I`m more of a sexual type of girl. I haven't had sex or ever gave oral or had oral but i'm sexual in that kind of way. All my friends tell me I should date older guys because the way i am. My current boyfriend who i like alot isn`t perverted like I want him to be. I told him I don't mind him touching me or feeling me up or anything but he only acts like a perve at rare times. I want him to be more sexual. If i gave permission to any other guy even his best friends they would be all over me.. i just really don't get him and i know he wants to be sexual. Like during a movie he puts his hand up my shirt but it's not all the time, he worrys about making out with me more. I`m 13 and hes 12 turning 13 in February. Should i just date older guys in the future? Thnx for reading I give feedback.. xxOo
woah buddy your a horny lil girl arent ya.. well i think you arent ready for something like this and i really dont see where you need advice at but if you want him to do more make him and if he aint liken it then he'll stop.. and maybe he aint feeling on you cause you have nothing to feel and maybe he wants a girl friend not a sexual friend.. ~*DEZ*~
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my doctor told me i was anemic, but i have no idea what that means. can anyone exaplain it to me?
you have low iron.. i have it too.. but they told me i have it cause i dont eat meat mainly.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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okay theres this reallllly hott guy that i ride with to school EVERYDAY!!! hes gonna be 19 in April and im gonna 16 in September! yesterday we kept talking the whole way to school. today too. well i used to like him earlier in the year.. and now i fell back in love with him. he said he likes me but right now im a lil too young. but all day i had a great feeling something good was gonna happen! but nothing yet. and we kept telling eachother things that we did with other guys (me) and girls (him). he did a few things but i didnt do anything. he asked me y and i told him i wasnt ready. But then i was talkin to my oler sister last night.. and she told me that i should tell him i want to have sex with him. idk if i should or not. I mean.. he said he wants a girl who would "put out" a little every now and then. I would.
I no we're gonna be spending a lot of time together because today and yesterday he asked me since i like working on cars and shit like that if id like to help him build his racer.. that way we can bond and "get to no eachother" more. i told him i would. Like we seriously talk all the time. Plus hes my neighbor. -n- he comes over all the time. Also he said he wants a girl like me who knows mostly everything about him. Plus like i said before. One that puts out a little! He knows i would. I like him ALOT!!!! id do anything for him. But should i talk to him about it? and like the way he feels. and tell him the way i feel about him?
please help me...!!!!
Signed:
Happy yet confused!!!
I think that you should talk to this guy.. and it also sounds like he only wants one thing from you.. dont sound like much like he wants a relationship wit you.. but i think if you really feeling this guy and dont think he'd hurt you then you should go for it.. if yall like eachother then yall should hook up.. hope i helped...~*DEZ*~
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well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do
Those isnt your real friends den.. i understand you dont wanna lose your friends but thats not right them making you choose between them and your boyfriend.. it isnt they choice who you go wit.. its your choice.. dont let your friends choose things for you.. i think you should sit down and talk to all of em together and see whats up for real wit that situation cause they dont really have a reason not to like him it sounds like.. ~*DEZ*~
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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
Sounds kinda sick to me.. but its normal for girls to like older guys and think they hott but not guys old enough to be they daddy... guess thats not normal sorry...~*DEZ*~
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i have a new booyfriend and we are sleeping together but he always comes really quickly. is there anyway i can help him so i can enjoy sex aswel? im over 16 and at first i thought it was because it was because he was just with someone new but its all the time. help!
well if he's on top my boyfriend told me its more pressure on his stuff and makes him wanna come faster.. but he likes when a girl is on top cause it lasts longer and it feels better.. so i would try that if i was you.. and oh yeah it works for him and me so maybe it will for you hope i helped...~*DEZ*~
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I had boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time. currently i have neither. i am 15 year old female and ive fingered,frenched,ate out, a girl and have had same done to me. BUT all ive done with guys is make out and a little fondling from him to my chest area. I think I kinda like girls more at times there more understanding besides gay guys there actually the best friends there caring. but a girl can be more sensitive. so since ive done all this stuff with a girl and little with a guy...im bi right? not lesbian? i want to bi and i feel for both genders. but ive done MUCH more with females. and i love it soooo much. ive frenched countless girls and more than once mainly and ive been eaten out 4 times. a guy has barely got far on me....so i dont even know what im asking in a way...am i a bi or lesbo.....is it wrong to be bi...and how can i be more pleasureful on eating a girl out and how can i show a guy im ready to go further but not have sex?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well many of my friends are bi ive done things wit girls but i havent ate a girl ive gotten ate out.. i thnk your bi not a lesbian.. and jus take control when your wit a guy and show you wanna go further..jus do what you like to a girl.. what ever makes you feel good do it to a female.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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ok so i always like a guy and i always want a bf and then i flirt to make them like me. then i go out with them and like 2 weeks into it or so i stop liking them and want 2 break up with them and after like a month+ i finally break up with them and then i realize taht i still like themand sometimes i go back out with them and sometimes i don't. but then as soon as i don;t have a bf i want 1 again. why do i do this? and how do i stop?
Sounds like your a lonely person.. my friends are like that.. they never hold a relationship or anything.. but their different they blame the guy and make up something to break up wit em and say they loved so much but if they love em so much they wouldnt do that.. well i hope i helped.. i guess your not ready for a stable relationship and wanna see whats out there.. ~*DEZ*~
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ok... i have a wonderful b/f and we don't fool around or nethang which im not that kinda person to fool around like that lets say his name is "todd". Todd is a very funny person and like the attention but then sometimes he can be the sweetest guy ever. the thing is i don;t like how he flirts with all of my best friends which thats jus the way he is but i wish he didn't do that cuz when he talks to them he's like "Hey sexy" and stuff and he doesn't really say jus kiddin, ya know? what should i do?
tell him you dont like it.. and tell him that it bothers you that he does that.. ~*DEZ*~
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guys always use me and then dump me! i am sick of it, i can never have a real relatioship! they just like my looks! what should i do? its not like i give them any sometimes only
Wel they probably get what they want from cause you give it to em then they dump you.. or your not givin em wha they want and they get mad cause you did wit other people you might be rep'd as a hoe hunny....... and you goin out wit assholes it sounds like too sorry if was mean ~*DEZ*~
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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please.
I thnk you should tell him you like him.. jus tell him whats on your mind.. i think he might like you.. ~*DEZ*~
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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do?
Well um tell him how you feel first off.. i mean you cant tell somebody how to get over somebody.. if i had the answer to that i would of told everybody by now.. but like talk to him.. or you can try to move on which i dont think you wanna do that im sure.. but im sorry if i didnt help much tried my best...~*DEZ*~
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ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do??
Guys are like that.. they are very forgetfull.. dont take it personal and like freak out.. ~*DEZ*~
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I am 14 and my boobs wont develope I mean every bodys are already you know and all the guys make phone of me saying like they can play hop scotch on my chest and all I thought about stuffing but I'm afriad what should I do
Your a late bloomer thats all hun.. forget wha guys say to you and dont stuff cause if they realize you dont have something then they will realize that.. then you will really get made fun of.. you jus aint goin to have boobs over night.. so wait youll eventually get em..~*DEZ*~
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?
i think that you should go for it.. my boyfriend is 14 and im 16 which people thinks he's older then me but i get shit from people like hes too young.. but like i think you should go wit him and don't care wha people say.. if you like somebody you shouldnt care how old they are.. age is jus a number.. sounds dumb to say but it is.. at first people might have something to say but they will eventually get over it and not care.. but like i said don't mind what people say and don't let em get to you hun.. ~*DEZ*~
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ok what should you do when you have parents that buy themselves alot of things but nothing for you
Tell your parents how you feel about the whole thing... or you could go out and get a job so you can get things you want.. Hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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there's this guy named jimmy cahill at my sister's school , (he's done the same thing to her last year and now he's doing the same thing again this year ) one day he claimed that he liked my sis , then her best friend Sam l. asked Jimmy if he liked her . but it turned out to be his friends and him playing a joke on her ( my sis dont even want to like him anymore she is VERY mad at him ) do u all agree that she should be mad at Jimmy ? i think wat jimmy did was wrong . but i need to know if she can do something to him , ( u know get back at him )oh by the my sis is a girl and she's 14 and i'm 12 is this weird ???
I think that its messed up what jimmy did to your sister.. but i would get a good lookin girl you know to mess wit him like that.. like say she wants to go wit him then later make him look like a fool.. or you could be mean and say somethings about him and tell alot of people.. hope i helped and good luck... DEZ
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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?
well i dont think it will harm the baby dont stress yourself out hun the baby should be fine and your not going to go in labor early or anything, my sister drank wit my baby niece and my baby niece is fine and my sister was 8 1/2 months pregnant.. so i would think your baby wll be fine...*~DEZ~*
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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!
you making out wit a girl doesnt make you gay.. you was jus goofying off.. and having fun.. i make out wit my friends sometimes.. jus to be goofy but dont think of yourself as somebody bad or nasty or something alot of girls do it..*~DEZ~*
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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?
well ive kissed friends but it wasnt a big thing.. hun i think if you wanna do these things wit a female and dont think bout guys that you are a lesbian but then again it might be something you enjoy and would like to do.. but if you wanna see if you like it wit guys befor you rep your self as a lesbian i think you should..but if you have feelings for her more then friends.. do something bout it.. like make sure you guys are jus people who mess round hook up wit her.. *~DEZ~*
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