ur hands.. but u need to keep trying!!!
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You are being such a great friend. Your friend may have to tell her mom, if the morning sickness and constipation continues. Explain to your friend how serious this is. Explain to her that she may have to raise a child, alone and tell her to stop having un-protected sex. She's taking a HUGE risk of getting an STD or AIDS. I hope i helped and good luck to you and your friend.
~Cayd
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well first of she wont have to tell her parents....just go with her to the appointment and help her through this
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well so far ur foin exactly wat ne good friend would do. and ur absolutly rite she will hav 2 buck up up and tell her parents. just stay w/ her thru this ruff time in her life. and always remeber: "It is not out abilities thta show who we truly are, it is outr choices." chose wisley ;)
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Well if she is ur best friend, all u can give is love and support, pregnancy's are hard, just ask her if she will do a favor for u and take a pregnact test, like EPT or something, just to see if she is pregnant or if its something else, wich more than likely its shes pregnant. I hope this helps, Can u rate me good?
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mayb you should tell her mom i mean if its gonna affect her life then mayb its for the best or mayb u should talk to ur friend about it i mean its her life if she wont do it then u cant force her to but u should seriously talk to her about talking to her mom about it and if she doesnt maybe its best if you tell her mom n tell her mom not to tell it was u i have no idea what else to say because i have never been in a situation like this.. well i hope i kinda helpedd!! good luck hun!
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she doesn't have to tell her mom. go to a free clinic and make an appointment to see a doctor. she can also get cheap birth control there.
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Get her a pregnancy test. Get her checked for stds to. I hope everything works out good.
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if she doesn't get her period in the next week, either you or your friend tell her mom. She needs professional help to tell her whats happing to her. If you guys don't want to tell her mother yet, go to the drug store,(rite aid, longs drugs store...) and buy first response.
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Tell r to tell her mom for the last time. If she refuses, then you need to tell her mom yourself. If she pregnant, she is going to need all the help she can get, and by telling her mom, atleast youll be on her side. She may not see it that way, and be calling you things that you got over in elementary school, but you should. Shell understand later. And you need to tell her mom now so that if she is in fact pregnant, then her mom can start preparing her. The sooner you talk to them, the better. If you friend decides to tell her mom, go with her. But just as support. There will be a certain time when you feel u need to leave, and that will probably be your cue to leave. Have fun babysitting!
Hope I helped so late at night , ALissa
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Yea, it definitely sounds that she is pregnant. But first, let her take a few pregancy tests and if they read positive, then just tell her to tell her mom. I know this isn't that much, but I hope I helped :)
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well actually planned parenthood is confidential, so she can go there on her own and take a pregnancy test without her mother knowing. jesus! how old is she? she needs to be more careful. not only could she get pregnant, but she could also get an std or hiv. if i were her iw ould also schedule to get tested for stds and hiv. sometimes you dont get your period because you have an std. unprotected sex is some serious shit. you should always use a condom, especially if you are with multiple partners. if she isnt pregnant, then she should take this as a big sign to be more careful. and if she is then good luck.
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TOTALLY GET HER A PREGNANCY TEST, NO NEED TO WORRY THE STUBBORN BITCH YET, BUT IF IT TURNS OUT THAT SHE IS, TALK ABOUT WHAT WOULD BE THE BEST THING TO DO,&PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, IF SHE IS...&SHE WANTS AN ABORTION, MAKE SURE YOU GO TO A REAL ABORTIONIST... NOT A CHEAP ONE YOU KNOW AS A FRIEND OF A FRIEND, YOU COULD LOSE HER THAT WAY, I WOULD KNOW!!! BUT CHANCES ARE SHES HAVING ALL THE MORNING SICKNESS BECAUSE SHES THINKING SHES PREGGO&IS MAKING HER MIND THINK SO...
LAURYN<3
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You should defintaly go with her to the doctor, just you two, to see if she is pregnant or not. dont always believe pregnancy tests. Planned Parenthood is confidential and won't even tell her mom she was there! and if they have to call your friends house, they'll use a fake name like "Michle", pretending to be one of her friends if she doesnt want her mom to know its planned parenthood!(they give you a form to fill out when you go in and make sure yu check the box for that and write in the name you want them to say!!) .. and if she IS pregnant, then Planned Parenthood will help her tell her mom. It will all work out, and you have to get her to stop being with randon guys, or she will find herself dead, raped, or with an STD!!
good luck hope i helped
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