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this one guy
ok i have like this guy for over a year now and i really like him but hes kinda popular and i am on the lower side of the social chain but hes been single for some time now how do i ask him out and also how can i make it so that nobody likess make fun of me or ihm for it ?!?!?!
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Well, thats tough but it can be done. OK here is what you do.
1. Find out if he likes you, if not the when you ask him out, you might get extreamly made fun of.
2. If he says yes, then go ahead and ask him out , but not in complete public. He might just say no cause he doesnt want to be imbarrassed in front of all of his friends.3. Hopefully live happily ever after.!!! :-D
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try to ask him for something simple at school first, like the answer to a question on a worksheet, or what page the class is reading in the textbook (pretending you are lost and dont kno which page to turn to)....that should at least get him to answer you, and depending on what way he answers, that will show if hes even a nice guy at all!! if he answers nicely, then just slowly start talking to him more and more each day, starting off with something simple and smile at him whenever he looks at you, and things like that. And, if he likes you too, then he'll move foward. But, if he answers you with a cocky attitude when you ask him what page the class is reading, then forget about him cuz yu dont need an ignorant and prejudice guy like that anyways!!!
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I'm assuming your school has dances and whatnot. Ok so lets say your at a dance and you see him, just standing there with maybe some friends. I would say you should walk up, and say jokingly, "wanna dance". Seriously, this works. I've seen it done many a time. Just make sure you get the point across that YOUR JOKING. Next after you're done doing your thing, ask him for his sn. Soon you can get to know him, and maybe go out with him in the future.
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Hey there. Well, I would first get to know him real well .. then I'd ask him out. Who cares about popularity. It's all corporate bull anyways. If anyone makes fun of either one of you guys, fuck em. You shouldn't care about anyone's opinion about you relashinships. If you were suppossed to, then no one would be with the one you truly love.
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just ask him straight out and simple. or if that's a lil uncomfortable, get a close fried to do it for u. and u shouldnt care what ppl think or say. u cant help who u like!! GOOD LUCK! i hope he says yes
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If people make fun of either of you, ignore them. If he can't, he isn't worth it. I think you shouldn't just directly ask him out. Talk to him first, get to know how he really is, see if you can see if he acts differently without his friends around. It's important to know someone before jumping into a relationship.
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Well you can't stop other people from making fun of him, people are going to do what they want. But just be straight up with him. Tell him how you feel!
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ok.. so u like him.. but do u like him enuf 2 take a chance nd just do it? if nebody makez fun of u.. then tell em 2 fuk off nd they suk monkey!! ur gonna be made fun of no matter wut ur social status is.. itz either those dudez got nuttin 2 do or they retarded.. or they just jealous.. but shud u rilly care wat they think? if he'z single.. go ahead nd do it.. popularity aint nothin but a word.. remember that...
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1st off, fuck what people think. if people have a problem with him liking you, they can lick your asses. as far as im concerned there is no top and bottom of the social chain. forget all that popularity shit. if you wanna be in a relationship, that is a mature thing, all that popularity bullshit is childish. just tell this guy, you like him, and want to try things out, hang out one day and do something. if acts like hes too good for you, then forget him, hes not worth it.
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im him saying, if i was...(.. will be a description of you) would you go out with me? And if he says yes, then the next day, talk to him, get to know him, and then ask him. If you gradually ask him, but dont totally stalk him, you might get something going!!
Hope I helped ALissa
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