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please help!!!
well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do
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Men's rule of thumb, Bros before Hoes... but honestly I was a recluse for nearly 3 years while I dated one girl who didn't mesh well with my pals-- so I would say logically doing anything to maintain your friendships is always the most sound advice. Doing whatever it take to keep the boy iswhat I'd actually do... not advise, but do.
In honesty, you should be able to level with your friends and say to them, look I'm not going to dump him- but our friendship is too strong to let that ruin what we have, isn't it?
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tell ur friends how much you like him...then keep him...if u really like him
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well.. i would find out why they dont like him.. like.. if they dont bcuz he cheats or whatever.. then yeah.. i would thynk about itt.. but.. like.. if its cuz they just thynk hes stupid or whatever.. tell ur friends to get over it.. OH! and if they say hes cheating on you.. make sure he is.. like.. find out from other people too.. beause.. one time.. i believed mai VERY BEST friend.. and she was lying.. just so that she could go out with him a week later :/... so yeaahh.. find out for sureee
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Well..first of all, your friends should understand that you like them and i dont think they are true friends if they dont understand that..
However
guys come and go, and friendship seems to last longer, so, do you think you and your boyfriend are going to be together for a while? because if you arent, then in the end you would have lost 2 friends and a guy...
Choose wisely
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tell your friends that they have to respect your intrest and what you like or else they are really good friends so you might want to think whats more worthy of your trust.
tell me what you decide
luv Britt
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you should tell your friends that you really love him. and go with your heart. Its really there problem if they dont like him.
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EASY! Chiks before Dicks!
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dont brake up with him because of what your friends say. you should be able to make your own decisions without your friens telling you what to do. try and make them see why you like him so much and then maybe they can learn to like him to.
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well thats kind of like my life..but i really aint doing anything about it. What i should do is...DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM if u really do like him and you think he's worth it. Just tell your friends your sorry but they have to deal with you liking him, maybe if they start to like him you's can all hang out. Hope i helped
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well, to tell you the truth, i was in this same posistion not that long ago. i say that you talk to yer b/f and to your friends. tell your friends what he means to you and why. thats what i did. my friends understood me just fine when i explained it to them. g'luck! *Katie
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tell your friends you dumped him then tell your boyfriend ur plan so he can fake not going out with you when hes around your friends
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if their true friends they will be friends with you no matter what..base your anwser to dumping him on yourself not your friends
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Those isnt your real friends den.. i understand you dont wanna lose your friends but thats not right them making you choose between them and your boyfriend.. it isnt they choice who you go wit.. its your choice.. dont let your friends choose things for you.. i think you should sit down and talk to all of em together and see whats up for real wit that situation cause they dont really have a reason not to like him it sounds like.. ~*DEZ*~
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hey hun its a hard time but u really need to get your priorities striaight u like this boy so keep going out with him and if your friends dump you then they arent very good friends so go out and get some new friends that wont treat you like that i hope i helped please rate
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You cannot let your friends dictate how you live your life. If this guy treats you right, respects and loves you and you two are happy together stay with him. Ask your friends why they dont like him. Be open to listening to their opinions about him. Perhaps you can change their opinion of him by telling them all of the wonderful aspects of your relationship. Perhaps not. The biggest point of this is, if your friends love and respect YOU, they will not try to ruin a perfectly good relationship that you have because of their own opinions/desires. There is a chance that they are unhappy with him because your being with him means that they get less of you so try to spend quality time with them whenever possible. Let them know that they are still important in your life by showing them instead of just telling them. Be honest with them and Im sure that everything will work out for the best. Best Wishes!
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Talk with your friends. Ask them why dont like your guy friend. If they say something like he's a bad person, and things like that nature. Then reassure them that he is a good person, and if something happens then its going to be on you. But since they are your friends they have to just be there and support you if you make mistakes..thats what a friend is there for. I dont think your gonna lose your friends babe! If they are true friends then they will be there for you reguardless!
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Have a talk with your friends. Tell them this guy really makes you happy and you want them to be happy for you. Let them know you'll always have time to hang with them and he'll never get in the way of the friendship between the 3 of you. Ask them to please understand and that your really happy. See their reaction. If they seem to understand you..then great! But if they still want you to break up with him..you only have a few choices.
(A) Ignore them and keep with ur bf and keep your friends. When they bring him up continue to defend him and ask WHY they are so much against him
(B) break up with your bf. Still be friends or friends with benefits
(C) stand up to your friends and tell them to stop harassing you.
I personally would choose A because i would hate it to have to break up with someone just because they dont like him. That isnt right! PLus...these girls are supposed to be your friend. Its ok to voice their opinion..but they shouldnt harass you about him.
hope i helped
-melissa==
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