Well, my question is very odd, but i need help coping with the fact that i have oversized ears. They are around...2.6inches, and they look huge on me. I can never wear my hair up, and someone always comments on them and stares. I just don't know what to do and i need some advice. Also, i'm 14 and i havent even had my period and i have small boobs!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
Karen answered Friday August 20 2004, 9:32 pm: Hey don't worry, if people don't like you because of your physical appearance, then they are not worth your time. You're just a late bloomer. Some girls start getting their periods around the age of 9 and some girls don't even start getting their periods until they're 18. Trust me, you don't wanna get your period. You're gonna get a lot of cramps and you're gonna PMS a lot too. Your boobs will start growing bigger once you hit puberty and when you start getting your period. You can't do anything with your ears. You were born with them and they are never going to change. Just think, some people have big noses. You are not the only one out there with big ears. I hope I helped and if you have any other questions, just drop them in my inbox and I'll be glad to answer them :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
sweetsurrender answered Friday August 20 2004, 9:27 pm: Ah, the wonderful genetic system. It's not your fault that you have larger ears. It should not be your problem that people care. Do you want to wear your hair up? Wear it up! More power to ya. Be optimistic, try to be a positive person, try being kind, and really put an effort into everything. If you focus on being a friendly, helpful person; you may forget about your ears..and find some friends who care about more than the way you look.
As for being fourteen and having small boobs/ no period...Periods aren't all they are cracked up to be. Hundreds of perfectly normal girls out there don't get theirs until 16 or 17. As for boobs? Again with the genetics. Do what you want with your life..because nobody else will have to deal with the consequenses. [ sweetsurrender's advice column | Ask sweetsurrender A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday August 20 2004, 9:05 pm: these are things you cant do anything about. your ears, are just your ears. you are born with them, they are stuck like that. deal with it, dont feel all bad about it. we are not meant to all look the same. and as for your boobs, you are only 14, you have plenty of time for them to grow, especially if you havent even had your period yet. and as for that, your period will come when it does. once again we are all different. every girl has her own time. some get it as early as 9 and some get it as late as 20. please dont stress these apperarance issues, you are just gonna drive yourself crazy. none of these things are a big deal. you are completely fine and normal. :) [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
mshonest4eva answered Friday August 20 2004, 8:58 pm: You should never fret about something like that. If you see someone staring at you, go over and be like "Hey are you staring at me? I do that all the time in the mirror!" Just be natural, and you know what, live a little. WEAR YOUR HAIR UP as practice. It'll be like getting over a fear. You never know, your body might porportion out right!
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