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Shaving for the first time sex?
I'm sorry this might sound strange but my friend is very nervous about her first time.
Any guys and girls that could reply to this would be awesome!
Do girls have to shave before they do it the first time? And if they do...how so?
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I dnt think they do cos men dnt. If she has a lot of hair then she shud trim it but it depends on what her guy likes
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You don't HAVE to do anything. Some guys like girls to shave, but if the guy really cares about the girl, he won't mind if she's shaved or not. Now, if you((or your friend)) want to shave, you need to be very careful. Any kind of nick or cut hurts *really* bad down there. Shave with the growth of hair and use cream or something.
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You don't have to shave anything. There is no reason to, unless you, or your partner, likes the look of it. I recommend just keeping the hedges trimmed, not letting them get too long and keeping your bikini line trimmed. Believe me, any boy who's seeing vagina for the first time will be too excited to care whether or not you're perfectly groomed. Once you are in a steady relationship, preferences as to how your hair is done can be discussed. It belongs there, sister, don't be ashamed of it!
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You don't have to shave if you don't want to, but some guys do prefer it. If she decides to shave, make sure to use a sharp razor + lots of shaving cream, and then some aftershave gel afterwards will help. Just make sure you're ready before you do anything + try to enjoy it =)
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girls don't have to shave if they don't want too. although most guys prefer it, that doesnt mean they have to do it. shaving down there is just like shaving your legs. it's nothing different. but i suggest you use hot water for it!
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hey.. no girls don't have to shave before their first time.. don't do it because the guy wants to if you do decide to.. if you do it, then do it because YOU want to, not to make the guy happy.. alright bye
<3 Nikki
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Girls do NOT have to shave b4 their first time having sex, although it would be a nicer view for the fella that will be seeing it;)
And, first and foremost dont shave because a guy/guys prefer. Shave for yourself. This is what works for me when it comes to shaving....
If it is your first time shaving them trim the hair very short with scissors or a beard trimmer(if one is handy). Then get in the shower and let warm water soak the area. Take a new razor and shave with the hair growth(downward) dont shave over the same area more than twice. Then you can shave against the hair growth(upward) for a smooth feel. After that I put on nonscented lotion and then avoid putting on clothes for about 10 mintues or more. This is the way I have been doing it for years now and it workz pretty well. There is a product called Bikini Zone that I have also been using over the past few months instead of lotion and I love it.
But again dont shave just because it is something guys prefer. There are quite a few guys who do prefer that a girl not shave. It's your personal choice..whatever makes yu feel better about yurself.
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No guys I've ever been with have had a problem with my twat hair. Actually, I did shave it once and it totally freaked out my then-boyfriend, because he felt like he was "fucking a nine-year-old."
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Hey there. Tell her to calm down. No, girls do not have to shave down there unless they want to. Most guys prefer if you do though. lol. Um ... going about it ... okay, if you want a full detailed article, go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ... it's not a porn site, but has excellant advice on sex, and preparing for sex, and contraceptives ... and even some techniques. lol. But for the shirt version of the article, soak yourself in a hot bath for a while. It will soften up the hairs. Then, when you are ready to shave, put a moisterizing shaving gel on there ... prefreably with aloe, and use a new, clean razor and fist, shave downwards, to get the hairs off, and then shave up. Do each row down and up only once to prevent razor burn. Don't shave everyday ... it'll cause razor burn, and after you get out of the tub, put a moisterizer to soften the skin, and baby powder to prevent infection. Rate me please!
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Okay..I was totally against it, but then there was this guy I've known for the LoNgESt timE..and he is the type of friend who sticks up for you and is like a big bro. Hes two years older, which is kinda oDd..but hes soo nice. It isnt that bad..it was totally different than what I expected.. She shouldn't be very nervous..unless its something she doesnt want to do and is being pressured into it. Personally I would shave..but you dont have to..and all you do is take a gel soap and shave..kind of like you shave your legs.
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you dont have to.. some guys prefer it tho. if u do.. then its basically like shaving ur legs.
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I would so be nervous! i mean there is alot of pressure and yOu have so many things running through yOUr head. It is a really good thing if she was to just sit down and relax! Think things through and not worry so much. No yOu do not have to shave, inless yOu would like tOo. I hope I helped! Just tell her to Relax. I am sure everything will be ok.
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If the guy really likes your friend, then he wouldn't care. But I mean, most guys want it to be shaven, because can you imagine your guy going through hair? Ewwww. Haha. So it's not manditory, but it is prefered.
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its perfectly normal for a girl to be nervous her first time. I know I was, I was petrified. No you don't have to shave if you don't want to...its not neccesary but a lot of guys I know like it shaved. Use a razor, shave the hair you don't want there.
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no they do not. some guys prefer a girl who shaves or trims her hairs, but every guy is different. but no you dont HAVE TO to shave before sex.
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No she doesn't have to shave for her first time. Its complely up to her. But if she does decide to she should use a brand new razor, lots of soap or shaving cream and really the skin wet. Shave in little sections at a time and be very careful bc you don't want any cuts.
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