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Boyfriend not a perve..
I`m more of a sexual type of girl. I haven't had sex or ever gave oral or had oral but i'm sexual in that kind of way. All my friends tell me I should date older guys because the way i am. My current boyfriend who i like alot isn`t perverted like I want him to be. I told him I don't mind him touching me or feeling me up or anything but he only acts like a perve at rare times. I want him to be more sexual. If i gave permission to any other guy even his best friends they would be all over me.. i just really don't get him and i know he wants to be sexual. Like during a movie he puts his hand up my shirt but it's not all the time, he worrys about making out with me more. I`m 13 and hes 12 turning 13 in February. Should i just date older guys in the future? Thnx for reading I give feedback.. xxOo
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First of all, be grateful that your boy doesn't want to be a perve! That means he respects you, and you need to have respect for yourself as well. Don't date older guys so they will get in your pants, that's wrong and you are letting them use you. Think about how lucky you are. If you like this guy you can wait for him. If not, then do what you want but be careful and don't get into trouble. ♥
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You are seriously only 13?!? And your boyfriend is only 12!!?? I can see why he doesn't want to do all that stuff you described! Maybe you are addicted to sex and you need to see a therapist. You need to calm down and not be so sexual. You are only 13!! When I was 13 I wasn't even close to thinking the way you are thinking. You are letting his friends know that you are easy. I do not blame your boyfriend not wanting to do anything with you because you come off to me as a being someone who wants sexual things done to you from many boys and I think that you know what I am talking about. You need to take things slower and not be so "Do this to me and do that to me." My advice is stay away from boys for another couple of years and you should be fine.
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Well just talk to him tell him you think you want to take the relationship to the next step. Like being more sexually active, or you make the move thats the only thing. And no you dont need to date older guys in the future..younger guys in your grade could be like that too just you gotta find him!
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woah buddy your a horny lil girl arent ya.. well i think you arent ready for something like this and i really dont see where you need advice at but if you want him to do more make him and if he aint liken it then he'll stop.. and maybe he aint feeling on you cause you have nothing to feel and maybe he wants a girl friend not a sexual friend.. ~*DEZ*~
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You are way to young to be doing "sexual stuff", especially since you still call it perverted. Obviously you aren't ready to do it if you can't accept as normal, and are embarrassed it's something you want to do. Wait until you are older, and definitly do not date older guys right now- statutory rape anyone?
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maybe im a goody two shoes or something but i think you're a little young to be worrying about that. dating older guys might not be the best idea either. just watch out doll, dont get yourself in a situation that you can't get out of. that's how girls get raped. trust me, you have plenty of time to be like that, but honestly... idk i just don't agree with a 13 year old wanting to be sexual. im turning 17 and i roll my eyes at some of my friends... so please, take it slow. you might regret it later. sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but it's my honest opinion... and im really not hear for the ratings. .:.curbside prophet.:.
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uhh he's 12 freakin years old!! he probibly has never done any of this stuff!! don't be afriad to tell him how you feel .. remember hes ur boyfriend!! yall should be able to talk about this kind of stuff.. and maybe he's a goody goody who knows... why don't you try dateing a 14-15 year old guy that has had experience if you want to be sexual... other wise u just have to suck it up and deal with it if you liek him that much
hope i helped
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hes too good for you.
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hes probably afraid to do something wrong that you wont like and then you would break up with him, in the beginning of a relationship and the other gives you permission to do something, usually the others reaction is kinda stalled because they are afraid to do something stupid, dont worry about it, later in the realtionship things will begin to move on and i'm sure he will be like that, you both are still young and just take it slow, dont make him don things he doesn't want to do! x0 Renee
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Well since he's still young, he's probably never eben exposed to or asked to do any of that stuff. Just give him time and he'll start to like it. But if he does do it, just tell him that you like it and you wish he did it more. Sorry ive never been in that situation but thats all i cud think of! * Love Always, Ali *
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